620 The world is full of academics
Hou Ye breathed a sigh of relief, and glared at his wife again, if his daughter-in-law is capable, why bother to let his grandmother worry about Hou Fu at such an age?
Mrs. Songbai said: " I'm just worried about my life, I really don't want to do anything, I can't be idle, this son of Su Mansion, I also occasionally hear the female relatives who come to see me mention, saying that there is a good martial son in the literati family of Su Mansion, I paid attention to it, and secretly inquired, Tao of Su Mansion did not say, serious woman, right mind, you see that she brought out Xie Su's family, and the aunt and wife who came out of her big house, are all virtuous, then Su Dai and Tao are also good friends, so it is not bad to see the third room, our Hou Mansion has no ability to bear the descendants, find a son in Su Mansion, and what can be taken care of in the futureγ β
Master Hou and Mrs. Han have always respected their grandmother, as long as it is Mrs. Songbai's proposal, they will not refute, and they both nod their heads in agreement.
"You also go back and tell your daughter-in-law what I said, this daughter-in-law you picked well, and the children are also good, let her rest assured, Sufu will be a good family, in the future, the matter of the fourth daughter-in-law can no longer happen, and the other rooms are also said, the eldest grandson, the family rules must be added, it is not allowed to take the in-laws with cousins, I have observed for so many years, whether it is the main room or the concubine room, there are few good ones who marry cousins, think about it, a few daughters-in-law, one of them is a niece or niece of the mother's family, and the mother-in-law must be biased towards the closest relatives, so what do other daughters-in-law thinkThis inner house has a dispute because of this. Therefore, my Cao family is not allowed to marry my cousins in the future. β
Master Hou and Mrs. Han both got up and responded.
Mrs. Songbai now thinks of what she says, but now her memory is getting worse and worse, and she is still sleepy from time to time, she is always afraid that she will not be able to sleep one day, so she took advantage of today to talk about family affairs and explain some things to her grandson and daughter-in-law.
"Granddaughter-in-law, you wanted to hire your niece back then, I don't agree, it's not that I have an opinion on your mother's family, it's because of this reason, I didn't explain it at the beginning, I wanted you to think about it yourself, the chaos in the inner house is the beginning of the chaos, so, picking a daughter-in-law is not a trivial matter for you alone, you are now also a grandmother, and you are also the head of the Hou Mansion, so many years of responsibility, you also understand a lot, only your own pondering will be more profound, I have told you in advance, maybe you will feel awkward, why do you say that people are old and become fine, it is that people are old to see more, experience more, deal with more, naturally more than young people think, so don't blame grandmother, when you reach my age, maybe thinking more than I do. β
How dare Mrs. Han, as she grew older, she admired Mrs. Songbai even more, and felt that she sometimes looked down on her grandmother's practices before, but now she can only admire and respect.
Hou Ye smiled and said: "Grandmother, even grandchildren and daughters-in-law still need grandmothers to teach them from time to time, grandmothers should pay more attention to their bodies, and when Hachiro's son chooses a daughter-in-law, he has to help his grandmother pick it." β
Mrs. Songbai said these words, and she was tired, so she sent her mother back, and said to the old lady beside her: "Now I am out of energy day by day, and I don't know how long I can live, and now that the Hou Mansion is like this, as long as there is no major incident in the court, I can also close my eyes with peace of mind, and I can also explain when I see my father-in-law and mother-in-law in the future." β
The old lady comforted her, Mrs. Songbai waved her hand, and the old lady helped her to rest.
After Su came the next day, Mrs. Songbai told her about it, and Su was taken aback, and she really didn't expect Mrs. Songbai to want to marry Sufu, but she was convinced of Mrs. Songbai, and she hurriedly agreed, and said that she would go back to her parents' house to talk.
Farewell to Mrs. Songbai, Su did not return to the Hou Mansion, went directly to his mother's house, Tao saw Su coming, asked if there was anything urgent, and after listening to Su's words, Tao also thought for a long time.
I am also familiar with the third brother and third sister-in-law Su, and I can't compare to the sister-in-law emotionally, but I love the third sister-in-law Su Dai's Su family, she has a cool temperament and is happy to do things, just making up for the slow third brother, Su sometimes thinks that his second brother is with his third uncle, and they are all taciturn and slow people.
Tao asked, "Is the little lady of the Cao family, Jinniang, familiar with it?"
Su shook his head, "The Cao family is just familiar with Cao Ba Niangzi, that's because she has a relationship with Xiao Qi, the little lady who said that she is the eldest granddaughter of Cao Mansion, a generation shorter than Cao Ba Niangzi, I haven't heard the third aunt Mrs. talk about it, but her mother is capable, Mrs. Songbai has praised a few times, it must be good to make Mrs. Songbai boast, if this mother is capable, what kind of girl can't be bad, Mrs. Songbai looks, the Cao family can't go on a business trip, there is such a funny thing, Mrs. Songbai will not say it to our Su Mansion." β
Tao also nodded when he listened, and said with a smile: "It's right that Jin Niang can say that, I'll tell my younger brother and sister when I go back, she is also a lively person, and she will definitely inquire, and when there is any more trouble for Jin Niang, the Cao family is not bad, and Mrs. Han is not confused, although Mrs. Songbai is old, but she has followed it for so many years, and the atmosphere is not bad." β
Su Shi thought of his niece Liao Niangzi's harmony, and thought that the second aunt and wife must have no relatives and friends in Beijing to celebrate, so they simply asked the eldest sister-in-law and the third sister-in-law to help, but the second aunt brought things to Su Fu at the beginning.
"Sister-in-law, the tenth day of the first month is the old man's niece and Lu, which is the second aunt's family who came back from Jiangnan, and the sister-in-law and the third sister-in-law will go to make a scene on that day, and they should also give me a long face, hehe. β
Dow naturally heard what he meant, and responded with a smile.
Su Shi said again: "Sister-in-law, let me tell you, I heard my lord say that the two sons of the second aunt will enter the Beijing Imperial Examination the year after tomorrow, and the second aunt will say that the eldest must be the top three, and if you can say it so easily, the knowledge will not be bad, and you will also tell the eldest brother when the time comes, pay attention to it next year." β
Tao was surprised: "Your second aunt and wife are not conspicuous, but she has cultivated two good sons." If this is really successful, Xie Fuke will raise his eyebrows, although he is a nephew, he is also a close relative, Jin Niang, you can get closer to the second aunt's wife, this Jiulang and Eleven Lang will be able to ask for advice in their future studies. β
Su Shi smiled: "My family doesn't have that piece of material, I just read if I love to study, I don't force it, unlike the eldest brother, I can't wait for my children and grandchildren to be able to do it." β
Tao nodded Su's forehead, and said angrily: "Jin Niang is good at everything, that's it, how can you be by Erlang? You see that the eldest nephew and two nephews have delayed you, when I was a child, I said send them here to study together, you still don't want to, Erlang is forced to read later, you look at you, just by them, what wood carving does the second child learn, your eldest brother still doesn't know, if you know, you have to teach you, how to be a mother?" Jiulang and Eleven Lang don't delay, although there is a good gentleman, but it is not as close as your own cousin, so you have to be close to the second aunt's wife, which is a good thing. β