072 Gold in one hand Silver in the other
When the sister-in-law heard Su Shi ask, she frowned and said: "I haven't thought about it yet, the Hou Ye will definitely not agree with the third aunt and grandmother to marry the daughter directly to the person who gave it privately, this Wuling Marquis Mansion is now watching the mother and daughter, if the third aunt and grandmother run back, the old lady will start to follow the mix, it's really a headache, and I don't have a good idea." Pen Fun Pavilion wWw. biquge。 info”
Su Shi smiled evilly, and whispered the thoughts of the third master, the sister-in-law's eyes widened, and then she was happy, and said: "I think it's okay, but it will take a while for the cousin of the Song family to leave Beijing, so how can I look at the mother and daughter?"
Su said: "This is to be discussed with Mrs. Songbai, Marquis of Wuling, our house will find a way to take people away from the capital, Marquis Wuling himself will find a way to watch it, how to say that they are the daughter-in-law and granddaughter of Wuling Mansion, our house is an outside, Cao Liuniang's name is Mrs. Songbai's great-grandmother, but our old lady is called a grandmother."
The sister-in-law patted her thigh and said, "Also, tell Master Hou, just talk about the third brother's idea, okay? I don't know if Cousin Song agrees or not?"
Su said: "This is the method that the third master came up with, and when I see him today, I will tell him to tell my sister-in-law, and let the eldest brother ask him to discuss, they are all brothers, and we will naturally find a way together if there is something." As for whether Cousin Song agrees, I want the eldest brother to go to Sui Guogong in person, don't hide it, if you ask someone for help with your own ugly things, it's best to tell the truth, they are all in-laws, and everyone stinks together if something happens, and if you can help, you will naturally help."
The sister-in-law got up and said, "I'll tell Hou Ye to go, he hasn't gone anywhere today, and he's still sitting in the study and angry," and turned around and joked: "It's still the third master's brain that is spinning fast, you look at Hou Ye, you can stomp his feet in the study so worried."
Su Shi smiled dryly, "Our master, he just doesn't turn his brain in circles, so he will have such a simple idea"
The sister-in-law laughed at herself: "Yes, Hou Ye and I are thinking about this and that, neither of us wants to offend, we don't want to make the old lady angry, and we want to make everyone satisfied, how can there be such a good way to make everyone satisfied?"
"Then I'll go first, you can rest"
Su sent his sister-in-law to the door of the house, but the sister-in-law stopped her alive and did not let her out.
Su Shi walked around the yard a few times before, and accompanied his sister-in-law to talk, and his waist couldn't stand it, but now that he is older, his body is heavier, and he will be very tired after a while.
After lying down, I began to think about my sister-in-law's words, most people want to do a good job in several aspects, not to offend anyone, but to do things will drag the mud and water, looking forward to the future, sometimes things are done, contribution, bothering, but no one praises you, or which one is offended. Sometimes it's a simple person like the third master, a person with a tendon, who does things quickly and crudely, simple and rude, and does things neatly, but the result is better than the result of those who think left and right.
Like the third aunt and grandmother, if no one gives her the aftermath and no one backs her up, whether she will think more about doing things, even if she doesn't think about it the first time, the second and third time, she will always slowly converge a little.
This is about to celebrate the New Year, two days later is the 80th birthday of Sui Guogong, Sui Guogong is the 30th year of the Chinese New Year's Eve, but after the 23rd year is equivalent to the New Year, so Sui Guogong will change to hold a birthday banquet on the 22nd of the month every year, usually just a family banquet, relatives and friends to celebrate, but this year is a whole birthday, or 80 birthday, so then the emperor will send people to celebrate, this banquet is estimated to be large.
If it was just another banquet, the Su family would have to show up when he was older, but this time it is estimated that it will not work, the two families are in-laws, and they are good friends, and the third master has also been friends with Cousin Song for decades, what's the matter, the Su family will also go to show the following. Cousin Song gave so many gifts, although she also returned the gifts, but because Su was pregnant, she didn't hold a banquet in the third room to invite her.
Su Shi called Chuncao in again and said, "You go to the third master to take a look, the birthday gift for Sui Guogong can be prepared, the master said don't worry about me, but I still don't worry, and then see if the New Year's gift for Jiulang's in-laws is appropriate?"
Although the Hou Mansion has not yet been separated, at the beginning of this year, the Su family handed over some things in the third room to the eldest daughter-in-law to take care of, and slowly let her take over.
Of course, some people will say that who doesn't love power, since they have the power, they don't want to let go, and if they have the right, their sons and daughters-in-law will be obedient and obedient, and the next person will look at the dishes and dishes, and whoever is in power will be courteous, but Su Shi didn't see anyone look down on her, maybe when she got old, she wouldn't take her seriously.
However, Su knows that it is okay to delegate power, the money must be in his own hands, and if he has money, his children will not and dare not go too far, just like Jia's mother, when she is old, she also said that whoever is rewarded will give him two silver taels, and take out her own private money, without looking at the face of her children, just take Wang Xifeng's words, Jia Baoyu's marriage does not need to be paid for in public, and Jia's mother naturally has the discretion to take it out. But if you don't have money, then it depends on your son and daughter-in-law who are happy to honor you, and if you are unhappy, do you still lick your face and reach out to ask for it? This is to be pinched in your hands.
In her previous life, Su's mother always liked to say--- Father has a mother is not as good as having yourself, and your husband has you, where do you have to reach out."
Su Shi thought, I'm old, holding gold in one hand, silver in the other, and etiquette on my head, who else dare to do it?
Su Shi thought that he was wearing a big hat, with the words "etiquette" written on it, holding gold and silver in his hand, looking at his children and grandchildren below, and leaking silver in his hand. Thinking of this picture, Brain Bujun laughed happily in the quilt,
The third old man went to find Cousin Song, who was lying depressed in his study. said that it was a study, but it was actually equivalent to a small gathering place for his fox friends and dog friends, but it was the cousin of Xuanping Houfu, a good friend who often came here. A few days ago, because of a fight with the sixth master of the Jin Palace, I had a colored arm on my body, and I didn't want to go out and be embarrassed, so I was in the house for the past few days.
The third master didn't need to be informed, he pushed the door and went in, and saw his cousin lying on Erlang's legs, and kept shaking the raised legs. Seeing my cousin enter the house, he put down his legs, sat on the bed, and said with a smile: "Go back with that face, my cousin-in-law didn't scratch you."
The third old man said triumphantly: "Your cousin-in-law is distressed, how can she scratch me." ”
Cousin Song snorted in his nose and said, "You can be angry with me, the one in my family stared at me and mocked me" After speaking, he hurriedly said: "You sit down first, don't dangle in front of me, Brother De, when do you say that bow field will be built?
also snorted hatefully, and said: "Say that I am a waste without grains, a fool who just eats and does not dry, not because she is a girl, I will" Cousin Song waved his fist fiercely.
The third old man remembered that his wife said that he was a grain eater that day, and he still didn't understand what a grain eater was, so he had to ask his wife one day. If your wife scolds herself, it's not good to ask your cousin, and it's not good to lose molecules in front of your cousin.