726 Look at the responsibility for big things and difficult things, and look at the mind in adversity and good times
At the dinner on the fifteenth, the happiest one was Mrs. Tai, the Su family was happy that the seventh lady could get a husband who liked her, the third master was also brought by the wife to think so, and the happiness of others was based on the glory of the seventh lady being the princess.
Of course, the Su family will also feel that this is the icing on the cake, everyone wants their children to marry with good conditions, but they can't find it for the goal of conditions, it is fate to meet them, and when they meet an ordinary person, as long as the two of them are sincerely married, they can also accept it.
The Seventh Lady did not make a grand appearance, but simply dressed up, her skin had not yet recovered to be fair, her healthy wheat color was shining, and her eyes were even brighter.
Mrs. Liao Yubing on the left, Seven Ladies on the right, Hou Ye's generation and Mrs. Tai have a table, the others are one table in each room, the second room is embarrassing, the second master did not come, Hachiro and Li went to a table with the third room under the hint of Li.
Several daughters-in-law of the big house are also smiling, and the marriage of the seventh lady makes them have more face, and they say that they are the cousins of the princess.
The whole dinner ended in Mrs. Tai's various distressed granddaughters and reluctant granddaughters, and everyone was happy.
After returning to the house, Su Shi saw that everyone was in high spirits because of the marriage of the Seventh Lady, and after Su Shi was happy, he remembered whether the person concerned was happy? I will ask her tomorrow.
In a few days, the seventh lady is about to get married, the dowry has been prepared, the cakes have been packed, and the Su family and the third master have taken the time to take a look, neat and clean, Qiu Tao has put away all kinds of kitchen utensils in the kitchen, and she has brought a few people from the house, both skilled and fresh.
Zhu Xiulian was also busy in the store, and when she saw her cousin coming in, she hurriedly greeted her, after Cousin Dong came, Zhu Xiulian came again the next day, and firmly expressed that she was willing to do things, Su admired such a woman, so she arranged for her to go to Chunxue for training, and she was preparing for the cake in the past few days.
The door plaque is still written by the third master, and he looks up at the door proudly. Su encouraged and praised Qiu Tao, she was a layman to the restaurant, she had nothing to say, and walked around the couple to go home.
Su Shi took the time to call the Seventh Lady and asked directly, unlike the original thinking about how to say.
The seventh lady listened to her mother's direct question, blushed, and didn't hide it, and said frankly: "Mother, it's my blessing to have this marriage, my daughter will live a good life, although my daughter has never seen the eighth prince, but I will cherish him to me like this, my daughter knows her identity, and she will not get carried away because of this, and her daughter will always remember what her mother said, calm down and treat people sincerely." ”
Su Shi is relieved, only if he can think like this can he understand people, and he must have confidence in his trepea.
Su Shi also came to listen to a passage in his previous life, what heart is small, small things are big, big hearts are big, big things are small, look down on the vicissitudes of the world, and the heart is safe and sound. Big heart, tolerate the things of the world, humble heart, love the goodness of the world, calm their heart, talk about the things of the world, fix their heart, respond to the changes of the world. See responsibility for big things and difficult things, look at the mind in adversity and good times, look at wisdom if you give up, and see persistence in success or failure.
After making this paragraph white, he gained a reverent gaze, and Su Shi was proud in his heart.
In the end, Su said: "The royal family is your mother-in-law's family, not your mother's family." ”
Qi Niangzi nodded, she knew what her mother-in-law meant, her mother's family is forever, and her mother-in-law's family is not necessarily it, and it is not easy for the royal family to abandon a princess?
When the seventh lady left, Su sighed that she could only go down by herself in the future.
Aunt Luo has been even more nervous these days, happy and anxious, I don't know if Mrs. has given the seventh lady the small object to dowry, and she doesn't dare to ask her daughter, and Du Gui straight talk, Du Gui said: "Auntie, you can rest assured, Mrs. will be ready, auntie don't go to make trouble, don't you see that Mrs. is busy and can't even take care of Eleven Lang? Recently, there have been many visitors, and my aunt is annoyed by this little thing, isn't it a burden to Seventh Lady?"
Aunt Luo was also accustomed to Du Gui's frequent rebuttals, and just explained: "Didn't I think that my wife only had four sons and never married a daughter, so she neglected this?"
Du Gui sighed and said, "Auntie, my wife is married, why wouldn't she know this?"
Aunt Luo stopped talking.
The Su family had already prepared a special dowry, so he took the time to give the dowry must-have album to the seventh lady, and opened it for her to see.
The seventh lady's face was flushed, although she also knew what it was like for men and women to get married, but it would be embarrassing to look at these goblins fighting in front of people.
Su Shi also secretly laughed, and said seriously: "You have to read carefully, otherwise how can you understand the relationship between men and women?" Let me tell you, being a daughter-in-law is not only serving her in-laws to take care of the inner house and raising the children, the most important thing is this, you want to make your husband happy, this is essential, otherwise he will find someone to make him happy for this, those inner house ladies often say, envelop the husband, or propose a companion to envelop the husband, which refers to this, so, don't take this seriously, only you and the husband are happy, he naturally focuses on you. ”
The Seventh Lady nodded slightly, not daring to glance at the album.
"Don't be embarrassed, take a good look at it these days, this picture is a little unclear, but this text is written clearly, you will understand it when you read it, and you will see it with the Eighth Prince in the future, maybe he has more, hehe! ”
Seeing that the Seventh Lady still nodded slightly, not daring to talk, Su pursed his lips, gave a long wooden box, stuffed it to the Seventh Lady, and left with a smile. This is what she asked the third master to look for outside for a long time.
The seventh lady sent her mother back, opened the wooden box, and was even more ashamed, it was twelve men and women, in different postures, slippery, too ashamed.
She quickly closed it, closed the door, sat down and opened the wooden box, and looked at them one by one. and hid at the bottom of a dowry box. On that face, I felt hot when I touched it.
On the day of the makeup, there were so many visitors!
Concubine Jiang came in person, Princess Changning came, Mrs. Qin also came with her generosity, the princess of Suiguo came with the princess woman, and Mrs. Tai's friends also came, not to mention the acquaintances of all kinds of in-laws and mansions, even the princess of the Jin Dynasty Mansion also came with Mrs. Saturday, and the thatched cottage was crowded, and the seven ladies who got acquainted with them all went to her courtyard.
Mrs. Tai and Mrs. Hou smiled from ear to ear because of their faces, Su Shi kept grinning because of entertainment, and the elders gathered in the edge of the grass hall.
The Seven Ladies had a bumper harvest, and when everyone left, the Su family reorganized the dowry, originally wanting to raise it eighty-six, and squeezing it hard, otherwise it would come out more, and it was not Su's style to be in the limelight. The third master also said that eighty-eight is also very good.
Su said: "Eighty-six is good, we can't have more than the marriage of the Seventh Princess, otherwise it will make others uncomfortable." ”
The third master nodded, he always listened to his wife about small things, but there was nothing big about the third room, that is, there was, the master was in charge, anyway, it was Su's idea, and the master was coaxed to make the decision.
On the day of the dowry, the eighty-six lifts of the Xuanping Houfu swaggered all the way into the palace, attracting people to stretch their necks and look at the dowry of so many lifts, envy, but no one said where the silver came from in the third room to prepare the dowry, because although there was no big mouth of Cousin Song, the mouth of the Saturday that came up was even bigger, and he had already said that there were people in each province who added makeup or something.