Chapter 18 What is the happiness you want?

What happiness is. Everyone's perception of happiness is different.

For example, for sleepy insects, sleep until you wake up naturally. That is the greatest happiness.

For money fans, counting money until their hands cramp is what they think is happiness.

For foodies, tasting the world's delicious food is the best happiness.

For Ah Xin, the happiness he wants is very simple and life-like. It's nothing more than a family eating together and not intrigue, just fine.

Life needs to be managed, and if you don't manage your life well, it will only be a mess.

If you have a loser woman in your family, it is actually the happiness of the man.

Because she can dress herself, she will naturally make her husband feel pleasing to the eye.

Of course, women who invest themselves well are very good, and men will feel very face-saving every time they take them out.

Every penny you save for your husband, he may have spent it on other women.

This is a female friend of Ah Xin, who posted a circle of friends, and most importantly, she also added her own photo, and also added four words to the photo: Losers.

Ah Xin chatted with her for a long time. Ask her why she thinks she's a loser!

She said that she not only does not go to work to earn money to support her family, but also often buys clothes, skin care products, and spends money lavishly. Only take the children to do housework. Ah Xin talked to her a lot, for a long time.

Ah Xin wants to say, don't look down on it, take the children to do housework.

It is an honorable and sacred profession. You know?

They are also working well, but the place where they work is their home, and their job is to run the home. Circle around your home.

People get along with people for a long time, their shortcomings will gradually be exposed, and when the other party sees you through, but still doesn't dislike you, that's sincere!

Your temper and behavior will drive away many people, but you will also leave the most real people, time is the best filter, and what remains is the destined person who adapts to each other. Only cherishing will last a long time.

Whether it is love, friendship, or family affection, if you don't manage it, you will be like a stranger. Be grateful for all the encounters and be grateful for the people who have always stayed by your side!

For he was a wandering stranger,

Until I met the thin green field,

The clear spring in the Honggobi,

Meet your little heart,

Planted with past dreams, full of happiness,

I heard someone whisper:

This is where you have moved your mortal heart;

It's a dream you'll never have.

———— Sanmao

Ah Xin loves the writer Sanmao's poetry collection, I don't know why, between the lines of her words, Ah Xin can always get a sense of resonance.

Ah Xin wants to tell those who encounter setbacks in life: If life deceives you, don't be sad, don't be sad. Maybe a person has to go through a lot of roads and experience countless sudden prosperity and desolation in life before he becomes mature. Isn't it?

When he is tired and tired, Ah Xin hopes that there is someone by his side to take care of him and accompany him, but many times, Ah Xin can only carry it by himself, and he can't carry it if he can't bear it, and he can't let outsiders see his weakness, what if he is rich, what if he is powerful, these are not what Ah Xin wants, he just wants to have someone to talk to and accompany him when he is tired and tired. That's all.

But it often backfires, the people around him are either flattering or hypocritical, who really cares about his mood, Ah Xin summed up the reason, he is numb is money.

Money is indeed a good thing, it can improve a person's quality of life, live in a luxury house, wear a famous brand, and ride a luxury car. If this is what some people want, does it make sense?

Isn't it strange that there are no one to eat with you, and not to talk to you!

Living in such a big house, the bedroom is big, and the quilt is expensive, so what, is it lonely to be alone?

No matter how good the material conditions are, they can't replace it, and there is a sincere person who is accompanied by him.

When Ah Xin was sick, how he wished that someone would come to the hospital to see him, but there was no one else except his old friends Sinianjun and Yanzi. His family has never come to visit him, if there is no money, a phone call, saying that there is no money, call over!

Money is a scourge, for money, family affection is gone, and many friendships are gone.

What Ah Xin wants is very simple, there is a person who knows how to cherish himself, yes, the swallow is by his side, friendship, there is, the old friend misses Jun, Ah Ming.

But what about family affection! What about his family! It's as if there is no such thing as them in this world, and they only know that money, money, money, and money!

Ah Xin's current life is not what he wants, what he wants is very simple, no intrigue.

has a sincere emotion, works from 9 to 5 every day, after work, with his lover, doing housework, watching bubble dramas, shopping or something. Occasionally have dinner with old friends or something, and have a good chat with your family on holidays!

These things are obviously very common, but Ah Xin rarely has the opportunity and time to have them.

The following elaboration of happiness, Ah Xin thinks it is very right, but he doesn't remember where he saw it. At that time, Ah Xin felt that it made sense, so he collected it.

Happiness is just a feeling, as long as we feel it with our hearts, it will always linger around us.

Happiness is when two people find all the places they want to go on the map and then go together.

Happiness is not about how much you have, but about valuing what you have and looking down on what you can't have.

Ah Xin also gives it to everyone, I wish everyone can also have the happiness they think.

The happiness that Ah Xin wants is very simple to say, and complicated to say complicated. The happiness you want is a picture of harmonious coexistence as a family, without other factors. A genuine love.

Although these are not realistic for Ah Xin, this is what he wants. These things seem to you to be very commonplace, even normal, but in Arsinna, they are very extravagant and extravagant.

Choose one person with a white head, choose a city to grow old. It's okay to separate the two, but if they are together, it's a bit difficult.

What do you want to be happy? Welcome to the comment area to discuss, Ah Xin is waiting for you.