Seeing that the third master went to explain to his eldest son with a satisfied face, Su Shi laughed in his heart, and felt that he had changed a lot, if it was before, he would never have done that, because it is not uncommon to take care of you. Pen ~ fun ~ Pavilion www.biquge.info remembered that there is a saying that respects you and cares about you before I find a way to coax you.

I have watched a show before, which is a show where a female writer talks about marriage, and more than 20 female guests are divorced, even female writers are divorced.

This female writer said that she didn't know what she was doing until she got divorced, why did her husband give up his excellent self and chose a woman who was not as good as himself, and was about the same age as herself, and the female writer was very aggrieved, if you find a young and beautiful man, a man will make a mistake all over the world, but if you find someone who is not as good as herself, she always feels that it is not that taste.

Because of having a son, I often have contact with my ex-husband, but later I calmed down, and I found out why in the chat with my ex-husband.

The ex-husband is also a writer, but the female writer always wants him to go further, and feels that he is a peer, so she always picks at her ex-husband's works according to her own eyes, corrects his problems, and hopes that he will achieve perfection according to his own ideas and requirements.

But the ex-husband feels that there is no sense of accomplishment in front of the female writer, and he is always hit, as if he has never been recognized by his ex-wife, and the current wife is just a reader, but he admires himself and likes his own works, the ex-husband said that it is wrong for him to cheat, but he doesn't want to live in depression for the rest of his life, so aggrieved life is too congested, and now, although the current wife is very ordinary, not as good as the ex-wife, but he is very comfortable, and more and more excellent works are also written.

The female writer was speechless for a long time after hearing this, and tens of thousands of Cao Nima were running wildly in her heart. I know that you are also very good, otherwise how would I choose you as my husband, but I am a wife, I put your good in my heart, and because I am your wife, I hope you are getting better and better, I don't disagree with you, but I put the recognition silently in my heart, I hope we can fly together in our work to correct you.

The female writer asked the female guests on the program whether anyone here was like this as a wife? Eighty percent of them replied that they treated their ex-husbands in the same way. No matter how good a person is, he or she needs the recognition and appreciation of the other party.

After watching the show, Su suddenly realized, why do many women complain that the object of their husband's cheating is not as good as herself, is he blind?

Since then, Su has read a lot of topics about marriage management, and has also listened to a lot of complaints and suggestions from sisters.

A person posted that she is a strong woman, the leader's right-hand man, everyone thinks that she will have problems in marriage, because too strong women are generally unhappy in their families, but her family is very harmonious, she said that the two of them live together, not axe to axe, I fight hard for my ideals, for my career, for my salary, but what is there to fight with my husband at home? If it is not that I love him and I think we are quite suitable, it is not a problem for me to crush him in terms of his IQ. But you can't let yourself be a Saint Seiya when you're away, home or a Saint Seiya, what can you do if you win the fight? Husband and wife are the closest people to old age, take care of each other and rely on each other, it's not that you are Superman, I'm that Ottoman.

Men often care more about self-esteem and face than women, so there is that sentence, I care about you before I coax you.

is still the strong woman who said that she often seduces and coaxes her husband to deal with problems according to her own intentions, rather than directly letting her husband do how to be. also gave an example, saying that my husband was very worried because of the problem of job hopping, and had feelings for the original unit, but he wanted to change jobs to fight, and he was afraid that the prospects of the new unit would not develop well, and the IQ of the strong woman would be good as soon as he analyzed it, and he knew that the job hopping must be good, the original unit would decline, and the new unit would jump, but she did not directly say her views and theoretical basis, but induced step by step, and then her husband jumped ship, and a few years later, the original unit boasted, and the new unit became hundreds of strong, and my husband was very excited, and felt that he was very visionary and made a very wise decision。 But I didn't know that the strong woman was snickering behind her back.

Men, like children, need encouragement and appreciation, and spiritual satisfaction is just as important as bedside satisfaction.

On the contrary, why are women always moved by sweet words, some men who are not outstanding can marry a girl with a good family background and a lot of money, and many of them are deeply trapped in the sweet words of the other party and the thoughtfulness of being low and small.

Men need to be spiritually appreciated, and women need to be spiritually pampered.

Su Shi understood too late before, but when he realized his mistake, he also didn't know how to manage the relationship between people, especially his family, and he also thought that I was good to you, you should know that I didn't need to say it, but I used that mouth to wipe out all my efforts.

In this life, she will change, because by doing so, not only is the other party very satisfied, but she is also happy, and her heart is also very happy.

Su Shi, who has completed the brain and satisfied his own changes, hummed - I am the only one who loves you, because I love you, I have become more and more serious, and I am the only one who loves me, I know that I am not as single as I was at the beginning, why let the two people who once loved each other become more and more strange.

The second master listened to his father's explanation and returned to the main courtyard, the second grandmother was holding the tiger girl to feed, and the second master took it and said: "I feed the tiger girl, you watch Sister Lan eat"

The second grandmother asked, "Why did your father call you over?"

The second master was about to talk about this, and after listening to his wife's question, he was worried: "Father said that my mother had set up a shop, and she wanted to do what she wanted to do, and Ming'er asked me to follow my father to the store, and said that I should keep an eye on this regular shop, and you said that I am busy now, let me go to the shop to stare at it? There are craftsmen working, why should I stare at it? I don't know how to do it, and I can't do anything, besides, the family can't leave me, I'm gone, who will take care of the tiger girl."

The second grandmother knew that it must be her mother-in-law's arrangement, and her mother-in-law had already said that when the time comes, find something to let the second master be busy, and don't stay at home to watch the children, the child is older, he should be lost, and he has his own things to do, but I don't know what the second master likes to do, the fifth master loves a wood carving, and the second master didn't find out what he hobbies.

The second grandmother also agrees with her mother-in-law's words, there are people in the family who take care of the children, where are the nurses and maids idle, and the second master is allowed to do the work, they are not all idle to make private money.

The second grandmother also learned to speak to her mother-in-law: "It's not that my mother is not at ease, last time my mother said that Xianggong is a careful person and works carefully, if you go to the point, you can also help the craftsman to work, where it is rough, it is good to correct it at that time."

The second master fed the tiger girl, nodded and smiled: "Mother is really right, I just don't like that rough work, everything must be done completely, and the details should be more exquisite, my mother said, this person often looks at the details to find the problem, and the work is the same, the surface looks good, who knows if the inside is rough? or my mother knows me, then I have to help my mother keep an eye on it."

The second grandmother pursed her lips and smiled, she now likes to listen to her mother-in-law the most, before her mother-in-law was always faint, no spirit, now it's good, if you want to say something, it is a string of words, the father-in-law also prefers to listen, Sun sometimes learns from the mother-in-law, and the Xianggong is also so coaxing to speak, I really didn't expect that the Xianggong is also listening to the beauty of joy.