399 Blocking hearts

The third aunt and grandmother saw that her sister-in-law was about to turn her face, and she hurriedly pulled Su Shi to shake it, and said with a hippie smile: "Good sister-in-law, you don't even listen to who is the reaction?"

Su Shi said in his heart: Guan Song's worries are really right, but this is ape dung and a fortress, so it will make the three families violent. Su Shi shook off her hand holding her arm and said, "You still need to ask, it's not the object of your repentance, what's the matter?

The third aunt and grandmother blushed and said: "What do you mean to hook up, he doesn't have a wife, I don't have a husband, and it's not a cheating affair but also hooking up?" I was also moved by his infatuation, after seeing it in Liaodong, I was also very shameless, I felt so embarrassed, I just wanted to come back, and it had nothing to do with it if I was far away, who would have thought that he would chase him back, saying that he was willing to marry me, as long as I agreed, he went to the house and said it himself, and everything was handed over to him."

Su Shi was really stunned, the two of them scratched the goods, and they didn't even care about etiquette in order to complain? She also thought it was just a letter or something, this person was chased back, it wasn't that the Su family came here to assimilate, it was they who were really not ordinary widows remarried, if they were just commoners in the countryside, it wouldn't be a big deal for a widow to remarry a widower and remarry, but these two scratched the goods not, not only not, but they were all stirred up in the three mansions back then, and now they are making trouble again, it really costs people's lives, think about Mrs. Songbai's age, will she be angry to death, and Mrs. Tai, a few years ago, she was also angry by the third aunt and grandmother and had a stroke, but Mrs. Tai concealed it, others don't know, if this makes Mrs. Tai angry again, she has a cerebral hemorrhage, the third aunt and grandmother will really be sunk in the pond by the Xie family clan.

There is also the man's family, when the man left for her, the family hated her to death, and now they don't have anything to do with Xuanping Houfu, and the people of that family are angry when they see the people in the Hou Mansion, and they are also stunned to see that person can do this, and he is also an emotional guy.

Su Shi thought to himself that it was no wonder that after the third aunt and grandmother came back, every time she saw that she lost the anger on her face before, just like Su Niang's spring water and affection yesterday, it turned out that she had already hooked up, and the emotional nourishment was also moisturizing. No wonder she had to ask her sister-in-law and herself to promise to help her last time she pretended to be a ghost, and then there was such a thing, just waiting for when it broke out.

In front of this guy who is all scratching his brain, he estimated that it was useless for him to say anything, she came to discuss with herself, she came to find an alliance, she would definitely say that my sister-in-law helped me to tell my mother and eldest brother, I couldn't open my mouth, she was like this every time, as if she was an innocent person, but Su Shi didn't want to be her alliance in this matter, she really didn't want to get involved in it.

The third aunt and grandmother saw that the third sister-in-law did not speak, so she asked, "Third sister-in-law, if it were you, what would you do?"

Su Shi looked at her quietly and said: "If it were me, I wouldn't regret my marriage back then, and I wouldn't be where I am now."

The third aunt gritted her teeth and asked, "If you are a widow now, what will you do if you have a good condition to be so infatuated with you?"

Su Shi said: "It's really for your own sake that I cursed your brother, if I were a widow, I wouldn't remarry, I don't have so much passion, no one is worthy of me to abandon my children to serve another big family, I won't make trouble for my mother's husband and wife to remarry, I'm timid, you laugh at me for being stupid or incompetent, I won't do things impulsively, especially here to do things that go against the world's conditions"

The third aunt and grandmother said with a sad face: "I just have two daughters, and they are both married, and I can't live with my daughter and son-in-law here, I am alone, why do I find someone to spend the rest of my life, why is the third sister-in-law so opposed?"

Su Shi said: "Listen, I'm not against it, it's you who asked me first, what I just said, and I don't support it, just like back then, didn't you also come to ask me? I also said that I don't support you to regret your marriage, but that time is not the same as this time, you have two points that you have to think clearly in advance."

Su wants to see it for the sake of my fellow countrymen, for the sake of our friendship for many years, I have to make it clear to you, if you still seem to be jumping at me like you were yelling at back then, I will blast you out.

"First, it's not ordinary for you to remarry, that is, he can convince his family, so where are you? Can you convince your husband's family and your mother's family? This is not the modern age when you marry and your relatives have nothing to do with it, you can marry eight times, second, he is an unforgettable old love, you are burning passion, you are a second marriage, you can not care about your daughter's thoughts, he is also a second marriage, after you get married, you are a ready-made stepmother, you can't even get along well with your own daughter, how can you be a stepmother? This is not an era when children can ignore them and only care about their own lives after they get married, he still has a little lady who is not married, he used to be fostered by relatives without a housewife, if you become a stepmother, you have to take care of it, how do you get along with your stepdaughter? She is not a twin son, you can beat and scold as you like, if you give a face and she goes to her father to cry, will it affect your relationship? And he has a son-in-law, and the son-in-law and grandchildren will live with you until you die, do you want to leave them and live a life of two? Have you ever thought about these problems?"

The third aunt and grandmother looked hesitantly, and Su said: "You listen to me first, if you still seem to have a tantrum with me back then, I will beat you out if I don't follow you, if you want to listen to me, you just want to find an alliance, you better find someone else, I won't just follow your ideas to flatter."

The third aunt nodded ashamedly and said, "Third sister-in-law, you said, I won't be so messy, I know that what you said is planned for me, and I am not the ignorant girl I was back then."

"Okay, I'll go on to say, even if you both have no children, with your temperament, can you get along well with an ancient husband? Will you take a step back for each other? Do you still want to be like Cao's brother-in-law at the beginning, you have to let him listen to you for whatever you want to do? You tell me, did Cao's brother-in-law regret marrying you later? Did you regret betraying your relatives for you?"

Su Shi saw the dodge in her eyes, and estimated that Cao's brother-in-law had said something similar, otherwise she would have retorted last time, "I admit that you are here because of your beauty and lively temperament, you are recruiting people, making men's eyes shine, and you will be attracted to you, but after marriage, your eyes are not always bright, you have to run in, you have to compromise with each other, you tolerate each other, you ask yourself, will you compromise for each other? Look at you again, between you and Cao's brother-in-law, what I hear the most is your complaints, complaining that he is incompetent, complaining that he was blind at the beginning, complaining that he married him and made you a widow, you have never reflected on yourself, and you have never reflected on yourself, and you have never reflected on whether you have made yourself wrong in these few years of marriage."

The third aunt and grandmother bit her lip, thought for a long time and said: "Sometimes I also think, Ah Yuan and I are not suitable, when I was young and ignorant, I need someone who is not considered to stand up to the sky, at least a man, but Ah Yuan is not, he is an only son, a big boy, a child who has not grown up, we are not suitable"

Su Shi smiled: "Don't you remember that I also said that you are also a child who has not grown up? I see that you are still a child who has not grown up, mature people will not be emotional, they will consider all aspects, and you are only moved by his infatuation now, do you know him? Do you know his family? Do you know his children? I forgot to mention just now, can you serve his parents? What will happen if his mother treats you badly?" Don't tell me that I don't have to be angry with you, you just saw the second sister-in-law in front of your mother, if his mother treats you like that, will you be divorced or will you let him fight with his mother? Modern marriage is not just a marriage between two people, it is mixed with seven aunts and eight aunts, and the marriage here is that the daughter-in-law is the grandson, and it will stay up until you become a mother-in-law, but you are a step-mother-in-law to the end, and it is impossible for you to open your teeth and dance your claws."

Su Shi looked at the third aunt and grandmother who were not convinced, and then said: "I am not optimistic about you, I am still the same as last time, I think you are impulsive, you go back and think about it, if impulse can bring happiness, it is worth it, but your impulsive choice may be to be angry with Mrs. Songbai to kill your own mother, let your mother's reputation be discredited, and let your nieces and nieces and granddaughters not get such a marriage at the cost of getting married, and I don't know if you can have a good marriage, can you afford this price?"

The third aunt and grandmother wanted to say something but didn't open their mouths, Su Shi thought, finally learned to think about it and then decided to jump or not. It's so blocked in my heart, my son has never been so wasteful, and he hasn't let himself say good things for decades, he must have hurt her in his previous life, and he only came to say some nonsense that she still doesn't appreciate in this life.

Su Shi thought, I am the Holy Mother who was complained about by others. Why don't I have to avoid her like my sister-in-law? In the third aunt and grandmother, I am the abusive type.

Su Shi took a deep breath, and finally said: "You calm down, don't think about his infatuation and your touch, you don't want to live up to it and don't want to miss it, just think about what kind of person you are, what kind of marriage you are suitable for, what kind of marriage you want, can he give you what you want, this time you have to think calmly, even if you want to marry, you can't marry someone who is infatuated with you, but is this person suitable for you?" Can you compromise a little for him and back a little, you are not a twenty-eight girl, you can be a moth to a fire for an infatuation, you are not a moth to the fire yourself, you are going to blow up your husband's mother's family and that person's home, and be a bride in the scum!"