Lu Ran watched as Qian Qian reviewed her speech materials on stage, while Xia Lan was already outside the door to receive the students who had just come to the institution. Pen Fun Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 ｉｎfo

Sissi is still wearing her favorite short skirt today, but this time the short skirt is not like the girly style of the past, but has been replaced by a light blue skirt with a more intellectual and soft chiffon texture, and the upper body is white gauze short sleeves, which generally feels clean and soft, and it is very intimate.

And her usual two naughty long braids have also changed her hairstyle, and she has coiled her hair up, which is less lively but more gentle.

She is like a beautiful lecturer, and people have the expectation of listening carefully at a glance.

And Xia Lan is also very neat, she has become accustomed to wearing long blond hair and semi-formal business women's clothes, which has always been very suitable for her.

The two beauties themselves are a feature of this institution.

Lu Ran has confidence in the training they arranged with their hearts.

The students arrived one after another, and Lu Ran sat in the corner to observe their reactions to the course.

Everything was according to the link that Lu Ran and Sissi had discussed earlier.

First of all, there is a hot session, and then Sissi explains her understanding of the theme of this issue, the ideal understanding, and what experimental research and conclusions have been conducted by psychologists from all over the world.

The third link is the most interactive painting game.

As Lu Ran expected, this link is the most interesting and serious link for the students.

This is what distinguishes Sissi's course from other rigid lectures.

According to Sissi's instructions, the students drew three pictures, "The self that once had an ideal", "The self that has an ideal in the present", and "The self who has achieved the ideal in the future".

Many of the students who were still yawning or chatting with their friends just now unconsciously quieted down when they picked up their pens and started drawing.

When you see this topic and want to draw it, if you want to transform it into a picture from a few words, you can't avoid thinking and associating it yourself, and then you can draw it.

Many people think about it, so they stop writing and get distracted.

Sissi looked at the students with a smile, not urging them to finish quickly, nor to talk to them, not to interrupt their train of thought.

Because the most precious part of the whole painting process is not actually at the moment when the painting is completed, after all, this is not a children's painting course, for these adults, the most precious thing is this thinking process.

Because of this process of drawing, everyone either actively or passively thinks.

Some of these students may end up drawing a very detailed and complete picture, or they may not draw anything at all, just a blank piece of paper.

However, none of this matters.

The important thing is to give yourself a moment to understand yourself and reflect on yourself.

Looking at everyone's thoughtful faces, Sissi was very satisfied.

She looked up at Lu Ran,

Lu Ran dragged his chin with one hand, still observing the changes in everyone's expressions.

After twenty minutes of silence, Sissi clapped her hands, stood on the podium and said, "It's time." Do you have any thoughts, can you share them?"

A man seated in the front row was the first to raise his hand to speak.

Sissi doesn't require students to stand to speak, they can all sit and feel as comfortable as at home.

The man naturally danced and gestured, saying, "I've never played this game, I've never played it like this." It can be seen that this gentleman is very touched.

"I got stuck while I was painting the first picture. I tried to think back to what it was, but it was always vague. So I sketched out who I am now.

When I finished painting my current self, I thought back to my original self, but I felt a little strange.

The little boy had nothing, and all he wanted was a carefree and happy life, and I don't know if that was an ideal. ”

The man smiled a little shyly, and everyone on the field smiled kindly because of his sincere expression.

Later, the boy was empty-handed, and had innocent eyes. But soon, he arrived in the big city, and before he could think about how to live a carefree and free life, he had already taken action.

He had to act, he had to survive, he had to find a job. Slowly, the people around me began to compare, to see who survived better and more decently.

He had to compare himself with others and catch up.

Then, it became what he is now, he has a lot of things, and his eyes are tired.

However, he realized that he had not achieved even a little bit of his ideals.

On the contrary, all the things he has now are things that make him even farther away from the ideal self he once was.

Now, he's tied up here, unable to move. ”

At this point, the man stopped, his breathing a little heavy.

"What about the third painting?" Sissi asked, looking at him.

"I can't draw it. The man smiled a little bitterly, "I don't know if I can live like this forever and never change again." I don't know if I've given up on my old ideal life.

I'm stuck here now, and I can't see it, and I don't dare to look at it. ”

After the man finished speaking, Sissi took the lead in applauding, and the other students on the field also applauded him.

It's an encouragement to those who share.

"Thank you very much for sharing. Life will polish us more and more strangely, and sometimes what makes people confused is not how to achieve the ideal, but where the ideal is.

We have gained the ability to survive in life, but we often lose the ability to be naïve.

But don't be discouraged, you're still young and have a long time to think about the third painting, how to draw it. ”

With Sissi's encouragement, a few more friends shared, and the atmosphere was more lively than the previous session.

Just after the atmosphere in the room reached a certain degree of heat, everyone still felt that there was some unfinished fun, and Sissi led the students into the next link.

That is, to talk to yourself in these three paintings.

Hearing this question, everyone's interest rose again, and they soon threw themselves into a state of contemplation.

Lu Ran noticed that in this link, the students' interest was a little higher.

They looked at their "self", some of them became silent, some of them were full of joy, and some of them were sad, with a faint flash in their eyes.

Lu Ran found that this link can make people get closer to their hearts than the previous painting process.

Everyone's emotions were mobilized.

This is the most self-reflective and self-understanding link, it is not just as simple as learning, it has a healing effect.

"What if this method is used in treatment?" Lu Ran came up with an idea. (To be continued.) )