Chapter 248: Dialogue
After discussing the topic, Sissi began to introduce to Lu Ran several links she designed throughout the training. Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info
At the beginning, she will first use some warm-up games to warm up the atmosphere and let everyone get acquainted with each other.
Then, as the keynote speaker, she will give an introduction to the theme of this time.
Although Sissi was the main speaker of the course, she still followed the principle of instilling less knowledge in the students what she knew, instilling her opinions, and more for the students to think for themselves.
Therefore, her introduction to the theme will not take up too much time, and she will not define the ideal. She just introduced the topic, and then asked some questions related to ideals through questions, so that the students could think and define for themselves.
After discussing the theme, it was an important interactive session, which was also a key part of Sissi's use of skills to inspire everyone's imagination and thinking.
She kept the last drawing game session, which was favored by the teachers.
This time, because of the change in theme, she made some changes to the specific content of the painting.
"Last time, I assigned you the task of painting a home in your heart, and the world in the painting reflects everyone's concept of home in reality. But this time, we're talking about ideals, so I'm going to change the subject. Sissi continued to tell Lu Ran.
"Well, have you thought about what to draw?" Lu Ran asked.
"Hmm...... I have now come up with a topic, which is to ask them to draw the self that had ideals back then. I don't have a limit to this ideal, it can be an ideal in a career, or an ideal life, as long as it is the thing they desire the most in their hearts. Sissi's thinking is clear.
Lu Ran nodded in agreement, "It's good to draw themselves back then, so that they can feel the changes in themselves over the years." ”
"Not only that, but I also let them draw their dreams of themselves. Sissi added and said.
Qianqian's words made Lu Ran, who was still nodding just now, pause.
The pause was not because he was dissatisfied with Sissi's idea, on the contrary, he felt a light in his eyes.
Then, Lu Ran fell silent.
Draw the self that does not exist, but may exist in the future, and who has realized the ideal.
This is to let everyone outline the most ideal self in their hearts and outline their own possibility of success.
Everyone, in this process, in every stroke, will feel more deeply what they want.
When everyone sees their own beautiful vision, it is right in front of them, and they will feel in an instant that the ideal self does not seem to be so distant and untouchable.
A person who really has ideals and dreams, when he sees this painting, will definitely be like him now, silent and touched.
Lu Ran once heard a theory, "The more you imagine your wishes, the more likely you are to achieve them." ”
This is a phenomenon that has been confirmed by scholars in their research, and it is still a subject of research.
Looking at this matter with the concept of hypnosis, the principle is also the same, when you are concretely imagining, the ideal self, in your subconscious, you will receive a hint.
Hint at yourself, through all efforts, to move closer in this direction.
If you dig deeper, this is also a science, a science of suggestion.
This can't help but remind Lu Ran of what the book once told him, hypnotizing others is one aspect of hypnosis technology, and another aspect is hypnotizing oneself.
"Brother Lu?"
After thinking about it a lot, Lu Ran came back to his senses and said, "Well, it's good, this idea is very good." ”
Qian Qian smiled, and was very happy when she heard Lu Ran's approval.
"And then?" Lu Ran continued to ask her.
"Then, it's supposed to be a discussion with each other, and then ...... I guess that's about it. ”
What Sissi means is that it's about the same, and then it's some endings.
"It's over?"
When Lu Ran heard Qian Qian say this, he frowned slightly, and fell silent again.
This time the silence was different from the previous mood of satisfaction.
It's not that he doesn't think it's bad, it's just that the two paintings that were still immersed in the painting game just now, all of a sudden, came to an abrupt end, and he always felt that something was missing.
"What, what's wrong?" Qian Qian asked with some concern when she saw Lu Ran's face change.
Lu Ran regained his smile, shook his head, and said, "No, it's good, from the beginning to here, it feels good, but it feels like it can be better."
Maybe it shouldn't stop here, it shouldn't just stop there. ”
"So, the last discussion session......" Sissi's mind spun when she heard Lu Ran say this.
"Discussions, I don't think they should be just shared with everyone.
Normally, it is not too natural and honest to discuss and share your inner feelings with others between strangers, and communication will always be discounted, so the role of discussion will also be reduced. Lu Ran analyzed.
"What Brother Lu said makes sense, I didn't think about it before. Sissi found that if it weren't for Lu Ran's reminder, she might have lost the effect of the entire course because of one detail.
"When discussing with others, there will always be something to cover up, so that the feeling at that moment just now will soon converge a lot, and the intensity will be diluted a lot at once, and when they walk out of the classroom, this feeling will dissipate a little. Lu Ran analyzed this ending and possible problems in detail.
"It doesn't seem appropriate to discuss it directly with others, so it might be more appropriate to leave it for a while for the students to experience it in their hearts. Sissi's train of thought took another step forward.
But if they are just asked to meditate in their hearts, they have no foundation in psychology, and they may not know which direction to think, and they may be in a daze, or they may fall asleep. This is also not appropriate.
The best thing is to find a way to lead them to think, to talk to their own hearts. ”
"Talk to your own heart?" Hearing Lu Ran say this, Sissi suddenly felt a flash of inspiration, "Otherwise, let them talk to their own paintings, right?"
"Dialogue with your own paintings?" Sissi has now opened her mind and has come up with some very innovative ideas, which Lu Ran also finds very interesting.
"Dialogue with one's own paintings, that is, with oneself in paintings, ask one's past self, what was the initial motivation? ”
Lu Ran was very satisfied with Sissi's new idea, and he followed Sissi's idea and thought about it.
"Well, I thought I'd better go through all the words and questions that I could use for conversation. When the time comes, follow this. Sissi finally said.
"Okay, I'll help you think about it. ”
So the two of them discussed for a whole day, until they got off work and everyone left, and they were the last to leave.
This time the process of discussing with each other made the two of them brainstorm, and the collision of thinking and inspiration made them experience an unprecedented happiness. (To be continued.) )