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Sissi felt much more settled.

"By the way, I see that you seem to have known each other before, how much do you know about her?" Lu Ran wanted to ask for some useful information from Qian Qian.

Sissi shook her head, "I don't know much. After all, she is a senior sister who has been in high school for two years, and it was only in an event organized by her that I signed up to participate in it. It's just that at that time, I had the impression that she was not as cold as she is now. At that time, she often had a smile on her face. She is also very welcoming to people. ”

"That's weird. What Qian Qian said is completely inconsistent with Lu Ran's impression of Xia Lan.

"By the way, Brother Lu, although we have little intersection with her, she was also a student of Blue Ocean, presumably, several teachers should know something about her, right?"

"Well, you have a point, I should ask the teacher. Lu Ran felt that Sissi was very thoughtful.

"In two days, there will be Teacher Zhang's class, and it will be just right then. Sissi blinked.

Lu Ran nodded, "Okay."

Then, Qian Qian seemed to remember one more thing, and said, "By the way, I almost forgot to tell you that I made an appointment with Ms. Xu for you tomorrow, no problem, right?"

"Oh? After the exam, I was asking you to make an appointment for me. When Lu Ran heard it, it was just right.

When he got home in the evening, Lu Ran took out Xu Le's past information and read it again.

Judging from the information filled in these materials, it is obvious that the other party has always paid attention to privacy, and the work information is vague.

Who the parents are, it is not written, it is empty.

Marital status, which is not hidden, ticked a single.

In short, looking at it as a whole, in addition to being simple, it is still simple.

"It seems that it is necessary to know more about this aspect."

……

"Ms. Xu, is it convenient for you to tell me about your father and mother?"

The next day, Xu Le arrived as scheduled.

As Qian Qian judged, Xu Le's face was not very good, and Lu Ran guessed that she had probably not had enough sleep for a while.

"What do you want to know?" In response to Lu Ran's question, Xu Le did not answer directly, and his reaction seemed to be vigilant.

"Whatever you want. Lu Ran did not deny or affirm, "If you want to say it, it's okay, or, are you willing to talk about their work?"

Xu Le's gaze looked away from Lu Ran, thought for a while, and said, "My father is also in the advertising industry, and my mother has been at home all the time and has no job. ”

"Oh, is your father in the same company as you?"

"No, not the same company. His company is his own. ”

Speaking of this, there was a subtle change in Xu Le's tone.

Probably even Xu Le himself didn't realize it. This change is mixed with admiration, looking up, amazement, and exhaustion.

People's emotions can be so varied in a second.

"Do you have any other children in your family besides you? Do you have any brothers and sisters?"

Lu Ran continued to ask.

"Nope. When he said this, Xu Le's expression added another emotion, sighing.

"They tried, but they didn't succeed, and I was the only child. ”

"Has your mother been at home all this time?" Lu Ran asked tactfully.

Xu Le replied simply, "Well, she has always been a housewife, and she has never gone out to work." ”

In this big city, you can independently support your wife and children, and have your own company, so you must be more abundant in terms of living materials. Lu Ran speculated in his heart.

"Can you tell me how you feel about your father and mother?"

"What does it feel?" Xu Le didn't quite understand Lu Ran's question.

Lu Ran asked about feelings, not what he said about them. The counselor pays more attention to the objective facts of one thing than what kind of people Xu Le's parents are in life, and he cares more about what kind of people they are in Xu Le's heart.

"Whatever comes to mind, you can say anything. ”

"My father, very strong. ”

Xu Le's description was very brief, and it didn't seem to be finished, and Lu Ran didn't interrupt her, waiting for her to say more.

"My mother, it's weaker. ”

Speaking of this, Xu Le stopped, and had no intention of continuing.

How to understand strong and weak?

Why do you use a set of antonyms to describe your parents?

"Qiang, what do you mean, can you explain?" Lu Ran asked Xu Le to explain her understanding of a detail, which is professionally called "clarification", which is the basic skill of psychological counseling.

The same word, spoken by different people, at different times, all mean different things.

Language is normative and constantly changing.

Professional counselors will not easily use their own common sense and concepts to judge the meaning of the other party, but will clarify and make sure again.

Xu Le smiled and said, "Qiang, what else does it mean? Isn't this obvious enough? My dad has the ability and can make money." My mom, it's not going to work, stay at home. So it's the dad who has the final say in the family. He's comparative, strong. ”

Xu Le's eyes looked away again, and the smile had dissipated.

"Do you like this state?" Lu Ran asked again.

"What status?"

"It's your father, who is in a stronger state. Lu Ran tried his best to restore the adjectives Xu Le himself used.

"I didn't think about it. Maybe. There's nothing to like or dislike, that's it. Like it or not, it's all like that. Let's talk about something else. ”

Xu Le's request to change the topic was very direct, and it seemed that she didn't want to talk anymore at all.

"Okay, let's talk about your job, I heard you're busy. Lu Ran cooperated with her.

"Yes. I sleep less than I used to. Xu Le explained.

"Do you still have panic symptoms?"

"Occasionally, but I feel more tired. Xu Le leaned back on the sofa, it seemed that this position made her very comfortable, and if she talked for a few more minutes, she might fall asleep here.

"Why did you suddenly get so tired, and what changes have you made at work?"

"Now there's a promotion opportunity that I'm fighting for with another colleague and now it's a critical time for me to take advantage of it. ”

Speaking of this, Xu Le's eyes became energetic again, and the small red blood on his eyeballs were exposed.

"You said you were tired, did you unconsciously tighten too much, or did you feel the pressure?"

Hearing this question, Xu Le showed the kind of expression that seemed to be smiling just now, and said: "Pressure? Living in the world, who has no pressure, and those who are afraid of pressure do not deserve to win, only deserve to lose, I will not admit defeat." ”

"You don't allow yourself to lose?"

"Yes. ”

Xu Le replied in the affirmative, the redness in his eyes was a little obvious, and his face was worse than when he saw her the first few times.

"Have you ever thought that your symptoms may be related to your recent work stress?" Lu Ran provided her with an idea.

"Work pressure?" Xu Le laughed again, as if Lu Ran had said something ridiculous, which made her laugh.

"My problems have nothing to do with work pressure. I don't get sick at work, you know, I just get sick on certain occasions. Moreover, my work rhythm has always been like this, and I can handle it. ”

It can be seen that Xu Le was unwilling to accept such an assumption, and without thinking too much, he denied it. (To be continued.) )