Chapter 1: Women Are Like Flowers
Many men say that women are like clothes, buy new ones when they are old, and change them.
No, although I have had a lot of women, I know it deeply, and I will let women bloom with their own unique fragrance and charm.
Men can't flaunt their success and ability based on how many women I have slept with, it should be said that after I let how many women leave me, they can still have their own unique charm and bloom and have their own fragrance.
Just like the name of the chapter, women are like flowers, there are thousands of kinds of flowers, and the world of women is like a sea of flowers, there are thousands of kinds of flowers, I will not elaborate.
Because I am neither a flower farmer who grows flowers, nor a fertilizer who gives the nutrients needed for flowers to bloom, nor a person who does not understand the language of flowers and destroys her indiscriminately.
I will be in the season of flowers, know how to appreciate and how to make her bloom more dazzling, each flower has its own flowering season and fragrance.
Men are the appreciators of the stamen of women, whether they are ordinary, young, mature, charming, enchanting, arrogant, or even cold flower bones.
As long as it is a woman, it is a unique flower. The blooming of flowers is not just to hope that there will be people who understand her and appreciate her beauty
Some people love one kind of love in their life, that is love, and some people have loved many kinds in their life, that is affection, I belong to the latter, but I am not abusive.
Like a thorny red rose, although it pierces the hand, it is very beautiful and fulfilling, isn't it?
The origin of the name of the flower, legend has it that Aphrodite, the goddess of love, bloomed because of the death of the god Adonis, who was in love, and the blood and tears she left were mixed.
Her external thorns are not a kind of protection for her delicate stamens. Flower language, a symbol of loyal and unswerving love, I love you, in love, and hope to have a boat of passionate love with you. After the passion, what is left?
For example, when jasmine blooms, it carries a unique and elegant fragrance, and many people will stop to appreciate it.
But how many people can read the little fragrance and coldness in her light elegance. Song Yao Shuyao. "Xingxiangzi Jasmine": "Talented fairy, jade bones and ice muscles." Xiang Yanwei, alone Fangfei. Light and elegant, the first out of the boudoir. It is the water palace immortal, the moon palace child, and the Han palace concubine. Clear and boastful, rhyme is better than drunk. Laughing Jiangmei, it is late in the snow
。 The fragrance is mild, and the green leaves are soft. With Wang Lang, the beauty wears the most, and it is always appropriate. ”
Jasmine, jasmine, has the unique fragrance and elegance of Suzhou women, there is a sentence "I am willing to listen to the quarrels of Suzhou women, and I don't want to listen to the whispers of women in a certain city"
It's so fresh and refined, but jasmine is good, but there are too many people who like her, and there is a lot of sense of urgency and crisis.
Like a gardenia, it is white when it blooms, but how many people know that when she blooms, the edge of the white petals is a little green.
How many people can wait for the trace of green, really disappearing, to appreciate the real white and flawless gardenia, at that time she is the most beautiful, at that time her fragrance is rich.
Eternal love and promise. Very beautiful sustenance. The general idea is that this flower begins to give birth to buds from winter, and will not bloom until near the summer solstice.
The leaves of the gardenia tree are also green in the wind, frost, snow and rain all year round. So, although it seems to bloom inadvertently, it has also experienced long-term hard work and persistence.
Perhaps the growth habits of gardenias are more in line with this flower language. It is not only the gift of love, but also the essence of beautiful, tenacious and mellow life under the plain, durable, warm and refined appearance.
[Tang] Du Fu: Gardenia is more than all trees, and there is not much sincerity in the world. It is useful for the color of the body, and it is harmful with the Tao. The red takes the wind and frost, and the green looks at the rain and dew. Ruthlessly move you, and the most important thing is to reflect the river waves.
For example, lilacs have a touch of sadness and simplicity, not sadness for themselves, but sadness for others who only know their ordinary appearance and do not see the softness of their hearts.
She is plain and elegant, and her little white or lilac flowers often go unnoticed. Some people may think that it is not beautiful, if beauty is specifically in terms of bright and dazzling, but it is really cute.
It does not covet praise or extravagant love, it is of extraordinary value but does not reveal it, and it selflessly devotes its small body to the cause of medicine in the motherland.
Lilac's character is gentle, but it is also not lacking in warmth. Although it is plain and light, it has a lot of inner shows. Lilac is serious again, it is soft and strong.
Like plum blossoms, she is the colder the weather is more open, with a continuous dark fragrance of flowers, but it also represents strong and elegant, iron-boned and icy-hearted, but who can know her loneliness
Ancient words: Winter plum and plum fragrance "Thousands of mountains and curtains fly snow, the grass cherishes the flowers and loses their face; the three walls are dark and fragrant, smelling the flowers and branches stretching out their heads; it is suspected that it is spring in the garden, stealing the warm wax moon day; leaning on the household to invite the appreciation, the buckle is silent; the step gate courtyard, refusing to return for a long time.
The flower language of plum blossoms: strong and elegant. The meaning of plum blossoms: plum branches fall in spring. The ancients said that the plum has four virtues, the first born stamen is the yuan, the flowering is the heng, the knot is profitable, and the maturity is chastity.
Her floral fragrance is only depicted by the great poet Wang Anshi of the Song Dynasty "Plum: A few plums in the corner, Ling Han blooms alone, and the distance knows that it is not snow, because there is a dark fragrance".
Such as the lotus, her flowering period is relatively long, but also exudes a refreshing fragrance, making people feel refreshed and happy, has always been regarded as a symbol of noble elegance.
I love the lotus flower the most, "out of the mud but not stained, clear ripples but not demons", not only so, after flowering, her fruit lotus canopy, is a delicacy, and the lotus root is also very good, all are treasures.
Lotus poem 1: The small pond (Yang Wanli) spring is silent and cherishes the trickle, and the shade of the tree shines on the water and loves the sunshine. The little lotus showed its sharp corners, and a dragonfly had already stood on its head.
Lotus verse 2: Wu Ge (Li Bai) at midnight Mirror Lake is three hundred miles, and lotus flowers are hairy. In May, Xi Shi Cai, people look at the narrow. Return to the boat without waiting for the moon, and return to the Yue Wang's house.
Lotus poem three: Xiao out of Jingci Temple to send Lin Zifang (Yang Wanli) After all, the West Lake is in June, and the scenery is not the same as the four seasons. The lotus leaves are infinitely green, and the lotus flowers are different red.
For example, the lily is a world-famous flower that has been loved by people from ancient times to the present. It was originally born in the land of China.
It has always had the reputation of "a hundred years of good marriage", and often when someone gets married, we will always send blessings such as "a hundred years of good marriage, early birth of a noble son". It is not difficult to see the reputation of lilies.
During the Northern and Southern Dynasties, Emperor Xuan of Liang found that the lilies were worth seeing. Poetry: "There are many kinds of leaves, and there is no discoloration in flowering." Dew or drooping, suppressed from the wind. Chamomile is ashamed of the fairy square, and the orchid Xie Fangfu". Praise it for being otherworldly, reserved and subtle.
To the Song Dynasty, the great poet Lu You also used the mound in front of the window to plant lilies. He also said: "Fang Lan moved all over the forest, why not plant hostas in the spare space, and beg for two fragrant lilies, and the old man is still childlike in his seventies."
In modern times, there is no shortage of people who love lilies. Song Qingling, the former honorary president of the People's Republic of China, had a deep appreciation for lilies in her life, and every spring and summer, she often planted a few branches in her room. When the sad news of her death broke," Dr. and Mrs. Rosen, her former best friends in the United States, immediately sent a pot of lilies to the mourning hall set up by the Permanent Mission of China to the United Nations in New York to express their deep condolences to her.
Every woman is a unique flower in this world, if men don't know how to appreciate it, why don't they let them appreciate it alone?
Every woman and every flower has her own open season and her own character, don't appreciate her at the wrong time, and don't try to change her character, because then she will lose her original fragrance and charm!
These are the seven women I care about the most in my life, and I admire and care for them when they are in full bloom.
You say that I am affectionate, and I admit that I am a scumbag, but please don't insult me with bad feelings, because I am sincerely giving, appreciating, and caring for me in every relationship.