383 Simple Thinking
Su Shi looked at the mother-in-law sent by the second nephew and daughter-in-law who came to the door, and then looked at the list in his hand, and the silver taels offered by the mother-in-law, he was really speechless.
She strongly disagrees with what this second nephew and daughter-in-law do, helping her mother's family is not like this, she is different from Mrs. Tai, Mrs. Tai is willing, she really loves the uncle of the Song family in her heart, and she has no complaints about it, but the second nephew is a little forced to be willing, just to get a praise from her mother, she is full of grief, and she is complaining and sad when she pays less.
Also, you treat me as a relief station? I came to fight the autumn breeze before my shop opened? Half of the silver is not enough, what does the mother-in-law mean by what she said? I am a bright person, so I should help my nephew and daughter-in-law advance the silver? If I receive the silver, I am not a relative?
Who gave her the courage to come to me and kidnap me with morality, so that I could pay the same as her second grandmother? Should I be from the Ye family or owe the Ye family, not to consider the reputation of my mother's family and the face of my nephew and daughter-in-law, and to make it difficult for my sister-in-law, I will throw this list on your Mrs. Ye's face, if I am a bun, everyone will take a bite?
Su didn't ask for the silver, left a list to send the woman back, and then sat there panting by himself, Chuncao worriedly came over to stroke his wife's back, Su Shi said: "Chuncao, why do you say there is such a shameless person? I'm not used to her problem, what do you call it my own relatives? If you don't come to me, others will lose face? If you have the ability, you can take this bit of silver to look elsewhere, and it's strange that others don't beat you."
Chuncao said: "Ignore her, let the slave and maid say, the wife should tell the uncle and wife to go, let the uncle and wife take care of the daughter-in-law, how can a nephew and daughter-in-law come to the aunt's house and reach out to ask for something?"
Su Shi gasped for a while and said, "Didn't I see that my sister-in-law was sick? I went to talk about it and made her angry, and then made my sister-in-law angry, I'm a sinner, no, I have to think of a way, I can't be so used to my nephew and daughter-in-law, she is not the Ye family now, is it for the sake of her mother's family, don't you consider staying in her husband's house?"
It's not that the Su family came here and followed the customs, and also thought that after the woman got married, she was not a member of her mother's family, and she only paid for her husband's family, it depends on who and what happened, that is, she sent back to her parents' family by herself, and her mother's family helped her a lot, whether it was in terms of money or feelings, if she had a mother like Mrs. Ye, Su would definitely do the point of view that I married someone is a person from my husband's family to deal with the greedy mother. It's not that your mother's family is really poor, or that you have really loved your daughter as a mother, except for the love that she said, how much does Mrs. Ye love her second nephew and daughter-in-law?
Su Shi got up and walked back and forth in circles, this was the action when she thought about the problem, Su Shi wanted to do what to refuse this matter, and not let the sister-in-law worry about it, but also to cure Mrs. Ye's problem of sucking blood on her own daughter, and the most important thing was to cure the nephew's daughter-in-law's unreasonable dedication to her mother. The second nephew and daughter-in-law are not bad except for the psychological problem of lack of love, they are filial to the elderly, and they are harmonious, but they make mistakes when they meet her mother.
Su Shi turned around for a long time, but he didn't come up with any good way, but he just felt that he had to call his nephew to talk about his heart, you don't care about your daughter-in-law, are you happy to be angry with your mother?
The Su family sent someone to call the second nephew, Su Zheyi, showed him the list, and said what the mother-in-law sent by the nephew and daughter-in-law said, and how much silver was taken out.
Su Zheyi's face was flushed, and he got up and apologized to his aunt again and again, Su Shi said: "Zheyi, I didn't ask you to apologize to me, not to see that your mother is sick, I am afraid that her old man will find out and get angry, I don't need to come to you at all, it is natural for my mother-in-law to teach her daughter-in-law, but can you let your mother discipline your daughter-in-law when she is sick? How do you behave as a man? Worry about the elders for your son, for your husband, fail to teach your daughter-in-law and father, so that your future son will have an immoral mother?"
Su Zheyi blushed and said, "My nephew will teach my daughter-in-law a lesson when he goes back."
Su Shi asked: "How do you teach her? You don't know what your daughter-in-law does? Did you say it? Has she changed? Do you want to be like the marquis in my mansion, so that your daughter-in-law will become like a lady in the future? Anyway, my mother-in-law is gone, but your mother is still alive, and you want to be an unfilial son?"
At this time, the third master went out and came back, Su Zheyi greeted his uncle, the third master asked him to sit down, and he also sat next to Su, he didn't know what was going on, and Su usually didn't tell him the rights and wrongs of his mother's family. He came as a nephew to invite his wife to come.
Su Shi continued: "I am not a good aunt to reach out to my nephew's inner house to meddle in things, this time I didn't find me, I won't call you over, you don't feel sorry for your mother, I also feel sorry for your sister-in-law, serving you when you are older, you should enjoy happiness after marrying a daughter-in-law, but now you want to be happy?
Su Zheyi said: "The daughter-in-law's mother's affairs, the nephew is not easy to care, and the daughter-in-law also said that it is not wrong to honor her mother, she uses her dowry to be filial, and the nephew can't stare at the daughter-in-law's dowry all day long."
Su said: "This is not a question of whether the dowry is or not, the dowry will always be spent, I ask you, she has spent the dowry, should she spend something else?
Su Zheyi was speechless in shame, Su Shi said: "I guess this is not her intention, but that mother-in-law was given by her mother, and that mother-in-law has been picking up her nephew and daughter-in-law in it all these years, why don't you care? You are active in accepting a concubine, why is there no time to bombard a mother-in-law?"
The third master somewhat understood, and was a confused woman like his mother, Su Shi turned his head and said to the third master: "Master, what would you do if it were you?"
The third old man said: "What's so difficult about this, take the dowry list, write down the whereabouts, and show it to the father-in-law, the dowry given by the Yue's family has been returned to the Yue's family, which is equivalent to marrying a girl empty-handed, and what else is there to show to the father-in-law, his daughter-in-law let him discipline him, and his daughter-in-law will go back to the house to discipline herself, and a man can still let a woman hold it?" Ask the Yue's family, what else do you want from the husband's family, it is listed, and even his daughter-in-law will be sent back, such a daughter-in-law can't afford to raise, and it is better to give a little now than to hollow out the husband's family in the future."
Looking at the simple people and simple methods, on the contrary, they can do things so happily and solve problems. Most people always think about their own face, the other party's face, leave a line, stay and stay in the future to become enemies.