As soon as Su Shi heard the third aunt and grandmother say that again, what am I also for your good, and I have a headache when I hear her say this.

Su Shi looked at the third aunt and grandmother with a calm face and said: "Look? I don't like to listen to what you say the most for my good, do you know what I know if I'm good or not? Have I asked you for help? Why do you have to do something for my good? Do I appreciate you? I'm annoyed to death, don't you do it for me? You just care about yourself? I'm just a mud and I don't want you to be good for me, please, don't come here to force me to do something for my good in the future, really, I don't need it!"

After saying this, Su Shi suddenly appeared in his mind that his son in his previous life was also so serious and said to himself: Mom, I beg you, don't be good for me in the future, can you do more for yourself? At that moment, Su Shi felt that he was also imposing his consciousness on his son and husband under the banner of being good for others, but at that time he was still very wronged and cried bitterly.

See, only when you have a deep understanding can you know what is wrong.

The third aunt and grandmother blushed when they heard her sister-in-law's words, and said for a long time: "Am I so bad?"

Su Shi wanted to simply make it clear to her at one time, lest I be so kind in the future, I am for your good, and if you still don't appreciate it, you are as ignorant as you were at the beginning.

So Su Shi looked into her eyes, and said very seriously and seriously: "You are not bad, you are naïve, I have said this countless times, did I say that you don't want to think about everything so naïve, and what I said the most is to go to which temple to recite which scripture, don't you yourself explain that you just follow the customs? Do you follow? Take the truth you think is rampage, what is the result? Is there anyone who agrees with you? Or understands you, I understand you, but I don't support you, if I tell you clearly, what will happen to you? Didn't you say to me, "You ancients, you are too backward, you will definitely say to me, third sister-in-law, we are from a place, we have received modern education, how can we live like that?" We must fight for ourselves, we must let those ancients see that women are no worse than men. The reason why I don't say it to you clearly, and I'm even afraid that you will know, is that I don't want to be pulled by you, what you love is your business, I can't interfere, but I don't want you to harass me, do you understand when I say that?"

Su Shi saw her open her mouth to defend herself, made a stop gesture with her hand, and then said: "You listen to me first, don't you just think about your thoughts, you listen to my thoughts, I only say this once, I won't say it in the future, and you won't pull me to do anything to support you in the future, it's good for you to look down on me, it's good to laugh at me, everyone lives their own life, you struggle for yours, I live for me, no one interferes with anyone, don't force me under the pretext of being good for me." ”

Su Shi looked embarrassed and continued. Said: "You are not bad, otherwise I am not your own sister who has tolerated you for the past 20 years, and your own sister has not tolerated you, but getting along with you also brings me happiness, we can be friends, complain about each other or help each other, but don't force others to do what they don't want to do, and don't impose their consciousness on each other, there is room for each other, even parents and children are the same, and we don't have any blood relationship." ”

Su Shi pushed away the porridge in front of him, put his hand on the table, and prepared that if she wanted to get angry again, she would be angry again, and she would be polite to her, and tolerate you losing your temper if you want to lose your temper for twenty years, it's already for the sake of the fellows, okay?

"Look back for yourself, which of the little sisters you made at the beginning still cares about you now? Do you probably know what kind of reputation you have outside? Not to mention outsiders, which of your own brothers and sisters cares about you? Sisters-in-law, except for me, are all kind of face-saving to you, which one of them secretly doesn't have a headache? Don't laugh at you? Look at your mother-in-law's family, your mother-in-law hates you to the bone, which of the other concubines cares about you? If you have someone who understands you, you won't treat me as a confidant every time I come to complain. ”

Su Shi looked at the annoyed and angry face of the third aunt and grandmother, and without waiting for her to get angry, she said directly: "You don't like to listen to me finish my words for the last time, you want to lose your temper and leave, don't enter my door from now on!" I don't eat you, I don't drink, you don't owe you favors, there's no need to watch you lose your temper every time you give me, it's not for the sake of sympathizing with you, I won't listen to you for 20 years of complaining, tolerate you for 20 years and be happy to make love with me, and if you are unhappy, you lose your temper and leave, you listen to me, if you are like this in the future, I will only treat you as the third aunt and grandmother of the Xie family, and I will be close to you in the future. ”

The third aunt and grandmother wanted to get angry but couldn't, her face was distorted, Su Shi wanted to tell her thoroughly this time, don't think I have no temper and let you play in front of me, you are not born by me, should I put up with you?

"Don't say that you are most towards me in the Xie family, how much you have helped me, but the Xie family is also the most towards you, more than your brothers and sisters, I don't like to hear you say that you are most towards me. On the contrary, I am towards you because of you and my fellow countrymen, I have not gotten anything from you, no, I have gotten your negative emotions for 20 years, you vented your emotions in me, it is I who have listened to your complaints and hearts for many years, so you are towards me, you are not in vain, it is you who have been comforted and accepted by me, you will speak to me, so please don't say what you want me the most in the future, I don't like to listen. ”

The third aunt and grandmother also put down the chopsticks and bit her lip, this is the first time that Su Shi really said such a heavy thing after spraying her that time, or in a calm situation, but the third aunt and grandmother were annoyed, embarrassed, unwilling, resentful, and so on, and they all rushed to their hearts, and they didn't know what to say.

Su Shi smiled and said, "Don't be unwilling, even if you go out now and say that I am a wild ghost, do you see if others will believe you or me?

As soon as he said this, the third old man hugged Minshan into the house, he was not at ease outside, afraid that the little sister would quarrel with his wife again, Su Shi saw him enter the house, and said: "Master, the little sister saw that I gave birth to a child and changed a lot, I heard that I escaped death when I was born in Minshan, and I felt that I must have been entered by a wild ghost. ”

The third old man glared at the third aunt and grandmother, and said, "You listen to her, she is the wild ghost who enters the body, and does some messy things."

Su Shi snorted and was happy, and the third aunt's embarrassment came out at this time, "Third brother, did you say that about your sister-in-law?

The third old man said: "It's not my own sister-in-law, I'll take care of you? Which woman is so noisy like you? If you don't stay at home and honor the elderly, you will be blind all day long, and you will also be from the Wuling Marquis Mansion, and if you change your family, you will have to be sent to the family temple!"

Su laughed, the third aunt and grandmother stepped forward angrily to beat the third master, the third master hugged Minshan to dodge, and said, "Be careful to beat my son, I'm not done with you." ”

The third aunt and grandmother gave the third master a beating on the back, and Su Shi also got up and pulled the third master away, and said with a smile: "Master, I'll talk to my little sister, you take your son out to play first." ”

The third master had no choice but to go out, and before leaving, he explained to his wife: "There are so many little sisters, don't get used to her problem, whoever owes her will bully my wife to be honest." ”