Chapter 352: Although I am no longer young

Some people may think that falling in love is very simple, but in Zhao Qian's opinion, it is really difficult.

It's harder than memorizing chemical formulas!

I don't have much experience, and I'm afraid that the truth will be given to the wrong person.

Whether it's love at first sight or long-term love, there always seems to be a feeling that that person is not her.

From elementary school to college, I have met a lot of good girls, and the other party has taken the initiative, but he deliberately kept his distance, and finally slowly became estranged.

As for the current Zhang Siya, she just has the idea of slowly contacting, slowly approaching, and slowly understanding.

Forgive him for not being able to understand the fast-food love and love of modern people.

For him, love is not as simple as inviting guests to dinner.

The thought of the future of the two of them made him a little apprehensive. I'm afraid that I won't get along well, there will be all kinds of small contradictions, I'm afraid that my parents won't like it, I'm afraid that the relationship between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not be good after marriage, and I'm afraid that the other party won't care about the family, too much.

I simply don't rush to find it.

"Let's go, the meal is finished, I won't delay your time, let's send you back first." Zhao Qian said with a smile and did not continue the topic just now.

Ke Yiyi let out an "oh" and followed silently.

I don't know why, but I don't think the boss is as happy as he seems.

Eh, the idea of a rich person is really strange, unlike himself, there is only one idea, and that is to become a big star.

When you become a big star, you will have the money to live in a mansion and buy a luxury car, wow!

Zhao Qian took a taxi to send Ke Yiyi back to the apartment rented by the crew first.

Ke Yiyi got out of the car, watched him wave in the car, and then continued to drive forward.

Suddenly, I smiled, although nothing major happened tonight, but the harvest was still not small.

turned around, but saw Wu Man standing in the apartment, looking at him with a puzzled expression.

Ke Yiyi smiled indifferently and walked up with his little waist twisted.

……

Zhao Qian booked a business room at the hotel not far from the crew's apartment.

Today is Mother's Day, and when he saw all kinds of filial piety in the circle of friends, he knew about such a holiday.

I just haven't called home in a while, so I'm calling back today to say hello.

Writers of chicken soup often say that there are two women in the world who cannot be disappointed, one is to give birth to you and raise you, and the other is willing to give birth to children for you.

Zhao Qian hasn't met the latter yet, but the former has raised him for more than 20 years.

"Mom, what's going to be for the morning?"

"Mom, what's for lunch?"

"Mom, what do you eat at night?"

"Mom, I'm hungry. ”

"Mom, do you have anything to eat?"

"Dad, where's my mom?"

There are two kinds of people in the world, one is the mother, and the other is the person who is taken care of by the mother, Zhao Qian is undoubtedly the one who is taken care of in the eyes of his parents.

I am afraid that my son will be hot in the summer, and I am afraid that my son will be cold in the winter.

Even since adding his mother to WeChat, Zhao Qian's circle of friends no longer dares to post things randomly. As for shielding, that's even more daring.

Not only that, but I often receive chicken soup texts from my mother, just like the messy things I forwarded in QQ space when I was in junior high school.

Every time I go home, I will be disgusted by all kinds of things:

"When I got home, I knew how to eat, drink, sleep, and I didn't know how to help with housework. ”

"How many adults are you, things are still littered, just like your father, can you let me save some snacks?"

"It's time to eat! Every time someone shouts, do you think you are the ancient young master?"

However, when I leave home and go back to school-

Zhao Qian: "Mom, I'm back in Nandu." ”

Mom: "So fast, don't stay a few more days?"

"Have you packed everything, what about your clothes, what about your shoes, what about your socks?"

"What time is the car? remember to buy something to eat in the car and not be hungry, remember to wear a mask, sit in the front seat, and don't get dizzy." ”

“……”

She said that even if she had Alzheimer's disease and forgot the whole world, she would not forget her son.

Zhao Qian used to think that when he made a lot of money, he must let his parents live the happiest life.

But when I waited until this day, I found that my parents didn't really need that kind of luxurious daily life, and they were more accustomed to their own rhythm of life.

Zhao Qian understood, let them toss as they want.

"Hey, Mom, have you eaten?"

Zhao Qian opened the > Mother's smile appeared on the screen: "I've eaten, I eat very early in the countryside, what about you? Are you eating at home or out today? Why do you have time to call back? Have you been busy with work lately? How long do you have to take the exam?"

That's mom.

Zhao Qian smiled: "Fortunately, there are professionals to help deal with the work, and I am responsible for giving orders." I haven't taken the exam yet, at least until the end of June. ”

"What about Wanqing, what is she busy with, I see the decoration behind you, why is it different from before?" asked my mother.

Zhao Qian said: "I'm in Shanghai now, come here to talk about some business, and then go back to Nandu tomorrow." ”

My mother was shocked: "Why did you go to Shanghai? Do you take a plane? So far away......

chattered a lot, for example, I was bored at home, and reclaimed the two sloping lands that I had abandoned before to grow vegetables, and my father and my second uncle began to raise chickens in purse seine nets, and they were raised until August 15, and their sons were married again......

After talking for a while, my mother was going to take a shower before hanging up the phone.

Zhao Qian held the mobile phone, fell back on the big bed, squinted slightly, the smile just now gradually disappeared, and he looked a little tired.

After all, he was only in his early 20s, and he had never been exposed to so many workplace things before, and the sudden influx into his life made him a little scrambling.

But—

Young people, don't rush, take your time.

In fact, I know that in the first half of your life, because of your family, knowledge, and vision, you became inferior, sensitive, suspicious, afraid of failure, and eager to succeed.

You want to prove yourself to the world, to prove that you are not worse than others, even if you don't think so, your heart also longs for the envy of others, and longs for halo and honor.

But there are many things in the world that can be achieved without desire.

You have to keep in mind the truth that haste is not attainable.

Don't just see the glamour and prosperity on the bright side of others, but also understand how many years others have spent for this day.

In fact, you have done a good job now, at least you know that you are on the right path, at least you can see the future you want.

What people fear most is being at a loss and not knowing what to do.

Making money is a must, money is not a mundane thing, it is the material basis to ensure your happiness in the second half of your life, and it is a favorable guarantee for realizing your personal dreams.

But don't go astray and end up falling into the abyss because of money.

It's easy to try what you want to do once in a while, but don't try to learn badly, because it's too expensive.

You can learn to meet left and right in an unfamiliar banquet, practice the ability to watch people put on dishes, take the initiative to clink glasses with drinking friends you don't know, and start chasing fame and fortune, and you don't think there's anything wrong with it.

But remember who is your most worthy friend, and who is the one who is willing to lend a hand in your time of suffering.

You can learn to act on the scene and learn to wear a mask to be a person, but don't forget, always uphold the goodness and integrity in your heart, and don't let your parents down.

Remember to leave yourself a piece of pure land in your heart, even if it's only the size of a fingernail.

At the age of twenty-one, in ancient times, it was already the age of weak crown and hair.

Today, it is also a young man who is just high-spirited.

It's just that I hope that you are an Internet god, a realistic and domineering president, or a hot-blooded teenager who loves to chase anime, can play games with friends all night, yearns for brotherhood in martial arts, and will tear up because of some sensational scenes.

"I'm no longer young, but I'm still a teenager. ”

Hopefully we're all teenagers.