Chapter 1079 After taking the child to my daughter, I am ready to bring the child to my son
Time flies quickly, and in less than half a month, the due date of daughter-in-law Zhang Wei has arrived.
In addition to preparing clothes, bottles, milk powder, diapers and other things for her grandchildren or granddaughters who are about to arrive, Dongmei also prepared the house for her daughter-in-law Zhang Wei.
At the same time, Dongmei felt that it was time for her to say goodbye to her daughter Nana.
Since Nana gave birth to her granddaughter Guigui, Dongmei has been helping her daughter take care of the child.
In a blink of an eye, Guigui will soon be one and a half years old, and it is time for him to take care of his son Taotao.
Dongmei originally wanted to tell Nana about this earlier, but she always felt that Nana didn't seem to want to let her go.
After hesitating for a long time, Dongmei finally mustered up the courage and came to Nana.
Nana is holding a bottle and breastfeeding Guigui.
She saw her mother come in, and hurriedly said, "Mom, you have been tired all day, and now, I am off work, you should sit down and have a good rest." ”
Guigui is very well-behaved, and he is very attentive to breastfeeding.
Dongmei looked at Guigui and then at Nana, and she whispered:
"Nana, your brother's child is also about to be born, and I will ...... it too"
Suddenly, halfway through the words, Dongmei couldn't go on.
After all, Guigui was brought to the present by himself since he was a child, so what to say, his grandmother also has feelings for Guigui.
Nana understood what her mother meant, and she said, "Mom, I know you, and I'm going to take care of my brother's baby again......"
Nana's eyes were red, and it was clear that she was very reluctant to let her mother go.
Dongmei looked at Nana, and she said helplessly:
"Nana, it's not that I don't want to give you a baby......
The point is, your brother is about to give birth, and there really is no one to take his child except me......"
In Dongmei's words, she was both reluctant and helpless.
Zhang Wei has three brothers and sisters, and she has an older brother and an older sister.
Therefore, Zhang Wei's mother not only has to open a hotel, but also takes care of her brother's children, and has no spare time to take care of Zhang Wei's children.
And Zhang Wei's father is a three-wheeled motorcycle driver, who is busy running a sports car every day to support his family, and he has no time to help Zhang Wei take care of his children.
Therefore, the burden of taking care of children fell on Dongmei again.
At this time, Dongmei was already fifty-five years old.
Her body was already weakened due to diabetes, the torment of this chronic disease.
Raising children is a tiring job that requires staying up late.
Dongmei was originally going to give Nana and bring Guigui to the age of three, and then have a good rest.
Now, her son's child is about to be born again, and Dongmei not only has no time to rest, but also has to continue to work hard.
Dongmei saw that Nana didn't speak, so she explained to Nana:
"Nana, it's not that mom doesn't want to bring you a child......
It's just that if I don't take the children for Taotao, their children, there really no one will bring them......"
Dongmei knows that the girls of today are far inferior to the women of their time.
The women of Dongmei's time, the mother-in-law and father-in-law at home, were busy with endless work in the field, and after they gave birth, they not only made do with the confinement themselves, but also had to take care of the children.
Today's girls, whether they are born in the 80s or 90s, they can't take care of their children alone.
If there is no help from the mother-in-law, then they can only invite a confinement lady or enter the confinement center.
Dongmei knows that her son Taotao is a lowest-level oil worker.
He simply didn't have the money to hire a confinement wife, or let his daughter-in-law Zhang Wei enter the confinement center.
Therefore, as a mother-in-law, it is really an unshirkable task to take care of her daughter-in-law in confinement and bring her grandson.
Nana understood her mother very well, she said:
"Mom, go and take care of the baby for my brother.
It's not that I don't want you to go, I'm afraid you'll be too tired. “
Hearing this, Dongmei smiled and sighed, she said:
"Tired, it doesn't matter, as long as the child is healthy and healthy, Taotao and his daughter-in-law live a happy life, it's done. “
After finishing speaking, Dongmei said to Nana worriedly:
"Nana, after I'm gone, you can only invite your mother-in-law over.
Otherwise, when you go to work, who will take care of your children at home?"
Although Fang Fang's mother had already helped Nana decorate the house, Nana didn't appreciate it.
She never thought about being with Fang Fang's mother to take care of the children.
She said, "Invite her, an old witch, I might as well pay for a babysitter to take care of the children." “
Dongmei knows that Nana has the money to hire a nanny.
However, even though her daughter has the money to hire a nanny, Dongmei still suggests that Nana let her mother-in-law take care of the child.
She said: "Nana, the current nanny, is not at the same level.
It's not like you haven't seen it on TV, there are some bad nannies, and they feed their children sleeping pills, and they beat their children, and you are not at home, and you give the children to the nanny, are you relieved?"
Hearing this, Nana's eyes widened, she really didn't think of this.
Dongmei continued:
"I know you don't get along with your mother-in-law.
However, you have to bear with it at least for the sake of your children, right?
Even if Fang Fang's mother is bad, she is at least your mother-in-law, and you are the child's grandmother.
You went to work and handed over the child to grandma, you can rest assured......"
Nana listened to her mother's words, and she also felt reasonable.
Dongmei continued:
"I know that your mother-in-law has hurt you deeply.
However, you have to be a smart person who knows how to ignore past suspicions and let go of hatred.
Even if you're just for your children, you have to have a good relationship with your mother-in-law.
After all, she is her own person, your child's grandmother, and she must be your child's right-hand man......
Besides, your child will be a year and a half old now, which is much easier than when he was born......
Invite your mother-in-law over......
Besides, our two families, your father goes to work, your father-in-law goes to work, I want to take care of the children for your brother, only your mother-in-law is idle......
I see, there is really no one idle but her......"
After listening for a long time, Nana finally got her senses.
She said, "But, after all, I had a deep conflict with her before, how can I invite her over?"
Hearing that Nana was enlightened, Dongmei immediately said:
"That's easy!
Didn't your mother-in-law already decorate the house at No. 3 Windy City for you?
You go to the new house in the name of looking at the house.
Then, you implicitly tell her what you mean.
I believe that your mother-in-law is a wise person, and she will definitely understand it. “
Last time, when Nana's mother-in-law came to the provincial capital to decorate Nana's house, Dongmei also specially poured wind in Fang Fang's mother.
Dongmei told Fang Fang's mother that after she renovated the house, she would temporarily live in the provincial capital and not leave.
Fang Fang's mother didn't understand, she said:
"After I renovated the house for Nana, if Nana dislikes the smell of formaldehyde too strong, then I will let my daughter live in it first, after all, she works in the provincial capital, and there is no place to live.
I'm an old woman, what are you doing in the provincial capital?"
When Dongmei heard Fang Fang's mother, she didn't understand what she meant, so she said clearly:
"Mother-in-law, what do I mean by letting you live in the provincial capital......
My son Taotao's child is also born soon, and I am going to take care of the child for my son......
Hearing this, Fang Fang's mother turned her head to look at Dongmei and said:
"Ah, you're going to take care of your son's child, who will take Nana's child?"
Dongmei pointed at Fang Fang's mother and said:
"Either you go and bring your granddaughter, or, let Nana and Fang Fang hire a nanny, you choose?"
Fang Fang's mother asked about the price of hiring a nanny, and she said:
"Let's hire a nanny with children in our provincial capital, how much does it cost to hire a nanny with children now?"
Dongmei deliberately said that the price was very high, she said: "At least eight thousand." “
Hearing the eight thousand, Fang Fang's mother almost fainted.
She couldn't believe it and said:
"No, I remember that in the past, there was a daughter-in-law in our village who didn't have a mother-in-law, and she hired a nanny to come over, and her salary was only 1,000 yuan a month.
Why is it so expensive now?"