Don't look at the third master in the house very casually, but if he is outside, or if there is a female dependent, he will have a wooden face, Cousin Song and his wife are there, he is like wearing a mask, or he will not speak, or if he has a son, he will focus on his son.

Otherwise, everyone outside said that he was a perverse person.

Once Mrs. Hou asked Su Shi, these three brothers are also like this in the house, they don't look awkward, they either talk with a stalk neck, or with a calm face, Su Shile didn't say much, just said that he was just like that.

The third old man walked around the Zhuangzi with Cousin Song in the afternoon, and Cousin Song congratulated his cousin, saying that Brother De's current life is enviable.

The third old man remembered his wife's words, so he said: "Don't patronize here all day long, go back to the house to accompany your younger siblings, a woman is at home, and life is sad without a confidant." ”

Cousin Song's smiling face faded, and he shook his head and said, "It's not that I have to mess with flowers, but my daughter-in-law ...... , Alas, I can't talk to her well, I just want to live a good life with her, and I have to be comfortable to live, otherwise there will be a lot of trouble at both ends of the three days all day, who will not be annoyed?"

"Godson in front of the hall, godwife by the pillow, my brother and sister have been married to you for 20 years, what have you taught her as a husband in the past 20 years? Since you know what is wrong with your brother and sister, you should also tell her that your brother and sister have married you wholeheartedly, and they can't cover it for 20 years, if other wives had already thrown you aside, how can they still pretend to be you? How many women have children and grandchildren, who cares about their husbands and concubines, as long as they give their wives and concubines the dignity they deserve, but their younger siblings are different, you should cherish this, what can't you say well?

This is still what Mrs. Song said when she talked about her cousin Song's husband and wife, but what Mrs. said was worse than this, saying that her cousin didn't do a good job as a husband first, a twenty-eight girl married her cousin with love, and she didn't contact anyone, her mother-in-law was long gone, no one taught, and she was only closest to her cousin, and he kept it in the inner house for twenty years, and it became like this, shouldn't it be the responsibility of the cousin?

Hearing this at the time, the third master was dumbfounded, and there was such a metaphor?

But looking back, it's also the same reason, the woman married into her husband's family at the age of fifteen, and lived in the same courtyard with her husband, and what she saw every day was her mother-in-law and husband, and she had to take care of a bunch of housework, and when she had a child, she had to teach her children, and the third master thought that if I had a daughter-in-law, oh, no, my eighth lady married her cousin as a daughter-in-law, and her mother-in-law like her brother and sister could teach something, if the son-in-law was also like her cousin, bouncing around, and dislike my daughter for not being able to speak, and being annoyed when I saw it, then I had to find my son-in-law and said, I can't talk to you for 20 years, if you teach it well, you can still teach it？

This will remember, the third old man looked at Cousin Song unhappily, and looked at him confused, Brother De, what's wrong? Could it be that my daughter-in-law is saying unpleasant things to my cousin?

The third old man turned his head to look at the sister-in-law in the distance and hugged his mother for a walk, his wife was playing with a few children, and he was ashamed, his sister-in-law was the eldest daughter-in-law, and she was in charge of the big house, not to mention, but also to stand up to the future of the Hou Mansion, and her mother was a foolish person, and she felt sorry for her uncle's family more than her children and grandchildren, and his wife had been silently taking care of the third room for more than 20 years, taking care of his concubines and concubines, but where was he a father? At most, he taught his son a few lessons, and he didn't do serious things all day long, but fortunately, his husband and father were good and shameful! When he went back, he had to burn the text.

Therefore, the third master asked his cousin, "How much do you manage your Pengfei?"

Cousin Song was stunned, and he didn't know what his cousin meant.

"At most, Peng Fei made trouble, you beat him up, what did he like to eat when he was a child, how many times he got sick, who cares about reading? Do you know? Who cares? Not a brother and sister? Not to mention that there are people in the family, are there few people in my third room? Your nephew and I can't get out of your cousin like that, I'm tired, I can't sleep every night with back pain for the first two years, Peng Fei doesn't bother less than your nephew, why did you do it at that time? Brother and sister complained that you shouldn't be? The child is not yours? Now I know, why does a woman become more and more bad-tempered, she has to serve her in-laws, and there are children who make trouble, who to teach, and who have concubines to take care of, and if there are a few more unsightly concubines, and there is a father-in-law who is not intimate, who is not upset? Cousin's monthly money is not enough to spend on himself, and there are so many people in your courtyard, are not your younger siblings receiving dowry subsidies? Who are you supplying to? Aren't they all your children and your concubines and concubines? I don't need to talk about you, I admit that I am ashamed of your cousin-in-law, but I change, I still have a conscience, I can't bear the daughter-in-law who has worked hard for me all my life. ”

The third old man saw that his cousin was muffled and didn't speak, and said: "I think about it, if your family learns like you in the future, I have to withdraw from my family, that is, I become a parent, and I also want my daughter to be reconciled, and I can't let my daughter pay for a lifetime, and in the end, my son-in-law will still be annoyed by her." ”

Cousin Song was anxious and said, "My family can't learn, can't I send you that, Brother De teaches?"

"If you don't teach your son, what's the matter with sending me here? If you want to recruit a son-in-law, I have to recruit an honest one. ”

"My son is not honest?"

"It's not that I'm dishonest, if my son follows his father, then I'll be a little hachi. ”

"Don't follow my father, follow his aunt, look at my sister, my sister is a good one, and the Guan family praises it. ”

The third old man pouted, and Cousin Song didn't understand how his daughter-in-law got to his son.

"Brother De, I will also change, and I will live a good life with my daughter-in-law in the future, if she messes around, I will endure it, it's a big deal that I won't speak. ”

"Say you're stupid, you're stupid, what do your younger siblings want from you? That is, if you want her in your heart, you coax her, just say that you have always pretended to be her in your heart, you don't understand when you're young, you love to play, sometimes you're angry that your younger siblings don't know how to look at the occasion to speak, so you get angry, you will only have her in your heart in the future, no one else, even if you are confused, quickly admit your mistakes, say that you drink too much, if you can't beat yourself, do you see that your younger siblings are reluctant? The daughter-in-law is yours, no matter how annoying you are, you have to be in a yard, so it is better to say two good words to your younger siblings, do you think your younger siblings will change it? I just can't help but quarrel, and if I continue to coax you later, it's over, how big is it, a big man, he can't even hold his daughter-in-law, and he says something else? Aren't you very good at talking outside? Which friend doesn't say that you are righteous and bold, why do you chirp crookedly with a woman?"

This is still what my wife said once, the best way to treat my cousin is to coax my cousin with good words, see if my cousin is happy, I will definitely take care of the inner house, and I won't quarrel anymore.

The third master's words made Cousin Song's face white and red, it was really embarrassing, he grew so big, Brother De hadn't said anything about him because of this, he felt so embarrassed when he said this, that is, I Song Ba was a man outside, but I was a mess at home? No wonder the second sister came back from Liaodong and scolded herself for being a waste, and she couldn't even coax a daughter-in-law, and at that time I thought, I'm a big man who coaxes a daughter-in-law?

The third old man looked at his wife in the distance, and from time to time he picked up his son and kissed him, and then picked up the eighth lady and kissed him, and sighed in his heart, when Minshan and Xiaoba became relatives, I and my wife went to live in the countryside for a few years, and I will serve my wife and repay her for her decades of dedication to my Xie family.