What Heaven does not give me,

No matter how my fingers are clasped,

Still leaking;

For me

No matter how I missed in the past,

will have it.

————— Sanmao

What is lost and what is gained? Ah Xin himself is not very clear.

If there is an afterlife,

To make a tree,

Standing for eternity,

There is no posture of joy and sorrow.

Half in the earth is peaceful,

Half fluttering in the wind,

Half sprinkled with shade,

Half bathed in the sun,

Very silent and very proud,

Never rely on, never seek.

"Tell Yourself"

———— Sanmao

Writer Sanmao is a woman whom Ah Xin admires.

In her life, there are many descriptions of love. Inspired by life, she has a particularly beautiful love.

I've been sowing seeds with my heart,

Your shallow smile,

Let me be haunted by it,

I am moved by your heart, moved by you,

Your smile is like a rainbow on the horizon,

I said never impulsively,

I will cherish every minute about you.

——Chen Xiaodong "Sudden Heartbeat"

This song is very good, you can listen to it.

Loss and gain go hand in hand, and there is gain when there is loss.

Buddhists believe that this life is to pray for blessings in future lives, and the tribulations that we have endured in this life will be transformed into happiness in the next life.

Therefore, Buddhists, in their practice, are all plain and even poor.

It's not that they won't be blessed, they're praying for the well-being of the next life,

Buddhism is divided into two schools, one is Lesser Buddhism and the other is Lesser Thani Buddhism.

Xiaocheng is self-cultivation, mostly ascetics. Pay attention to cultivating oneself and make oneself strong to pray for blessings in the next life.

Dacheng is to cultivate sentient beings and pay attention to the universality of sentient beings. In order to save sentient beings from the sea of suffering, so that believers can give back to themselves, so as to achieve the purpose of praying for blessings in future lives.

I don't know if Ah Xin's understanding is correct, Ah Xin also believes in Buddhism, but Ah Xin is not that kind of fanatic.

Ah Xin believes that no matter what you believe, you can't lose your rationality!, after all, this is just a kind of spiritual sustenance.

The concept of Buddhism: don't fight, don't force, often everything has a fixed number, go with the flow, just be at peace with the situation.

A person's life, from birth to death, is the law by which you come into the world.

In this process, what should be lost will be lost after all, and what should come will come after all. Why force it!

When the flowers on the other side are in full bloom, how beautiful and incomprehensible they are. But the story behind her is tragic and accompanied by death.

The flowers on the other side bloom to see the other side. Who can tell where the other side is, for you have seen those who have seen the other side, have you seen them?

Have you ever encountered such a person or thing?

A man is obviously very handsome, has a successful career, and has a good temper, but he is the one who loves him, and he is a girlfriend or wife who looks okay, has a good figure, but has a very bad temper.

He is often hit by her, where are you good, you are like this every day, can you be a little manly.

I know if you can follow me, don't stick to me all the time! I can't stand you, don't always look like I'm giggling. All right?

Tell me about you, what's so good, you don't have a temper, and you're so clingy. Ay!

Although I hate you very much, why am I so reluctant to you! Although I am not handsome, I just think you are good-looking!

I can't see you for a day, and I don't judge you for a few words, as if I feel like something is missing!

The man's inner monologue: Maybe I owe you too much in my last life, if there is a previous life. I'm here to pay off my debts in this life!

Ten years of repair can be crossed in the same boat, and a hundred years of repair can be slept together.

We don't know what price we had to pay in a previous life when we pass by someone else in the world, let alone in a car or a boat, let alone in a bed.

These things, in our opinion, may be very simple.

But how do we know what price we have paid!

All living things in the world had their laws and trajectories before they came to this world.

A drink and a peck, all have a causal relationship, what cause in it, what effect.

Loss and gain, don't take it so seriously, when fate comes, cherish it. When fate is gone, let go.

There are many people and things, and the final outcome will only be a fragment and a shadow in your mind, in the depths of your memory.

If you want to say who is more important, who can say clearly!

Sometimes, loss is not necessarily destruction, but a new beginning!

If you don't lose it, how can you have a new gain, isn't it!

Loss and gain will never overlap, they will always be opposites.

If you can't keep it, you will rejoice with fate;

If you can't get it, you laugh it off;

If you can't dodge, you will move forward.

Walking too quickly, feet tired.

Thinking too much, tired heart.

That's what life is all about.

It's good to be happy.

Don't think too much about it, it's growing.

And that's just the beginning.

Be optimistic about reality.

Happy to meet the tribulation.

Every day is different,

It's all new beginnings.

Many times in this life, people are torn between loss and gain. As we grow older, we will gradually leave the fairy tale world that our parents have woven for us, and gradually walk out of the wings that our parents are trying to protect us.

People always have to grow up, and they are accompanied by all kinds of warmth and coldness. Double-cross each other.

Gradually, many people will sigh, "I don't want to grow up". Wrong. This is a proposition. Although the answers vary, one theme is "acceptance, unconditional acceptance". This is the way of growth in life, can you stop the growth of age?

This reminds Ah Xin that in a very hot game at the moment, a few words of a game hero can express some of the irony of age to us. "Your stubbornness makes me poetic" and "I want to sing a long song for you".

Sometimes, Ah Xin will ask himself. In the proposition of life, what is the answer you give and what do you lose? What was gained.

Have a career that can support both yourself and your beloved. Sort of.

I hope that I will not come to this world in vain, at least let some people know that they have come to the world and have their own traces. The screws are small, and that works, doesn't it?

Take a good look, the great rivers and mountains of life, if you go to less places, you will regret it for life. You don't have to go to those high-end and high-end places, just eat local food, which is very good. Of these two items, Ah Xin has done a good job.

The phrase "food and beauty cannot be shared", who said it to forget, it doesn't matter too much.

Lose and gain! The two are mutual, and there is a gain in the loss! While losing the carefree, as long as you know how to eat and play as a child, you have gained more friendship, love, and even love!

Although there are many troubles in the process of growing up, there are more joys and good times. Isn't it.