Chapter 521 Everything Must Be Reversed and Don't Believe Too Seriously
Dongmei saw that Tao Tao was in tears because of her broken love, she didn't sympathize with Tao Tao at all, but directly criticized him: "A manly man, because of a broken love, he cried bitterly, and he was not ashamed." ”
Dongmei didn't speak, this criticism, Taotao cried even more sadly.
He said: "Gou Juan likes a guy called Bingjie Boy on the Internet, and she doesn't like me. ”
Dongmei threw a towel on the table to Taotao and said, "Wipe your tears, don't cry, what the hell is this, is it worth crying?"
Tao Tao said sadly: "But, I told her everything, but she ......"
Dongmei let Taotao sit on the sofa, then looked at Taotao and said, "Child, my mother was not going to tell you about love and marriage, but since you are in love now, then I will tell you about it, I hope you can slowly mature." ”
Tao Tao said: "I haven't fallen in love yet, it's already over." ”
Dongmei said: "Since we have failed, we must learn to accept the reality of failure." ”
Tao Tao sobbed and said, "Since I failed, then I must reflect on it." ”
Dongmei interrupted Taotao's words and said: "Since you have failed, admit failure, what is there to reflect, love is not entrepreneurship, you can also reflect if you fail, love is a matter of two people, even if you are reflecting, people don't reflect, they don't like you, it's still useless, so bravely accept the loss of love, and tell yourself, I'm such a handsome young man, you Gou Juan doesn't appreciate me, it doesn't mean that I'm not good, there must be a girl who appreciates me......"
Hearing this, Tao Tao felt that his mother's words were very reasonable, because he had never thought of it like this.
Because he was rejected by Gou Juan, he felt that he was not handsome, short, and unattractive, and suddenly had an extremely low self-esteem.
But what my mother said just now suddenly seemed to open a door for me and let me know myself again.
Dongmei continued: "Love is a thing, sometimes it is fate, since you and Gou Juan can't get along, it means that you have no fate for the time being, of course, this is only temporary, maybe in the future, it is possible to come together." ”
Tao Tao couldn't believe it: "Gou Juan has clearly rejected me, how can we still get together again?"
Dongmei smiled and said: "If you don't take the road, you have to go three times, if you don't use it, you have to use it three times, and those who break up may be better three times, not to mention that you are still so young now, maybe one day, Gou Juan broke up with the so-called Bingjie boy, and she will come back to you." ”
Hearing this, Tao Tao seemed to rekindle hope.
He said, "No way." ”
In Tao Tao's thoughts, he recognizes everything very seriously.
And his thinking is very simple, he thinks that since everyone likes each other, he will get married and have a baby in the future.
However, he forgot about many of the uncertainties.
Dongmei said: "Then what's impossible, there are many impossible things." ”
It's over, Dongmei gave Taotao an example, saying that when Wei Guo and Wang Chaoying were assigned to the unit and started working, they were in a hurry to find a partner.
However, good men like Wei Guo, Wang Chaoying, and Song Nian who are good men for the purpose of marriage can't find a wife.
And those men who don't aim to get married and play hooligans everywhere can easily get a wife.
Therefore, Dongmei asked Taotao to think backwards in everything, not to recognize it too seriously, and to see it too closely.
Moreover, Dongmei told Taotao that if he really likes someone, then persistence is very important, no matter whether the girl has a partner or not, as long as she keeps chasing her, then she will definitely succeed.
Dongmei's words seemed to encourage Taotao, he wiped away his tears, looked at his mother and said, "Mom, I know, I will adjust my mood well." ”
Dongmei patted Taotao's head and said: "Child, this is just a tiny hurdle that you must experience on the road of life, there is no big deal, this kind of hurdle will be a lot in the future, everything can not be handled by yourself, you can't figure it out, you must discuss it with adults, after all, we are from here, we have much more experience than you, and our ideas are much more correct than yours, so don't dare to make decisions by yourself, if you don't do it, it will be delayed for life." ”
Dongmei's words left a deep impression on Taotao.
He felt that his mother was right.
Moreover, Taotao is ready to let go of Gou Juan for a while, and after going to college, he will contact Gou Juan again.
At night, in bed, Tao Tao tossed and turned and could not sleep.
Although my mother had taught her a lot of truths and had enlightened herself, she still felt very painful.
At the same time, Tao Tao thought of what his mother told him, first love is very painful, and after experiencing the first love, if you encounter a similar situation in the future, you will not feel pain.
So, Tao Tao told himself, sleep, don't think too much, walk and see, if you think too much, it will be a burden and a burden.
The summer vacation passed quickly, and it was soon time for Taotao to start school.
Dongmei was going to take a shuttle bus to take Taotao to school.
However, the warm-hearted Wang Chaoying happened to go to the provincial capital to run errands, so he told Dongmei that he could give them a ride.
Hearing that there was a free car to sit on, Dongmei happily agreed.
At this time, Wang Chaoying, because of his excellent work, has become a section chief, and the unit has specially allocated a car for him.
When Wang Chaoying arrived at the door of Unit 2 of Building 7 in his exclusive car, Dongmei came out with Taotao.
Wang Chaoying sat in the co-pilot, he waved his hand to Dongmei and said, "Come up." ”
Dongmei put the big bags and small bags of luggage in the trunk, and said: "Thank you so much, it's really good to be able to take such a high-end car to the provincial capital." ”
Wang Chaoying said with a smile: "I just went to the provincial capital, I heard Wang Xue'e say that you are going to take Taotao to report to the university today, so I will take you for a ride." ”
Tao Tao was also very happy, he followed his mother into Wang Chaoying's car.
This is the first time Tao Tao has grown up so big, the first time to sit in a high-end car, he feels that sitting in the back, it is too comfortable, not only the backrest is comfortable, but also the sitting posture is comfortable, in the end, it is a high-end car, it is different from the general bus.
After Dongmei and Taotao sat down, they waited for the car to start.
However, after waiting for a while, the car still stopped in place and just didn't start.
Dongmei thought that Wang Chaoying was waiting for her to continue to take things, so she reminded Wang Chaoying and said: "The things I prepared for Taotao have all been taken, we can set off, no need to wait." ”
Wang Chaoying turned her head and said, "The driver's daughter, I'm also going to report to the university today, and when her daughter comes down from upstairs, we'll set off." ”
When Dongmei got into the car, she didn't pay attention to who the driver was, she asked: "Section Chief Wang, now I have an exclusive driver for you, congratulations." ”
Wang Chaoying said modestly: "Don't we know how to drive, if there is no driver, it will be difficult to move an inch." ”
After finishing speaking, Wang Chaoying pointed to the girl who came down from Unit 3 and said to Gou Honggang: "Xiao Gou, your daughters have grown so big." ”
Hearing this, Tao Tao looked out of the car window, and the girl was none other than Gou Juan.
Tao Tao was taken aback and said in his heart. Why did Gou Juan come to take the car?
And you are in the same car as yourself?
However, when the driver got out of the car, Taotao saw clearly that the new driver for Wang Chaoying was none other than Gou Juan's father, Gou Honggang.