Chapter 4: What is the meaning that life gives us?
Ah Xin is really full of emotion these days, and I don't understand, why! Life is fragile, life is short for a few decades! Why should you let your family bear this blow at the end of your life!
You choose to end your life and leave this world. Have you ever thought about your elderly parents, the blow to them is huge! Have you ever considered your young children?
The ancients said: Parents are here, not far away.
A few of you are good, and you are directly separated from heaven and man forever!
Ah Xin has received the news of the sudden death of his friend one after another in the past few days, and when he heard that the first friend had passed away, he was surprised and at a loss when he heard the news of the death of the third friend, and even a little numb.
When Ah Xin went to mourn, when he saw the haggard appearance of their parents, Ah Xin would want to ask their souls out loud, if there is, don't you know the sorrow of your parents and white-haired people sending black-haired people!
Why did Ah Xin know you bastards at the same time?
What does that saying goes: It's better to die than to live, isn't it?
Death is too easy, you know? What is the difficulty? After suffering all kinds of hardships in life, it is the hardest thing to face calmly with a smile.
Ah Xin has received the news of the death of three friends in the past few days, and Ah Xin wants to tell everyone from them.
What is the meaning that life gives us?
This first one, to be precise, is Ah Xin and Yanzi's common friend, a twenty-six-year-old girl, who died like a flower at the age of jade.
She had been talking to her boyfriend for five years and broke up with her. This is a very normal thing in itself, and Yanzi has also persuaded her to make her want to open up. As for whether she listened or not, it is unknown. Now it seems that it was not listened to at all.
Ah Xin won't accuse her boyfriend, this is a consensual matter, if you can be together, you can't be together, it's good to be separated, why bother!
Ah Xin just wants to say that life in the world is not only love, but also family affection and friendship!
Some people may want to say that life is short, and a vigorous love can at least prove that we have come to this world and walked once, and this life is in vain.
So Ah Xin wants to ask, how many of the vigorous love have results!
The meaning that life gives us is not only love!
The other two had a failed business and the company's stock suddenly crashed. Ah Xin wants to mobilize funds to help, but stocks are like this, just like the weather, sometimes the sun is scorching, like the sky, but suddenly it will be cloudy and stormy. It's hard to prevent.
Ah Xin's two friends, in the business field, are also veterans, more than ten years of ups and downs, once ruined, and even put their lives in, Ah Xin is sad and embarrassed at the same time, I can't help but ask myself, what is the reason?
The main reason is that the preparation for entering the capital market is not sufficient, and entrepreneurs in traditional industries cannot play capital operation. This is serious, but not fatal, the fatal thing is that the funds are inflated too quickly and lose their hearts. In layman's terms, there is no resistance to the temptation of money. When they found out the problem, it was too late and they fell in, and when they called Ah Xin and asked for help, Ah Xin tried his best to collect funds to stop it, but he was powerless.
Ah Xin persuaded them that they could make a comeback! But they never imagined it! A few days later, when Ah Xin was in Shanghai, he suddenly heard the news of their death.
Is money really that important? If you don't have it, you won't have it, and you can earn it again! Isn't it! If you don't have people, you won't have anything!
Ah Xin is going to ask again, what is the meaning of life to us!
Is it except for love, money. Isn't there anything else?
It is really not easy for people to come to this world, my mother conceived in October, gave birth to us, and our parents raised us with hard work, and did not ask us to achieve much, just be safe, you often go back to see their two elders, which is the best reward for their nurturing grace.
In this life, it is always accompanied by helplessness and emotion, as well as many tests, ups and downs, joys and sorrows, which can be regarded as life, isn't it?
We should be brave to face, to accept, to find a way to solve it, instead of compromise, or even to end it with death, that is a sign of cowardice.
Life is a wonderful thing, it gives us the right and opportunity to enjoy family, love and friendship, as well as moving, when we are old, looking back on our lives, from Yaya to silent, from naïve children to the vicissitudes of life, we will find that life gives us a lot of things, the scenery along the way, the moving stories along the way, will be the best witness.
But Ah Xin wants to say that living, yes is not wrong, that is, living, only by living, can there be all possibilities.
In fact, life does not give us anything, we are defining it for her.
Life gives us only a process, a process from birth to death, in which how to create is how to give
The wonder of life is that every day is different and a new beginning.
Don't deliberately arrange anything, then you will lose the wonderful place of life.
But Ah Xin wants to say that only living is the most fundamental.
Living, these two words, easy to say, will be very tired to do!
How wonderful it is to wake up every morning and say to yourself that a new day has begun.