Chapter 1036: Three Views, Refreshed Again
At noon, Dongmei made lunch.
After she brought the food to the table, she waited for Fang Fang's mother to come over to eat.
However, after waiting for three minutes, Fang Fang's mother still didn't come over.
So, Dongmei got up and came to Fang Fang's mother's bedroom.
When she was about to knock on the door and call Fang Fang's mother for dinner, she suddenly heard Fang Fang's mother calling.
Fang Fang's mother has a habit of making phone calls, that is, she likes to put hands-free.
Therefore, in the room, Dong Mei heard the conversation between Fang Fang and Fang Fang's father clearly.
I saw that Fang Fang's mother was on the phone, complaining to Fang Fang's father, saying: "People defend the country, smell the chickens and dance every morning......"
Halfway through the hearing, Dong Meixin said, what, Weiguo still has this ability?
So, Dongmei didn't knock on the door, and she continued to listen.
"You say that people defend the country and get up a day early, but people get up early every morning. ”
Hearing this, Dong Meixin said that if Wei Guo didn't get up early, he couldn't help it, after all, there were so many people in the family, and they were still waiting for him to do hygiene.
Fang Fang's father on the other side of the phone said in surprise: "Does Weiguo get up early every morning?"
Fang Fang said in a firm tone: "Nonsense, every morning, Weiguo not only gets up early, but also helps his wife with sanitation and breakfast......
What about you, sleep at home every day, and when I don't cook the meal and bring it to your bedside......
You got up after eating......"
Fang Fang's mother compared the difference between Fang Fang's father and Wei Guo, she really felt that she was the same man, how could one be in the sky and the other on the ground.
Fang Fang's father on the other side of the phone said in disbelief: "No, Weiguo, a petroleum engineer, still puts his lower body down and takes the initiative to take on the housework at home?"
In the eyes of Fang Fang's father, he felt that the more capable a man was, the bigger the shelf should be, and the more he should have a status in the family.
Not to mention housework, even eating and drinking, then you must also have a wife to serve you.
Fang Fang's mother scolded Fang Fang's father and said, "Hey, I don't know, how to scold you?"
You are a man with no skills, you are at home all day, and you are still acting like an uncle, opening your mouth when you eat, and stretching out your hands when you are dressed......
And what about people defending the country, such a capable man, such a rich man, his figure is so low......"
Listening to Fang Fang's mother's words, Fang Fang's father felt very incredible.
He said, "But the men in our village are all men like me......"
The men in Fangfang Village are generally machismo, not to mention helping their wives with housework, even if they are drunk and beat their wives, there are also many people.
Fang Fang's mother summed up and said, "Hey, I didn't know before, but I know now that the more capable a man is, the more he loves his wife, and the more he can put down his body......
The more educated a man is, the more considerate he is for women and the more he is able to share the burden for her......
And people like you, who have not received much education, feel that machismo is a matter of course......
On the contrary, I feel that men should be happy, and women should serve men humbly......"
Fang Fang's father listened to Fang Fang's mother's words, and he said: "It seems that in the future, I will have to learn from Weiguo." ”
Fang Fang's mother said: "Don't just study, it's just to worship." ”
Hearing this, Fang Fang's father smiled and said, "It seems that it is the right place to put you in Dongmei's house." ”
Fang Fang's mother said: "Don't just put it right, it just makes me reacquaint myself, men at different levels." ”
Hearing that Fang Fang's mother was about to praise Wei Guo, Fang Fang's father jokingly said: "Since you say Wei Guo so well, then you just have to deal with Wei Guo, don't be coarse with me, a rural boss." ”
Fang Fang's mother said unceremoniously: "I didn't know when I was young, I always felt that the more capable a man, the more educated a man, he would definitely put himself high, and the more difficult it was to approach......
But now, I realize that I was completely wrong in my judgment, and it happened to be the opposite.
The more educated and capable men are, the more approachable they are, and the more considerate they are about women......
On the contrary, men like you, who have no ability, no culture, and drink and play mahjong in the countryside all year round, don't take us women seriously......"
Fang Fang's father listened to his wife's criticism of himself, he simply took a step back and said, "Then I'm here this week, so I can ask Weiguo for advice......
Dongmei was at the door and stood for more than ten minutes.
She was going to wait for Fang Fang's mother, and after she finished speaking, she asked her to eat.
However, Dongmei waited for a long time, but she couldn't wait for Fang Fang's mother to hang up the phone.
So, Dongmei knocked on the door and said, "Old girl, it's time to eat." ”
Hearing that it was time to eat, Fang Fang's mother hung up the phone with her husband.
As soon as Fang Fang's mother came out, she praised Wei Guo in person.
She repeated what she had told Fang Fang's father just now to Dongmei and Weiguo.
When Wei Guo heard Fang Fang's mother's words, he was simply stunned.
He never thought that cleaning and tidying up the housework, these things that seemed to him were insignificant, and they could surprise Fang Fang's mother so much.
Wei Guo feels that men are human beings, women are also human beings, and both husband and wife, if they just blindly keep one party busy and the other rest, it will definitely be discordant.
Therefore, Wei Guo did his own housework as much as he could.
When Dongmei heard Fang Fang's mother, she was about to praise Wei Guo, she told Fang Fang's mother, and said, "Hey, Wei Guo is just the tip of the iceberg, you haven't seen it yet, what about the better man in our unit." ”
Fang Fang's mother said while eating rice and shredded potatoes: "Ah, no, there are better men in this world than Weiguo." ”
Obviously, Fang Fang's mother, a woman who has always focused on her village, feels that there will definitely be no better man like Wei Guo in this world.
Dongmei has just had a tooth filling in her mouth, and she is always sticky to vegetables.
She took a sip of water and said, "Weiguo's classmate, Rao Li, is a manager and a department-level cadre......
Not only do they sweep and mop the floor at home, but they also cook ......"
Hearing that a manager can be like this in family life, Fang Fang's mother's three views were refreshed again.
She felt incredible and said: "Dongmei, when you say this, the more advanced a man is, the better he is." ”
Dongmei nodded and said, "That's for sure, do you still need to ask?"
Hearing this, Fang Fang's mother suddenly opened her mouth.
She said: "Since this is the case, then I will ask our family Fang Juan, when we look for a partner in the future, we must find one, the manager or boss of your unit, it will definitely be good for our family Fang Juan." ”
Hearing this, Dongmei felt that Fang Fang's mother was quite high-minded, and she actually wanted to find a manager for her daughter.
She said: "A man can fight to the position of manager, to say the least, he is forty, you should be practical and find a suitable son-in-law for your daughter." ”
Hearing this, Fang Fang's mother begged Dongmei, saying, "Dongmei, do you have it, depending on your unit, if there is a suitable boy for our family Fang Juan, just introduce her to one." ”
Hearing that Fang Fang's mother asked her to introduce her partner, Dongmei immediately found an excuse to refuse, saying, "Hey, the boys in this unit, after they are generally married, they are separated from each other.
Moreover, the divorce rate is still high, so you let Fang Juan find a mother-in-law to marry in your village, and you can get it. ”
Dongmei knew that Fang Fang's mother was treacherous and cunning.
She is really afraid that if she is a matchmaker, she will harm other boys.
Hearing that Dongmei didn't want to introduce Fang Juan to the oil field, Fang Fang's mother said unhappily: "Hey, our family Fang Juan, on the Internet, I talked to myself about a partner, in Lanzhou, it's too far."
We don't agree, but Fang Juan is willing. ”
Hearing this, Dongmei knew that Fang Fang's mother must be disgusted with poverty and love wealth.
If someone is a boy and has a lot of money, even at the ends of the earth, she will not dislike others.
Dongmei persuaded Fang Fang's mother and said, "Hey, don't force it on the matter of marriage, let it be."
If there is fate, it will be done.
If there is no fate, then no matter how good it is, it can't be negotiated. ”