Chapter 1239: Giving birth to two daughters is the king's way
Wang Xue'e sighed in front of Dongmei and said:
"In October, my youngest son is about to give birth to a second child. ”
Hearing that Wang Xue'e's second son was about to give birth to a second child, Dongmei felt that this was a good thing.
However, since it is a good thing and there are many sons and blessings, how can Wang Xue'e not be happy?
So, Dongmei asked in surprise:
"I asked my son and daughter-in-law to have a second child, and they didn't give you a second child.
Your son quietly gave birth to a second child for you, how can you still be unhappy?
Don't you know how happy you are to have many children and many blessings?"
Wang Xue'e said with suffering:
"Coincidentally, when we don't have grandchildren, I wish I had two sons and give us a grandson.
When I had grandchildren, the big ones were not brought out, and the small ones were born again.
Now, big and small pieces of bands,
Don't say that two people with children, that is, four people with children, they are too busy,
But now, not only is the younger son going to have a second child, but the eldest son is also going to have a second child.
You say, with my body, my body, and my spirit, can I give two sons and four children at one time?"
Listening to Wang Xue'e's words, Dongmei's eyes immediately widened.
She couldn't believe it and said:
"Didn't you say that your second son's daughter-in-law is going to give birth to a second child in October?
Why is your eldest son's daughter-in-law going to have a second child?"
Wang Xue'e said with a sad face:
"You said that it was a coincidence, my son's second child, the due date is in early October,
My eldest son's second child is due at the end of October. ”
Hearing that in October, Wang Xue'e actually wanted two grandchildren, Dongmei looked at the six-month-old grandson Wang Xue'e was holding in her arms, and then thought about Wang Chaoying, who took care of her one-year-old granddaughter......
It's really hard for Dongmei to imagine how two elderly people who are almost 60 years old should take care of their four little babies?
Wang Xue'e continued:
"At the beginning, the daughter-in-law of the second son Wang Tao, when she was just pregnant with her second child, the two of them didn't want it.
However, Wang Chaoying is a very kind and kind person,
He persuaded his son and daughter-in-law that since she was pregnant, she would give birth, after all, it was a small life, and if you beat her out, it would simply kill a small life......
At that time, I disagreed, after all, I knew that Zhang Ru, the daughter-in-law of my eldest son, was the only daughter in the family, and she was going to have a second child anyway.
So I thought, no matter how much it drops, I will wait for Zhang Ru to give birth to the second child, and we will give it to the old couple, she will take care of the child a little bigger, and it will not be too late for the second son to have a second child......
It's good now, the second son and the eldest son, their second child, were born together,
How can you manage me and Wang Chaoying, two people who are sick?"
Dongmei and Wang Xue'e have been good sisters for more than 30 years.
Therefore, when she saw Wang Xue'e worried, she was also very sad in her heart.
So, Dongmei gave Wang Xue an idea and said:
"Since you can't bring four children,
Then you two can simply call the two daughters-in-law over and let them be young people to help you take care of the children together.
In this way, I should be able to get busy. ”
Listening to Dongmei's words, Wang Xue'e let out a long sigh and said:
"Young people today are different from the young people of our time.
The young people of our time not only had to give birth to children, take care of children, but also work in the fields with their parents-in-law.
It's over, and I have to take care of my parents-in-law.
However, what about young girls nowadays, they are only responsible for giving birth.
It's over, take care of the children, raise the children, take care of the children, etc., don't care, all throw them to the women of our generation......
You said that taking care of children is an extremely tiring thing.
What's more, I have always had problems with my lumbar spine and high blood pressure.
Moreover, Wang Chaoying had diabetes a year ago.
Think about it in the near future, how can we bring these four children down when we are two sick bodies?"
Looking at what happened to Wang Xue'e and Wang Chaoying, Dongmei couldn't help but think of her brother Junli's son Yongyong.
After Yongyong gave birth to a son in his first child, he wanted another daughter.
So, he gave birth to a second child.
However, no one expected that the second child would give birth to two sons.
In this way, there were three sons at once, and the age difference was only a little more than a year.
Yongyong works in the mountains, and his wife also works.
So, they threw their three children to their parents.
Dongmei clearly remembers that her brother and sister-in-law once complained in front of her and said, it's okay to bring a grandchild, don't, find something for yourself, and persuade the children to give you another grandchild.
It's not good, three grandchildren with it, that's really a fatal thing.
couldn't help but feel sorry for Wang Xue'e suddenly.
Dongmei continued to give Wang Xue'e ideas, saying:
"Since young people don't bring children, then you can ask your in-laws to come over and take care of the children with you......"
Hearing her in-laws, Wang Xue'e thought for a while and said:
"Zhang Ru's mother had a good relationship with me.
However, because of this matter of raising children, I am not happy.
Now, Zhang Ru is going to give birth to a second child again,
I think that if Zhang Ru gives birth to a second child, her parents will designate that they will bring the child to me and Wang Chaoying, so that our old couple can manage it......
As for my second son's daughter-in-law, although her parents are young,
However, they are all working in Guangzhou.
They would rather work to earn money than take care of their daughters.
You say, the two in-laws are unreliable, I don't take care of them with Wang Chaoying, who will take care of the children?"
Listening to Wang Xue'e's words, Dongmei felt extremely difficult.
It is hard for her to imagine how Wang Xue'e and Wang Chaoying, who are sick, can do it and bring up their four grandchildren.
couldn't help but feel envious of Dongmei, Hongxia among the good sisters.
Hongxia gave birth to two daughters.
After the two daughters got married, they had father-in-law and mother-in-law to take care of the children.
Therefore, Hongxia only occasionally went over to help,
Most of her time is spent touring the mountains and rivers and enjoying life.
And Wang Xue'e, who is also two children, but two sons,
However, they have suffered such a huge burden and responsibility.
Compared with Hongxia's all-day tour, Wang Xue'e is at home all day long, busy with her two sons and children.
Thinking of this, Dongmei couldn't help but sigh:
It is said that it is good to have a son, and it is said that having two sons will give birth to the old man in the future, and the old man will have something to rely on and support.
However, now facts have proved that having two daughters is the king.
Giving birth to two daughters is the real old man who has something to support and rely on.
Think about Song Nian's daughter-in-law among several good sisters,
Like Hongxia, she also gave birth to two daughters.
In the early 90s, when I was at the Ganquan base, when several good sisters got together together,
At that time, everyone was very envious of Wang Xue'e and envied her for being able to give birth to two sons.
And Hongxia and Song Nian's daughter-in-law are particularly inferior, because they want to have sons, but they both give birth to daughters.
But now, Hongxia travels all day long, enjoying life,
Song Nian's daughter-in-law also runs around all day long, not worrying about bringing grandchildren, not worrying about money, and not worrying about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
There is no way, since the two daughters-in-law do not take care of the children, and the in-laws do not help take care of the children, then Wang Chaoying and Wang Xue'e can only bring them personally......
It's just that, fortunately, they are financially well-off and can ask the confinement lady to come over to help......