Early in the morning, Su saw the Seventh Lady come in with a look of grievance. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 ｉｎｆｏ

Su Shi had a good appetite and was in a good mood in the morning, and teased her: "Yo, what's wrong with Xiao Qi in my family? Who made you angry? Tell your mother, and your mother will clean him up."

The seventh lady came over and leaned on Su's family, her eyes were still red, and she said aggrievedly: "Mother... ”

Su Shi knew that she must know the content of her quarrel with the third master, and Chuncao told her about the arrangement early in the morning.

"I returned the golden beans, who messed with us Xiaoqi?" Su pretended not to know.

"Mother, father, he... "The seventh lady said that this can't be said, the serious little lady shouldn't say this to the elders, the elders just listened, the elders didn't say that they couldn't mention it, of course, this is the rule, almost none of the mothers and children have ever talked about the rules so much. That's why Su Shi's clothing is sometimes open, so she can say a few words.

Su Shi hugged her and said, "Don't worry, I won't marry you indiscriminately, your father doesn't understand the situation, he doesn't have so many thoughts, don't blame him"

Qi Niangzi nodded, snorted and said: "I didn't complain about my father, I was sad that my mother quarreled with my father for my sake. ”

Su straightened her, put away the joke, and said: "Xiao Qi, you have to remember, women are not easy, often parents are also for the good of their children, and make the master, no one knows what the future will be, maybe it's a good one, maybe it's unsatisfactory, if it weren't for the fact that my mother's eldest brother is a royal history, and my niece is also married to a royal history, I know the real situation of that family, otherwise, just looking outside, I will also think it's a good one."

"Your father is a man, and the man thinks that the hallway, character, and ability are the most important, and the women in the back house are all harmless trivial things, and only the women know what kind of life the woman will live, and they will inquire about the real situation in the back house."

Su Shi continued: " Often without the consent of the woman, the man himself set the family affairs, the daughter-in-law will not be happy when she enters the door, it is natural to punish the daughter-in-law, some also start to beat where, and even one, do not beat or scold, take the son and all the servants do not talk to the new daughter-in-law, a year or two to force the daughter-in-law to death, the mother-in-law is then determined by her own willing daughter-in-law, sometimes, it is not that the mother-in-law does not look down on the daughter-in-law, but feels that the daughter-in-law is set without her consent, so she is dissatisfied, she can vent this dissatisfaction to the daughter-in-law, and outsiders will only think that the daughter-in-law is not good, or is not blessed”

Su is also very depressed about this society, a man's paradise and a woman's hell.

"This is also the fact that most of the parents are determined by the mother, and then the decision is discussed with the family. Your father is so honest that he doesn't think about it that way. ”

"You're not yet fifteen, and this shouldn't have been said to you, but it's better to understand early than to be confused. Su Shi paused and continued.

"If you're like Cao Ba Niangzi, I hurt you by telling you, but you're not, do you know what I mean?"

Qi Niangzi nodded, and listened to her mother say again: "When a woman can choose, try to choose, such as before marriage, when you can't choose, such as after marriage, then it's not that you don't like it, you can go back to your parents' house and start over, then you have to adapt to the environment that must be accepted, individuals do their best to live, grievances, complaints, and grudges are all embarrassing for themselves, others are still others, but their gains outweigh their losses." ”

Su Shi sighed slightly, and said: "I don't know if telling you these things hurt you, I always treat you as a big lady, think about it carefully, you will be almost fifteen, and other little ladies are fifteen and still make trouble with their sisters for a piece of clothing." ”

The seventh lady clasped Su's hand and said, "Mother, I really thank you for telling me this, we women don't go out of the boudoir, even when we go out, it's just a few little ladies having fun and laughing, except for the women's rings in the book, which are bound to women, and they don't teach women what to do.

"I haven't raised a daughter, and I don't know how to teach, sometimes I can say whatever I want, and when I'm better, I will pick some books for you to read, and read more, not only to make people reasonable, but also to make people wise, women can't go out, and they have to see good and evil from books, see good and ugly, and what do you have to learn from it. ”

The Seventh Lady nodded and obediently responded.

Looking at the Seven Niangzi, Su Shi thought: How good, a beautiful age, what you yearn for, no matter what kind of situation you encounter in the future, you will have the opportunity to adjust yourself and adapt to your surroundings.

After the seventh lady left, Su sent all the subordinates out, and he was crooked on the bed alone.

In the previous life, almost all parents had only one requirement for their children, to study and study, to take a good school, and to strive to be a personal master, but they did not know that to be a personal master, in addition to studying, more needs a person's morality, cultivation, and behavior. In modern times, people began to pay attention to these things, didn't someone write four books and five classics on being a human being?

It's me, Su Shi thought: I can't cook or do housework since I was a child, I can't socialize, I work when I'm older, I don't know how to get along with people, I just follow my temper and character, I fall in love, I don't know what marriage is except for love, I have a child, I don't know how to be a mother, everything depends on my own head and blood.

Since I was a child, in addition to studying hard, no one told me that life is not for you to live alone, youth and ignorance, no one told me, you have to think first, what kind of person you need, what kind of person you are suitable for, no one told me, marriage is not a matter of two people, if you just blindly marry for love, you have to learn to deal with the future days of your choice, even if marriage is a matter of two people, no one told me, how to run a family, how to change yourself to tolerate each other, how to guide the other party to understand yourself and forgive yourself.

Su Shi doesn't know how many such girls, women, and mothers there are in modern times, but he knows that such people say that what is good is self-directness, and what is bad is stupid.

This is why Su Shi saw the third aunt and grandmother as if she saw her previous self, she wanted to follow her own ideas, and almost didn't think about others, what was more excessive than her was that she still had a mouth, what was difficult to hear. Often do more and lose more, who will accept you?

The words of the ancients --- a good mother, three generations of good children and grandchildren, a woman can live normally to the age of raising her grandson, a woman, fulfilled her responsibilities as a wife, taught her son, and can also raise her grandchildren, because in ancient times, the old man did not separate the family when he lived, the male protagonist outside, the female protagonist inside, the child grew up in the inner house when he was young, and he was most influenced by his mother, and a woman who is ignorant and ignorant of things, the family is not good, the child is not good at teaching, and the grandson will be crooked, this is what modern people love to say - a woman finds the wrong husband to ruin her life, but a man finds the wrong wife, then three generations of his family are ruined。

Brain Supplement Jun Su couldn't help but laugh when he thought of a famous quote in his previous life,----If you have an enemy, you should pamper your daughter, marry her to your enemy in the future, and then you will take revenge."