091 Know the current affairs and be a good man
If Su knew that Guan Song said this about her, and other people also saw her like this, she would say: I am not so virgin. Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info
Doing this is not only for the Seven Niangzi, but also for the persistence in the bottom of her heart, people don't even have a bottom line in their hearts, what's the point of living? She agrees with the Seventh Lady's persistence, if it is herself, it will be like this, helping her is like helping herself.
Su Shi called Chuncao and told her about the matter, because she needed her cover-up at that time, looking at Chuncao's disapproving expression, Su Shi said: "Don't say anything else, since I have arranged it like this, you can help me, now you have to tell my uncle and wife, let her not tell the fourth uncle first, she won't come over yet, it will be done in a few days, she will come over again"
Chuncao had no choice but to do what she was told, and she was reluctant to leave.
What a loyal servant. Su sighed.
Su Shi asked people to call the Seven Ladies again,
After her grandmother finished talking about her arrangement, the seventh lady knelt down in front of Su's legs, lay on Su's legs, and wept silently.
Su sighed, stroked her back, thinking about a girl as big as her in her previous life, still in junior high school, some of them had trouble with their parents for an apple, but here, such a big girl has to face the problem of marrying, not to mention that it is a concubine, even if it is a concubine, there are few who make their own choice, that is, let her choose, and how many foreign men have been seen?
It is already a rare parent in the family to be able to choose only for the little lady's own intentions, and how many little ladies have to pay for the family, so you have to say that ----- family raises you so big, it's time for you to contribute to the family.
In contrast, how happy is a modern woman, her parents are pampered and grow up, and she chooses to marry; if she meets a scumbag, she can divorce, she can also choose to leave with her children and start a new life; she can choose her own work and career; she can travel and travel around the world and enjoy the scenery.
The Seventh Lady raised her face, the tears in her eyes couldn't be stopped, and said, "Mother, I can't repay you for this kindness."
Su said: "Silly boy, it's not for you to get anything in return, I'm also for myself, for my own peace of mind, no matter what the future is, I've worked hard, I'm worthy of my own heart, and you are the same, no matter what the outcome will be in the future, the choice you make at this moment, you will not regret it in the future, you will not accept your fate, and you have fought for your life, you will have no regrets."
Su Shi stretched out his hand to pick her up, but the seventh lady didn't let her mother exert her strength, got up by herself, and sat on the couch by her mother, and the mother and daughter were like mother and daughter at the moment.
Su Shi said: "You also choose two personal servants, and then lead the cultivation together, you see which two are loyal, just tell the truth, because you will not come back when you go to the nunnery that day, and when you go to the two reluctant, it will be troublesome in the future." It is estimated that it will only be these two days, so I will arrange it first, and then I will choose someone to make the people who go with me panic."
The Seventh Lady sat up straight and nodded in response.
"I still remember the book I asked you to read a few months ago, when I told you that you must be right, you must distinguish between right and wrong, judge the situation, let you read the book, summarize a sentence to show me, I don't care about asking you for a while, today, you can tell me what you think"
Su Shi had long wanted to ask her about this question, because of the discomfort of her previous pregnancy and her mood, so she just took this opportunity to talk about it.
Qi Niangzi recalled the personal life of those books, and said to her mother: "Lu Jia, the last sentence of the article is - Lu Sheng actually died in life. The word "actually" wrote out Lu Jia's eyesight to judge the situation"
Su Shi nodded, he could see this, it was not bad, and said: "You look at the history books, ancient and modern exchanges, I don't know how many capable people and wise people fell in the unpredictable political wrestling, otherwise how could there be - the cunning rabbit died, the lackeys cooked, Fan Li escaped smartly, Wen Zhong didn't listen to the advice, what happened?" Han Xin sighed when he was dying, regretting that he should not listen to Kuaitong's advice, whether it is Lu Jia or Fan Likuitong, they all belong to the people who judge the situation and judge the situation, and Han Xin can be humiliated by his crotch, and later he was crowned a king and a marquis, he must be an ambitious person, Wen Zhong's loyalty to the emperor, but in addition to this loyalty, whether there is also greed, so he can't give up the wealth of his hands, but, compared to life, what is wealth? We are women, and we can't stand the affairs of the court and politics, just look at these and understand the reason, just ask you not to be confused."
Su Shi walked to the desk and said, "You sharpen the ink for me."
After grinding the ink, Su Shi wrote: Knowing the current affairs is also Junjie.
Su asked, "Which book is this?"
Qi Niangzi said: "In the Spring and Autumn Period of Yanzi, Yanzi: Knowing the current affairs is a handsome, and the one who changes through the machine is a hero." ”
Su Shi nodded and said, "The one who recognizes the situation in front of him is the smart one." Compared with this sentence, your third aunt is a stubborn person who can't recognize reality and doesn't listen to people's persuasion. That's the biggest failure. In this case, you must remember that at all times, you must clearly understand the state of affairs, be sober-minded, rely on your own mood to be tough, or see the facts clearly and think of a way, which is the most beneficial for you? Don't be rash at the critical time, just care if you feel comfortable or uncomfortable in your heart, and lose the best opportunity, it is a fool's doing, and you can get by with small things, and you need your own vision and means to deal with things when it is a big thing or a critical time. ”
"A woman always has to get married, and when she arrives at her husband's house, she is concerned about small things, but she is flustered or confused in big things, and then it will be even worse for big things. You also know that generally the eldest son of a big family has to marry the eldest daughter, because the eldest daughter has been cultivated according to the clan woman since she was a child, and that kind of bearing and mental means are indispensable."
The seventh lady memorized every word of her mother with her heart.
"Although you can't cultivate like that, in the past few years, I have asked you to read books and talk to you about the people or things in the books, just to make you understand the reason, your mind must be cold, and you can't change your identity, so you have to make up for it from other places, so that no matter what the future life is, you must get the life that is most beneficial to you. If you encounter something bad for yourself and can't afford to provoke it, you can avoid it, but it's not for you to shrink your head in everything, if you have a beaten face, don't blame others for beating you."
"Also, don't say that the eldest son is the root of the trouble, and the confused housewife with a clear mind is the root of the trouble, you see Mrs. Songbai of Wuling Mansion, she can keep the safety and smoothness of four generations of descendants, regardless of whether she fights or not, but none of them cause trouble for the family, although Anyang Hou is because the eldest son won the title, if there is no connivance of Mrs. Anyang Hou, Anyang Houfu can be so chaotic? Your grandmother is certainly not a person who understands too well, but she has an advantage, that is, she listens to the Hou Ye, and she does not make trouble in major matters. ”
Su himself also read the book and saw the truth, and he couldn't systematically explain it to the Seventh Lady, but if he thought of something, he hurried to talk about it, otherwise he would almost not see each other a few times when he went to the nunnery.
Qi Niangzi nodded again and again, wishing that her grandmother could tell her more, with this incident, she felt even more that although she thought she was smart, she lacked experience and knowledge.
Su Shi has been getting more and more tired lately, and he is tired when he talks about it, and he thinks that there is nothing to say, and there is no need to say anything about comforting words.
"I'm tired too, you go back and do your business, and don't tell your aunt about this, lest she can't help and add to the chaos."
The seventh lady got up, gave her mother a deep blessing, and went back to the house when she answered.