137 Who said it was easy to raise children?

Su Shi felt that there was some truth in that, even if the husband was not allowed to visit the delivery room, the husband must be involved in the whole process of raising the child, otherwise some men would think that what if they had a child? What a woman would not give birth? What a simple thing, simple like a hen laying eggs, stomach ache, sent to the delivery room, after a while, the nurse will take a baby out and show you that it is your child. Pen Fun Pavilion www.biquge.info you see, this is the process of giving birth to a child, how simple it is, what is it so hard to give birth to a child when the wife quarrels, it is annoying to listen to it.

The confinement woman is even lying down to eat and drink, and what do you say that the confinement is not good for headaches and joint pain, I think it is squeamish, why is my mother not as squeamish as you after giving birth to so many children?

When it comes to the child, I think that the child will smile at you after a few months of sleep, look, how simple it is to raise a child. How do you know how many times a child changes diapers a night? How do you know that every time a child has a stool, she has to look at the thick color, and even smell it, whether there is a strange smell that is not stool, so as to judge the child's physical condition.

If you don't participate, how do you know the hard work of being a mother? If you don't participate, you don't know that the child is fed again and again and pulled the urine again and again, not because the wind blows.

This time, the Su family will let the third master participate in it no matter what, don't be like the previous three sons, wander around and come back one day to see, yo, they have grown so big, I thought it was a son of the big house.

Several sons and concubines, why when they were young, the third master was only closest to the sixth master of the concubine, not at that time, Aunt Huang was not a child vomiting, fever, and didn't want to eat, one by one excuses to find the third master, at that time, there were three sons, who saw more, who worried more, and naturally got close to which son. In the previous life, there was a phenomenon that the more mischievous the children in the family, the more they tossed their parents, but the more partial the parents were, because the one that made the parents pay the most effort and occupied the largest position in the parents' hearts. Those who are honest and obedient and don't let their parents worry about it, in the words that were popular in their previous lives, are too nonexistent, and their parents don't care so much. Or there is a saying that crying children have milk to eat.

At that time, Su Xiaosan was really innocent, he couldn't see through Aunt Huang's tricks, and he felt sorry for his son's poor health, so he came to his wife's girlfriend to tell his inner worries, and said that his wife's good body is healthy, and Aunt Huang's delicate and weak son is weak.

Su despised the third master in his heart, he didn't see that he didn't eat or sleep for two days when the eldest son was sick, and he didn't see how many doctors he found when the second son didn't open his mouth to speak when he was two years old, and he knelt up the steps of the temple.

Su Shi didn't bother to take care of him, but he was angry with Yun Niang, who was not big at that time.

After Yun Niang inquired, one night, she dragged the third master to sneak under Aunt Huang's window, opened a crack, and listened to Aunt Huang fold her hands and muttered: Tomorrow Niang will give Liulang medicine, I'm sorry Liulang, wait for my mother to fight my wife down, pull the whole master over, my mother went to the temple to mold the golden body of the Bodhisattva, and the third master saw that Liulang on the bed was sleeping naked.

When the third master looked at this scene, what else didn't he understand, and the mallet was not stupid. The angry three old men didn't enter through the door, they climbed directly into the window, jumped out of the window, and gave Aunt Huang a kick in the heart, and Aunt Huang had a miscarriage that night.

The angry third master wanted to bomb Aunt Huang to Zhuangzi, Su Shi thought, bomb her, the concubine is not going to support herself, so she took advantage of Aunt Huang's inconvenience in having a miscarriage, and said that she would blow away the aunt who had a miscarriage, and the outside would not say how your lord was, but only that the wife was vicious.

After hearing what his wife said, the third master left Aunt Huang behind. But since then, the third master has never entered her house, and he has become less interested in Aunt Huang and the sixth master.

Thinking of this, Su Shi thought that this time he had to drag the third master into the days of raising children, otherwise no matter how hard you worked, he would still feel that his son would grow up as soon as the wind blew.

Su Shi, who was lying down and watching his sleeping son, saw that the spring grass came back after resting, and closed the doors and windows outside. And he took off the thick curtain and hung it outside.

Su Shi heard the child humming and chirping after a while, and said to Chuncao with a smile: "It is estimated that it is urine, let the nurse come"

There is a small courtyard on the right side of Yan Mintang, which is not called a courtyard, it is integrated with the main house, it is the place where the child lives when he is young, and he moves to the front yard when he is older, the second master and the fifth master and the nine Lang have all lived in it, there are three main rooms, the main room is divided into three small rooms, the bedroom hall and the study, each main room has two partial rooms on the left and right, and it is for the next person to live.

The nurse now lives here. This nurse is looking for a sister-in-law, the family affairs are innocent, and the person is neat, she has been here for a month, Su Shi saw that she was old and did not give birth, so she asked her to bring her child to feed, yesterday Mrs. gave birth, and the nurse also hurriedly sent her child back.

After the nurse came over, she skillfully changed the child's diaper, and a smell dispersed, Su Shi thought no wonder there was a smell in the house, you said that if this child stayed in the same room with the moon mother day and night, wouldn't the house stink.

No wonder the ladies here don't take care of the babies during the confinement period, and they all put them in the nurse's house. I was the same before, I just wanted to do a good confinement and take good care of myself, but I didn't take care of the baby during the confinement. In my previous life, my arms hurt and my shoulders hurt, and I hugged my children in confinement. In this life, the Su family paid special attention, anyway, there was that condition, unlike the previous life, which was reluctant to spend money on a nanny.

Su Shi, who had an idea, wanted to let the third master live here at night, so that everyone could stink together, and let you taste the taste of holding a child who didn't sleep and cry all night.

Chuncao's eyes lit up when she looked at her wife, and she didn't know what her wife was thinking about, so she smiled and said, "What does your wife think about?"

Su Shi Hehele, shook his head and said, "Don't tell you, let's kill you."

Chuncao saw that Su Shi was still joking, and her heart was relieved. These two dangers scared me to death, I am afraid that my wife will be like the old lady, she will give birth at the age of forty, her body will be broken, her spirit will be weak, and she will not live long after slowly working hard.

When the nurse finished cleaning up the child, she saw that the child was still asleep, so she smiled and said to his wife: "The child sleeps so well, they all say that the child can sleep fast, and he must be a strong one by then."

Su Shi said with a smile and sent her down.

The nurse who came out of the house was so strange that the wife of the three-room house, other people's houses are all the nurses and the nurses live in the same room, but this wife has to guard the nurses herself, and let the nurses go over when needed, so worried that she will be fired from this job. Living for this month, I found that the owners of the three rooms are strange, the daughter-in-law never asks his wife to say goodbye, the son does not do the right thing, the male master is a man who revolves around his wife every day, and the female owner is a kind-hearted person, and he also let himself pick up the baby to feed him in the empty month.

On the day of my wife's birth, I heard that I came back from a circle in the underworld. I was so scared that I was going to the temple to burn incense. Later, he worshipped the Bodhisattva in the house for a long time.