Chapter 400: Resentment and Love Will Be Separated
Why can some people get a lot of resources from their parents after graduation, including social status, network resources, money, and even some valuable resources and knowledge, and rely on these things to achieve their dreams. Pen | fun | pavilion www. biquge。 info But she has to work more than ten hours a day, racking her brains and scheming hard to get a few pitiful resources!
As for the ideal, it is out of reach. It's just a luxury.
This kind of shackle is by no means merely monetary and material. It's like a cage, imprisoning a person here. But he was not reconciled. And people will not complain about themselves, and this kind of unwillingness will turn into a wave of resentment and hatred -- complaining about the injustice of heaven and earth, how difficult life is, and hating all the second generation and the superiors.
This kind of unwillingness is almost inevitable for the general public. Therefore, nowadays, you can see taxi drivers, janitors, sales sisters, laid-off workers, and small traders and vendors who are spreading rumors and exposing all kinds of truths all over the world.
This is the second test set by the heavens and neighbors for Xiao Wei - the resentment meeting.
If Xiao Wei fell into this kind of long resentment. Then, she will quickly get out of the illusion and wake up from the illusion. However, Xiao Wei is not the kind of person who only knows how to complain in reality, and in the illusion, Xiao Wei, who is a little bit of immortality, will naturally not be like an older mother, who only knows resentment.
With the energy and time, it is better to find a way to get out of the predicament.
Xiao Wei in the illusion found herself in a situation - she was very tired from going to work every day, but her income was very small. And because of her very little income, she had to stick to the vicious circle of continuing to work in this position that left her exhausted.
After Xiao Wei found herself trapped in this vicious circle, she was in this illusion. I endured it for three years, and during these three years, I was frugal. Look around for information and work hard secretly after work every day. Three years later, Xiao Wei had a trace of accumulation, so she resigned decisively and started her own business. Xiongguan Mandao is really like iron, and now it is stepping forward from the beginning.
Although it is difficult to start a business, with three years of accumulation and preparation, Xiao Wei is not rash. Although, the investment projects she did did not soar as expected. In reality, there are more complicated details than she planned and expected. However, it also survived. And gradually began to make a profit.
With profits, Xiao Wei's career began to grow bigger and bigger. Another few years passed. Xiao Wei's subordinates already have dozens of employees. She went from a part-time worker to a rentier. With a career and money, it is naturally easy to realize the original ideal.
The world is so big, even if you want to see it, you have capital. The resentment and hatred of the world and fate gradually dissipated......
Xiao Wei's step seems simple, but for many people, it is not easy. Everyone doesn't want to be subservient, but starting a business is risky. The risk is so high that it can sometimes even ruin a family. Therefore, there are not many people who dare to give up their existing stable income and start their own business.
And many people who have enough courage, but not enough ambition, have the idea of starting a business and the courage to go it alone. However, it lacks the meticulousness of the preliminary market research. and the patience to accumulate a trace of resources. Therefore, many stupid and bold people only rely on their will, thinking that they will starve the bold to death and starve to death, and rashly invest in projects.
As a result, they lost all the games if they were not careful.
And even if someone with courage, care, and endurance goes to start a business, it takes a bit of luck. This is the only way to finally succeed and make your own entrepreneurial project survive.
After the resentment and hatred in Xiao Wei's heart disappeared, this level in the illusion was passed. However, in the illusion, Xiao Wei was nearly thirty years old at this time. Although she can be regarded as a successful career, she is already an older leftover girl. Most of a woman's golden age has passed.
As the saying goes, a woman is thirty tofu dregs. This is not necessarily true in today's increasingly powerful beauty and maintenance technology. It's not for nothing that a woman in her thirties still looks like a girl. However, for the vast majority of women who are not naturally so beautiful, this saying is an inextricable spell.
There are beautiful women in the country, and a woman who has passed her golden age can't compare with the little girls who come one after another in terms of appearance and posture.
Xiao Wei is in this fantasy world, and her appearance is only five or six points. It's not ugly, but it's not a beauty either. From his teenage years until he had a successful career. There were also a few people chasing after him. There are also men who admire in their hearts.
There is a relationship, Xiao Wei has been talking intermittently for several years in the illusion. But by the time she was successful in her career, the man who was involved with her was already married to other women. Xiao Wei's soaring sky was too unexpected for this man. There's also too much pressure. So parted.
And this is the third test set by Tianbinlin for Xiao Wei - love and parting.
In the classic book of Buddhist practitioners, "The King of Miaose Seeks the Dharma", it is said: "All love will be, impermanence is rare for a long time, life is fearful, life is in danger of morning dew, from love to worry, from love to fear, if you are separated from the beloved, there is no fear." ”
Whether it is in the Taoist practice or the Buddhist practice, it is very important to let go of the attachment to the love between men and women in the world. For Buddhists, this kind of love between men and women must be abandoned. For Taoists, this requirement of renunciation is not the same as that of Buddhism.
Taoism only requires that you do not covet the love between a man and a woman. If you are not greedy and do not stay in things, you can be regarded as qualified in your heart. In heaven and earth, there is such a thing, yin and yang sympathy, life and death successively, passed down from generation to generation, this is the proper righteousness. A complete ban is impossible.
If Xiao Wei can't let go of this relationship, she will wake up from this illusion. The test was a failure.
However, Xiao Wei's trace of ignorance in the illusion is immortal. Although the temper and personality are completely different from the reality. However, the proud bone is the same. In reality, Yun Hanxu and Xiao Wei had a fate in their past lives, and they chased for a long time, helping Xiao Wei a lot. is to make Xiao Wei accept him.
In the illusion, how could Xiao Wei have wronged herself?
Therefore, after Xiao Wei was broken up, she quickly let go of this relationship. I found a man who was not very successful in his career, but he was down-to-earth and traditional. Start a family, get married, and have children. After marriage, life is calm and peaceful, free and easy. There is no longer material poverty. This heavy test can be regarded as over.
And in the illusion, Xiao Wei's business is getting bigger and bigger. When people reach middle age, they already have a net worth of hundreds of millions. Career is in full swing. Before I knew it, a group of people gathered around me.