On the third day of the sixth month, from the happy to go to the temple to live, to the door and asked where the prepared gift was, Su said that people were sent directly to the temple gate, and they saw it when they arrived.

The third master was not at ease, and planned to follow him for a day today, and Cousin Song also came yesterday, saying that he would also follow, a pair of Meng Jiao's bodyguards.

Su took the eighth lady Xue Lian to the garden to have fun, and a few big toys were also placed, this character is really three years old and sees the old, Sister Liang will pounce on it when she sees it, and she doesn't want to play.

The eighth lady and Xuelian sat down in a rocking chair at most, and the slide didn't go at all, which made Su Shi worried, and couldn't make sandbags for the two little ladies to play, so they didn't like to play those.

But it's also good to come out to bask in the sun, and the little lady doesn't need to be so tight with her homework, so she didn't bring Mr. Min this time.

Therefore, Su often held one by one, slowly dispersed, and happened to be active himself.

The Buddha hall in the Zaiwu Garden was not built in the garden, and the third master built one in the small cross-courtyard, and it was not as big as the one in the Hou Mansion, which was suggested by the Su family, don't exaggerate too much, it will be a brain convulsion, and you will want to make a come, and how many mansions will follow the trend.

This time, Mrs. Tai also took Zhu Dong's family, afraid that she would feel lonely not long after she left her children and grandchildren, Su doesn't care, Zhu Dong's family has been depressed since her son married A Jin's sister-in-law and moved out, none of her children and grandchildren are in front of her, she persuaded her daughter Zhu Xiulian to stay in the house, she took care of her grandson, but her daughter refused, saying that she was willing to follow her brother and sister-in-law, and the angry Zhu Dong's scolded and raised white-eyed wolves.

She once told the sixth grandmother about her grievances, crying a handful of snot and tears, telling about what she has paid for her children over the years, and she will not let her children pour a glass of water when she is sick, she said that as long as she can do it, she will never trouble people, but in the end, no one understands her, her son drinks and gets drunk and quarrels with her, her daughter is not angry, and Zhu Dongshi tells her grievances.

The sixth grandmother listened to the tears and fell in love, because she had never tasted the love of her mother, and she was particularly yearning, and felt that Cousin Dong's love for her children was not easy.

And Yun Niang waited for Zhu Dong's to leave, and said to the sixth grandmother: "Grandma, don't follow the study, that's not raising children and grandchildren, that's hatching chickens, the child will be weaned when he is older, and he will be held in his arms for the rest of his life. ”

The sixth grandmother listened to all her thoughts, she felt sorry for her children, and always felt that she had no mother since she was a child, and she would never let her children suffer any grievances.

"Grandma, the slave and maid are not educated, and they can't say the truth, but the slave and maid know a sentence, the loving mother is more defeated, and the grandmother doesn't look elsewhere, that is, among the people in our Hou Mansion, there is no one who is protected by the father and mother, and when it is big, everything will not happen, and the father and mother are gone, so they count on their brothers and sisters to help, which house does not have such a thing outside? The master's affairs The slave and the maid can't talk much, but among the people, the slave and the maid are convinced by Mrs. Zheng, people are not only capable, but any child in her family is capable. Mai Miao who followed Sister Liang in the house, and Lian Mu who followed Shiyi Lang, I heard that the big ones in Zhuangzi are also capable, Zheng Pozi once said, this child has been taught early, and when he is older, he will suffer less, and when he is older, he will not do anything, and he must be a child who suffers and suffers, how much can his father and mother help? In the past, the slave maid was reluctant to suffer the children I born, and always wanted to be willing to be a mother and not let the children suffer, but after listening to Mrs. Zheng's mother, I still saw the matter of Mrs. Dong, the slave and the maid were afraid, in case the children were like that in the future, but it would harm the children, which family could marry, so the slaves and maids also let a few boys learn to do things, and they used to be angry and scolded with their ears, and now they don't say the words that poke people's hearts. ”

The sixth grandmother listened to Cousin Dong's grievances the most, but she always stood on her side to think about it, and she also felt that her cousin was a miserable person, and a capable person had a discouraged child.

"Grandma, now Mrs. Dong's children would rather go out with a widow than stay with their mother, in fact, if you think about it, you can understand that if anyone treats slaves and maids like this all day long, even if they serve slaves and maids as old feudal kings, slaves and maids don't want to, it's too aggrieved. ”

Yun Niang found that the sixth grandmother learned a little from Mrs. Dong, in the past few years, I have always heard Mrs. Dong say that when you are a mother, you should plan for your children, and you have to sacrifice for your children, and she would rather suffer hardships than her children to do something, sometimes Mrs. Dong is still proud, feeling that she has paid more than any mother, and her son has to take her to find a doctor when his hand is broken, otherwise he will only jump in the house and lose his temper.

The sixth grandmother is better than Mrs. Dong Gu is not to scold the child, but she also began to say to Baozheng all day long: Your father is a concubine in the third room, don't compare with the cousins in the other room, you will have to fight in the future, etc., these are all affected by Mrs. Dong, and there is no happy thing all day long.

At first, Yun Niang also felt that Mrs. Dong Gu was reasonable, and she spoke well, for the sake of her children, she never caused trouble to others in the Hou Mansion, and she was kind to everyone, and she came to talk to the sixth grandmother, and she also heard that she was teaching the sixth grandmother to do things and behave, but then her son was crazy and drunk, and there was the gossip of Mrs. Liu, Yun Niang went to tell Mrs. Yun, and the wife said that in the future, let Mrs. Dong Gu contact the sixth grandmother, originally the sixth grandmother was a person who had no opinions, and if she heard too much of those negatives, people would have no energy, and then instill this to Baozheng them, and Baozheng would be Zhu Jinming in the future。

After hearing this, Yun Niang also went back to ponder, and it happened that her son came to her side and somehow made trouble with her, Yun Niang scolded a few words angrily, and her son said that her mother didn't want to stay with her mother if she scolded people so much. Yun Niang thought that Mrs. Dong seemed to be serving her eldest son like this, but she also scolded her eldest son, Yun Niang thought for a long time, and secretly observed Mrs. Dong, and felt that what Mrs. Dong said was right, she couldn't let the sixth grandmother contact Mrs. Dong.

So in the future, Yun Niang will brainwash the sixth grandmother from time to time, so that grandma can change.

This time when she came to the Cargo Garden, Mrs. Dong Gu had no place to go, so she would come to the sixth grandmother to talk and tell her grievances, Yun Niang was tired of listening, and the sixth grandmother gradually understood, especially she encouraged her son Bao Zheng to play with his cousins and cousins, and said that he would go to see his grandparents more, they were all good grandsons of his grandfather and grandmother, and Bao Zheng's face was happy, instead of saying those words before, and his son bowed his head.

Yun Niang plans to follow the sixth grandmother, of course, she hopes that the sixth grandmother can be harmonious with her wife, so she often says some happy things, what wife likes to be honest, likes Sister Rong and so on.

Yun Niang was originally an optimist, and after listening to what his wife said, happiness can infect people, making people feel that life is rushing, and being unhappy can also infect people, making people feel that life is boring, Yun Niang thinks this is also the reason, her man said that he is willing to see her so happy, saying that his brother-in-law always has a bitter face, and he is really worried about his brother, and he faces such a face all day long.

Under Yun Niang's brainwashing, the sixth grandmother gradually didn't like to listen to Cousin Dong's good words for her, and slowly began to perfunctory her, but when she came here, Zhu Dong's children and grandchildren were not in front of her, so she was familiar with the sixth grandmother, and she would come from time to time.