Jia Yuqi's mother, who was slapped twice, covered her face and said, "Dongmei, how do you beat people?"

Dongmei said: "I'm just beating someone, what's wrong?"

Seeing Jia Yuqi's mother being beaten, Huang Gang's mother rushed up and said, "Dongmei, the gentleman doesn't move his mouth, what are you doing?"

Dongmei pointed directly at Huang Gang's mother and said, "I warn you, I don't want to touch you, you'd better stay behind honestly." ”

Huang Gang's mother knew that when Dongmei was in the Ganquan Base Farmers' Market, she had stunned the market administrator Director Bai, so Huang Gang's mother still respected Dongmei.

Jia Yuqi's mother originally wanted to fight back, but when she saw Dongmei in front of her, who was a head taller than herself and was powerful, she still confessed.

She said: "We have women who work and are of high quality, don't fight with you women who don't have jobs, let's go." ”

With that, Jia Yuqi's mother pulled Huang Gang's mother away.

And Zhang Yue's mother followed behind, saying goodbye to Dongmei while leaving, and said, "Sister Dongmei, then you are busy, I'll go first." ”

With that, Zhang Yue's mother hurriedly ran away.

cleaned up Jia Yuqi's mother and relieved the hatred of Dongmei, not to mention how refreshing the mood was.

She jumped back home, looked at Taotao, who arrived home early, and said, "Taotao, my mother beat someone today." ”

Hearing that his mother was talking like a child, Taotao was surprised and said, "Mom, what are you talking about......"

Dongmei sat on the sofa, drank water and said, "I hit Jia Yuqi's mother today." ”

After speaking, Dongmei had a proud expression.

Tao Tao was surprised and said, "Mom, why are you beating people?"

Dongmei said: "She actually had nothing to do, spread rumors that you rented a house outside, and lived with a girl named Liu Loufang, you said she was not full of feces, what is it?"

Hearing this, Tao Tao almost laughed.

He laughed and said, "Even if Liu Loufang is a girl, it is impossible for me to live with him, with his appearance, he is enough to destroy the heavens." ”

Dongmei said: "You said Jia Yuqi's mother, are you looking for a cigarette by yourself, if she spreads rumors for you, your reputation will be ruined, how can you find a partner in our yard in the future." ”

Tao Tao didn't think so far at all, he said: "Mom, why do you worry about some distant things every day, I must be too early to find a partner." ”

Dongmei looked at Taotao and said, "It's not early, you are eighteen years old now, and when you graduate from college, that is, you will be twenty-three years old, and you will find a girl to talk about marriage for a year or two, and it will be twenty-six or seventeen, very fast." ”

Tao Tao said: "I don't want to get married so early, and when I reach the age of 30, I will get married again." ”

Hearing that she was thirty years old, Dongmei shook her head and said: "Thirty is too late, when I married your father, I was twenty-three, and your father was twenty-six, and now you haven't grown up yet, and our bodies are no longer good, so my mother advises you, as a young person, you must marry and have children early, while we can still move now, give you the child to grow up, and it won't drag you down when the time comes." ”

Suddenly, when I heard my mother mention the child again, Taotao felt even more distant.

He said: "I am thirty years old, what is the matter with children, I am thirty-one years old, I am only eighteen now, and I still have thirteen years, 108,000 miles early." ”

Dongmei shook her head and said: "Child, you don't know, time is getting faster and faster, before the age of twenty is a stall, before the age of thirty, another stall, when you are over the age of thirty, you will find that time is simply fast, before you can react, you are already middle-aged, wait for you to react, remind yourself that it is time to adapt to middle age, you have reached old age, so time is not waiting, you must hurry." ”

Tao Tao felt that what his mother said was exaggerated, he said: "Why do I feel that time is so slow, especially in the whole third year of high school, I feel like 30 years have passed." ”

Dongmei said: "That's because you are in your third year of high school, and you are not happy enough in the past three years, so you feel that time is slow, and if you are happy, you feel that time is fast." ”

After finishing speaking, Dongmei suddenly sighed, she said: "If you get married at the age of thirty, and when you are thirty-one years old and have a child, I am already fifty-five years old, I really don't know, my body can still last until the age ......of fifty-five."

Saying that, Dongmei suddenly felt very sad, she felt that she might not live to the moment her grandson was born, let alone enjoy the family fun of grandma and grandson together.

Tao Tao comforted his mother and said, "Mom, don't you always tell my uncle that diabetes is not only a disease of wealth but also a disease of longevity, as long as you take care of it well, it will not be a problem to live to the age of 70?"

Dongmei touched her eyes and said: "I have diabetes at the age of forty, and now I am forty-three years old, only three years, the vision of my eyes has been blurred and does not look good, I really don't know what I will be like in another thirteen years, even if I am still alive, if you can't bring a child and can't take care of your grandchildren, what is the point of saying that I am alive." ”

Dongmei is a very traditional woman, although she always emphasizes that men and women are equal, and women can hold up half the sky, but in her mind, a woman's life is to live for her husband and children.

When you raise your children, take care of your husband when you are old, and take care of your grandchildren, it is like your own obligation, and you have to carry it out.

Hearing his mother say that he would take care of the child for himself, Taotao felt that his mother was getting farther and farther away.

He said: "In the future, when I find a wife to marry, my wife must come to take care of the children, and you can enjoy your blessings, and what grandchildren do you bring, and you don't dislike being tired." ”

Hearing this, Dongmei said: "Silly child, you haven't experienced it, you don't understand anything, you look at our compound, there are a few young people who take care of their children by themselves, and they don't all take care of the children for a lifetime, take care of them for a while, and then throw the baby in swaddling clothes to the old man, and the husband and wife go out to work."

Today's young people, unlike us at that time, can sit and hold back, and still have to do work......"

Tao Tao heard what his mother said, and he also felt a trace of truth in it.

He said: "Then I will find a woman who can sit and live in the future, and can concentrate on taking the baby at home to marry." ”

Dongmei said: "Then you can find a woman who has no job, maybe she can calm down and bring you a doll." ”

Hearing this, Tao Tao said happily: "Then I will find a woman who has no job to marry, let her bring the doll, and let you rest." ”

Suddenly, Dongmei seemed to think of something again, she said: "No, I and your father should bring the doll to you, you better find a woman with a regular job." ”

Tao Tao shook his head and said, "What's so good about a woman with a job?"

Dongmei refuted Taotao and said: "It must be good, both husband and wife have jobs, and two people make money, it must be better than one to make money, at least the economy will not be tight in the future." ”

Although Dongmei herself is a family member, she has no formal job all her life, and sells popsicles, dumplings, steamed buns, and scorpions, it can be said that she has struggled all her life, and she has also earned money and made great contributions to the whole family, but deep in Dongmei's heart, she still tends to let her son find a woman with a job.

It can be seen that in the depths of Dongmei's heart, she is still very conflicted.

Suddenly, Tao Tao didn't know why, he said in a depressed mood: "Mom, I must be a very poor person in the future." ”

Hearing this, Dongmei immediately refuted Tao Tao and said, "Mom told you that you must work hard, do you know what poverty means?"

Tao Tao has experienced the hard life of Liu Loufang, he said: "It means that like Liu Loufang, you can't live in a house and eat well......

Dongmei interrupted Taotao's words and said: "If you understand it this way, then I can only say that your understanding of poverty is too superficial, people, you must work hard to be well-off in this life, you must become rich, you can't be satisfied with the status quo, let alone break the jar, you think you are poor and don't work hard."

If you are a young man and you are poor, you may not be able to find the ideal wife in your mind.

If you don't have a strong wife, your next generation, the next generation, will be affected, and this impact can be fatal.

If you have a child and you are poor, then your child has lost at the starting line of life, he can't get a good education, then he can't go to a good university, he won't be able to find a better job in the future, and it's likely to be a vicious circle.

If you continue to be poor after middle age, then when you get sick, you may be in bed waiting to die because you don't have money for treatment, and you watch yourself die, you know?"

Dongmei's interpretation of poverty completely shocked Taotao.

He did not expect that if a person did not study hard, did not work hard, and was not diligent and thrifty, resulting in poverty, he would face such a serious problem and even die.

Dongmei continued to explain to Taotao: "Child, what Mom wants to tell you is that it is not for you to blindly pursue the copper smell of money, or to tell you how omnipotent money is, you have to remember that money is definitely not omnipotent, but it can save the lives of you and your family members in some special circumstances, as long as you understand this, then you understand the importance of money." ”

Hearing this, Tao Tao fell into deep thought.

And in his heart, he couldn't be calm for a long time.

Because what he has seen in books since he was a child, as well as in film and television dramas, poor people will always be synonymous with justice, kindness, and even greatness.

But today, the mother's education has completely subverted her traditional perception.

He was very conflicted, and he didn't know how to rethink the problem of poverty.

Dongmei looked at Taotao's frightened expression, and comforted him: "Child, you don't have to be afraid that you will be a very poor person in the future, because your father and I have created a world for you and Nana through a lifetime of hard work and a lifetime of savings, at least so that you don't lose at the starting line, if you can't open the pot in the future, your father and I will definitely help you."

If you can't marry a daughter-in-law, your father and I will marry your daughter-in-law back even if we smash the pot and sell iron.

If your child is sick and has no money for treatment, even if we sell the house we live in, we will definitely treat your child......"

Dongmei said a lot to Taotao.

Although she said it simply and rudely, it was a parent's most sincere expression to her child, and it was completely the heartfelt words of the parents.

Tao Tao cried, he felt for the first time that his mother did nothing in his life, just for his children, for Tao Tao and Nana.

The sheep has the grace of kneeling and the crow has the righteousness of feeding, and as a child who has just become an adult, what can he give to his parents?