Chapter 826: The husband and wife are not suitable for each other
In the following days, Dongmei and Weiguo stumbled more and more in life.
The discord between the two in life is manifested in all aspects.
Dongmei suddenly had a deep feeling that couples like them, who had been separated from each other for a lifetime, suddenly ended this separated life when they were old, and then lived together, it seemed that it was really uncomfortable.
Wei Guo eats at noon every day, and he must sleep on time, and he can sleep, but he can not sleep.
If you don't sleep, watch TV in the living room, or are busy with other things, you will always inadvertently disturb Weiguo's rest.
If you don't want to disturb Wei Guo, you can only lie in bed and take a lunch break with Wei Guo.
But his lunch break is not like Wei Guo's lunch break, and he can sleep from half past twelve to two o'clock.
I slept for fifteen to twenty minutes at most, and then I couldn't sleep again.
However, after waking up, Dongmei can't get up from bed immediately, which will definitely affect Weiguo's sleep.
After all, as you grow older, when you reach this stage of defending the country, sleeping is very light, and if there is any wind and grass, it will be noisy to defend the country.
If you don't want to disturb Weiguo's rest, then you can only lie in bed and pretend to sleep.
However, pretending to sleep is definitely a very painful thing, especially pretending to sleep for more than an hour, or even two hours, Dongmei is simply doubting life.
Every afternoon after eating, Wei Guo must go out for a walk.
In fact, when Wei Guo is not at home, Dongmei also likes to go out for a walk.
But Dongmei's walk is very different from Weiguo's walk.
Dongmei walked slowly, and she walked from the fourth road of Windy City at most, to the third road of Windy City, or the fifth road of Windy City, and came back after a circle.
But Wei Guo, not only did he walk fast, but he also had to walk from the gate of the bright garden to the urban sports park on the eighth road of Windy City.
Dongmei felt that she was walking with Wei Guo, which was a kind of pain.
Because I not only want to improve the speed of walking, but also speed up the pace of the flatness.
The main thing is that there is still a long way to follow the defense of the country.
Every day when she comes back from a walk outside, Dongmei feels that her legs and knees hurt terribly.
However, Wei Guo feels that for diabetics like Dongmei, it is very important to take a walk after meals every day, especially walking long distances and walking briskly, which is more conducive to stimulating insulin secretion and lowering blood sugar.
Sleeping at night is the same, Wei Guo sleeps very punctually, once he watches TV until ten o'clock, then no matter how good the TV is, Wei Guo will also turn off the TV and then go into the house to sleep.
But Dongmei is completely different, once she watches TV, especially when she sees her favorite show, she must watch it, even if she stays up until dawn, she has to finish it.
However, once the country sleeps, he must sleep.
Otherwise, the light in the living room will shine directly into the bedroom through the glass door, affecting Weiguo's rest.
Although Dongmei and Weiguo have lived all their lives, the husband and wife have been very similar to each other, but now, Dongmei suddenly discovered the discord between the two.
Although Dongmei and Weiguo don't like to play cards, don't like to play mahjong, don't smoke or drink, and both like to eat noodles, they both save, and they don't spend money indiscriminately......
But in addition to the same, there are huge personality differences between the two.
In the past, because Wei Guo worked in the mountains all year round, he would come back for seven or eight days, or ten days, and then go to work and leave.
At that time, Xiao Bie was newlywed, so this irreconcilable contradiction between husband and wife did not break out.
But now, when Wei Guo was really transferred down from the mountain, when the two lived together for a long time, when the two no longer humbled each other and endured each other for each other, the thin layer of window paper was finally pierced.
On this day, Dongmei couldn't bear it anymore, and she decided to talk to Wei Guo, after all, the two have too many differences in life.
If these differences are not resolved, and if they come together for a long time, greater conflict will surely erupt.
Instead of infinitely amplifying the conflict, it is better to resolve the contradiction on the spot, after all, everyone is old and can't stand the toss.
Compared with Dongmei's urgent desire to solve the contradiction, Wei Guo is very disapproving.
Men are inherently big, and men's hearts are not as meticulous as women's, so Wei Guo has never realized the seriousness of the problem.
When Dongmei called Wei Guo to the table to negotiate, Wei Guo was very reluctant.
While watering the flowers on the balcony, he said: "You are fifty-two, I am fifty-five, they are all old husbands and wives, what else is there to talk about, can't we get together and divorce?"
Dongmei saw that Wei Guo couldn't come, so she immediately bluffed Wei Guo and said, "Wei Guo, you'd better come over for me, what if you get divorced?"
Although Wei Guo was watering the flowers, his ears were always listening to Dongmei.
When he heard Dongmei say divorce, he was shocked.
So, Wei Guo put down the sprinkler in his hand and sat down obediently.
Wei Guo walked towards the table and said, "Isn't it just between us, how many times have we quarreled, is it so serious?"
Dongmei was lying on the table, and there was a cup of cold white water in her hand, as if it was specially prepared for negotiation and thirst.
Dongmei cleared her throat and said, "Weiguo, don't you think that we have lived together for a long time and are very uncomfortable with each other?"
Wei Guo crossed Erlang's legs, his toes trembled, and said, "There is nothing uncomfortable, even if it is not adaptable, it is all trivial, and it is not a big deal at all." ”
Dongmei took a sip of water, moistened her throat, and said, "But, haven't you noticed that during this time, we have a small quarrel in two days and a big quarrel in three days?"
Hearing this, Wei Guoleng paused, to be honest, he really didn't find out.
Wei Guo put down Erlang's legs, and he said, "It doesn't seem to be there, right?"
Hearing that Wei Guo didn't admit it, Dongmei immediately gave Wei Guo an example and said, "The day before yesterday, the two of us had a small quarrel because we didn't sweep the floor and didn't clean our hair......
Yesterday, the two of us quarreled because the dishes and chopsticks were not cleaned......
This morning, the two of us had a fight because we went to the vegetable market to buy vegetables......
According to my experience, if the two of us have been arguing for three days, we will definitely have a big quarrel tomorrow.
I'm afraid my heart won't be able to stand it, so I'll say hello to you in advance and try to avoid a big noise tomorrow. ”
Hearing Dongmei's words, Wei Guo felt funny and said, "You are so sure, we will have a big quarrel tomorrow?"
Dongmei said resolutely: "Look, tomorrow the two of us will definitely have a big fight." ”
Wei Guo sneered and said: "Tomorrow, I will endure it and resolutely not quarrel with you." ”
Dongmei looked at Wei Guo and said, "Since you have been transferred down from the mountain, since we are really living together, then we have to change from each other, do you know what I mean?"
Hearing the change, Wei Guo said: "I have lived all my life, and some habits have been developed for a lifetime, now let me change, I can't change it." ”
Hearing Wei Guo's words so stubborn, Dongmei said angrily: "Okay, if you don't change, I won't change either, see which of us can quarrel with whom?"
After speaking, Dongmei had planned to negotiate, but it broke up unhappily.