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Outside the story, the heart of heaven is unpredictable, and the world is like frost.

In the afterword of the triptych version of "Yitian", Mr. Jin Yong has a sentence that once made Deng Zheng, who lost his father, feel inexplicably sad and burst into tears every time he read it: "...... Zhang Sanfeng's grief when he saw Zhang Cuishan's suicide, and Xie Xun's sadness when he heard the news of Zhang Wuji's death, the book is too superficial, not like this in real life. Because I didn't understand it at the time. ”

Perhaps, Jin Yong may not have thought about it when he revised the new "Yitian": If this world is more tolerant and carefree, how can he lose his eldest son?

In 1991, Jin Yong sold "Ming Pao" to Yu Pinhai, and some people said that it was because Yu Pinhai looked like his dead son.

When asked by a reporter, Jin Yong replied: "Rationally, I didn't think so. But he was the same age as my eldest son, and they were both monkeys, and they did look a little similar. Probably so. ”

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This extreme coincidence across two worlds, this terrifying keen insight, how can it not make Deng Zheng frightened?

In the bedroom, Li Man continued:

Zhao Min was unusually tolerant and easy-going in the Wan'an Temple incident, and then Zhao Min always faced everything with optimism and tolerance, not only because Zhao Min's personality was originally very optimistic and cheerful, but also because these are the themes of Xiao Deng's book, and he must go on unswervingly, just like in order to highlight the 'chivalrous man' for the country and the people, Huang Rong will also grow up from a clever and cute little girl to a leader who commands the heroes.

It is precisely because of the Buddhist tolerance and forgiveness that the book is full of that Zhang Wuji finally chose Zhao Min, which is the most normal and reasonable.

A cheerful and optimistic county lord can see everything in front of her better, and more importantly, only Zhao Min can help Zhang Wuji. Here, in fact, you can vaguely see the shadow of Guo Jing and Huang Rong, all of Guo Jing's ideals must be realized through Huang Rong, and similarly, Zhang Wuji became the sect leader 'bent on stopping the war and ending the dispute, but the murder and blood feud are forced one by one. ’

The members of the Mingjiao are all people with a bold and bold temperament, and there is almost no one who is not a good man, so why is it the same as the decent people?

According to the book, the form is too paranoid and intense, lacking a broad mind to take a step back and a tolerant attitude of being kind to others, so Mingjiao has just survived the catastrophe and thinks that Mingjiao is finally no longer divided and can do a big job.

If you want to solve this contradiction, relying on Zhang Wuji's performance in Guangming Ding is definitely not enough to "everyone is happy", and there will only be more fierce collisions after that.

Xiao Deng's approach here is not new, but it makes sense. In this way, all the disputes and enmities that Zhang Wuji wanted to solve were transferred to Zhao Min, and finally she could only slowly digest them.

If you understand this, you will understand that Zhao Min is actually the soul of the whole book when he arrives here, and he is the hub and soul of the entire world of "Yitian".

Her importance to Zhang Wuji is unrivaled and irreplaceable, and it is not even just a matter of children's love before and after the moon, just like it is difficult for us to imagine how Guo Jing without Huang Rong can 'serve the country and the people'!"

――Only Zhao Min can help Zhang Wuji!

- Unbeatable, irreplaceable!

These key sentences sounded in Concubine Jiang's mind, the girl's eyes lit up, and she quickly captured the deep meaning behind her mother's words, and then thought of the first topic - quitting the entertainment industry, her heart shook violently, and she said in a trembling voice: "Mom, this is why you suggested that I quit the entertainment industry?

"That's not it, your father is not the king of Ruyang, you are you, Zhao Min is Zhao Min, no one can become anyone. ”

Li Manwan smiled, touched his daughter's head, and looked doting and kind:

However, Zhao Min does have a little character that is precious to girls, that is, a strong sense of self.

The biggest difference between Zhao Min and Zhou Zhiruo is that the former is not attached to any person or organization, has a sound mind, has an independent personality, knows what he wants, and can fight for it courageously and strategically;

The more selfless people are, the harder it is to make a choice, and the more they don't make a choice, the more they have no ego.

So in the later stage of the plot, Zhao Min could even give up his life for Zhang Wuji, but Zhou Zhiruo couldn't get rid of the curse of Shitai. Who can say that Zhou's dilemma is more difficult than Zhao's?!

Concubines, people, all the time, whether male or female, the most important thing, in the mother's view, is to improve themselves, to form their own sound mind and independent personality.

For a girl's family, the most basic thing is to be able to deal with all aspects of the problems they encounter, to be able to take care of their own work and life interpersonal relationships, to be able to take care of their emotions, not to cry when they should laugh, to have their own real goals and motivation in life, and to know the difficulties and challenges they face and not to give up. Especially to maintain inner independence.

Perhaps in the longer term, the most important thing for a person is often not pampering, but respect, at any time, before asking others, please think about how you can be a better version of yourself.

Then, give yourself and each other enough time and space to grow and improve yourself, which is more meaningful than being tired of looking at each other every day, only if you can realize that I have more important and meaningful things to do, and I do have more important and meaningful things to do, then I will naturally not always complain and complain about trivial things, so as to become a real person who can bring positive energy to each other.

The most basic role of your partner is to be able to tolerate and love you unconditionally when you need it, hoping that you can vent all your negative energy and live happily every day.

In this way, the other person will also appreciate your tolerance and understanding of him, and will cherish the time with you even more.

Love is the hope that you will become a better person, and love is the hope that others can live better because of yourself. ”

In the soft voice, Concubine Jiang felt her mother's strong love, and instantly burst into tears, hugged Li Man's arm, pressed against her porcelain-like cheeks, and said emotionally: "Mom, thank you." Actually, the reason why I said I was going to take a two-month break was not because I was frightened, but because I was also wondering in my heart if I was right to stay in Crystal. In terms of singing, there are Wei Niang, Gege, and dance, there are Xiaolu and Heqi, and I can only be positioned as sexy and good-looking, just a vase. In this regard, I really don't have their talent, let alone their training ruthlessness and ambition, compared to me, they are the ones who really love this industry, and I, I guess, just find it easy and fun.

After Yang Suo's incident, I have been wondering, is it because of my profession, my role in the group, and my image in front of the public that he is so unscrupulous? Is this kind of superficial arrogance and arrogance just showing extreme contempt and disrespect in his heart? Are there many people around him who have such a contemptuous and disrespectful mind? He is a big golden beam, since I like him, how can I let him suffer such strange eyes and slander when he stands with me in the future?"

Li Man didn't expect her daughter to think so much, and she was a little stunned for a while, but Concubine Jiang seemed to have thought through it thoroughly at this time, and said in a relaxed and open-minded tone that has been rare in recent times:

"And, I'm in a circle with him, he's rocketing, I'm going snail, he's at the top of the food chain, he's always taking care of me, I'm just going to hold back, and this situation is only going to get worse in the future, and there is no possibility of shrinking. This kind of invisible suppression anytime and anywhere makes me feel more and more afraid of his gains and losses in the face of him, and it is more and more difficult to maintain a healthy balance of power in the situation and mode of getting along, and I am very confused and distressed. Thank you mom for what you just said, which made me wake up, so I decided, for his sake and for myself, I must quit this circle, find a suitable field that I am good at as soon as possible, and make a solid career. In the future, I will inevitably be like Zhao Minzhi to Zhang Wuji, not only suitable, matched, and secure, but also able to help him. Unbeatable, irreplaceable. ”

Outside the door, Deng Zheng's heartstrings trembled violently, he tilted his head with a sour nose, and clenched his two fists fiercely.

Shaoqing, with complex and inexplicable emotions, walked briskly or heavy, and left quietly.

Li Man never thought that his daughter, who had never had the ambition to smile and always smile since she was a child, could say such a thing, her eyes were also red, and she hugged Concubine Jiang tightly, she was relieved and distressed:

To be honest, if the person you sincerely want in your heart is not Xiao Deng, but another young person, whether he is an Olympic champion sports star or a rising star in the political arena and a rookie in the business world, my mother will not tell you these words today, let alone advise you to quit. Because no matter how good a young man is, I believe that my precious daughter is definitely more than enough to be worthy of him.

But Xiao Deng is different, his talent, his ability, his thinking and ideas are completely incomprehensible, sometimes people feel very sophisticated, sometimes they are extremely impulsive and naïve, and most importantly, he is not yet 24 years old this year, and the entire martial arts cultural industry has begun to flourish, I have also talked privately with your father and some colleagues, no one can predict where the upper limit of his life is.

If you choose such a person, you are destined to have thorns and thorns along the way, and it is not easy to walk. But the most beautiful flowers in the world are often always picked among the thorns.

Mom, from the perspective of a person who has come over, Xiao Deng is worth it. (To be continued.) )