Listening to Su's words, Su Niang sneered: "Don't talk about this ancient time, even in modern times, you don't meet unreasonable mothers, and the life of the daughter is unsatisfactory, unless her mother is dead, otherwise Wang Mei can't get rid of this filial piety." It's better to have such a mother than an orphan, and you can imagine having a mother who loves you. ”

It's impossible to sigh and sigh, what else can you do but sympathize?

Su Niang continued: "I am the most afraid of seeing this kind of mother, only thinking about the vanity, I just want the child to live according to her vision, otherwise the child is not right, never really care about and love her daughter, although I have not experienced it personally, but one of my cousins was forced into depression by her own mother, committed suicide several times, and finally left, leaving only one sentence when she died, saying that she should not come to this world, my aunt is crying crazy, who doesn't say that my aunt is good to her daughter?" Yes, there is no lack of material, I have cultivated my cousin since childhood, I signed up for any course, piano painting and painting foreign languages, but people have IQ and talent, my cousin is also an ordinary person, my aunt has too high expectations, and I have a perennial high score to do comparison, and I have higher requirements for my cousin, the year I was admitted to the medical university, my cousin was in high school, and I committed suicide once, I didn't understand it at that time, and like most people's thoughts, your parents are so good to you, they are reluctant to eat and drink for you to study, and spend money to train you, why don't you cherish it? When she committed suicide for the second time, my aunt begged me to persuade her, and after I went, my cousin told me that she was so miserable to live, and she couldn't meet her mother's expectations, not that she didn't do her best, but that she was stupid and couldn't do it, and I had worked at that time, and I had some experience, so I found my aunt and wanted to persuade her, but my aunt cried a handful of snot and tears, saying that her hard work, she was all for the good of her daughter, in this era, how to go to society without ability, how to find a good object, and said which daughter was admitted to a prestigious school to marry a golden beetle son-in-law, and said how I was excellent to add glory to the family, anyway, there was no mention of why my cousin was like this, just said that her was not easy, and said that her cousin was not angry,What can I say about her as a junior.,When I go home, I asked my mother to talk to my uncle.,But my uncle was also careless.,At that time, although I asked my cousin to take a break from school to recuperate at home.,But she also fell ill.,Or take advantage of people's inattention to commit suicide.,You don't know that I also cried to death.,My cousin looks like a good girl next door.,And I've always been sven.,I regret that I didn't do so well in the exam.,My aunt may not compare me to the most.。 ”

Maybe this is very touching in her heart, Su Niang has never said such a large paragraph in such a gaffe, even when she speaks, she is angry.

Regarding this kind of mother's mentality, Su Shi, a person who lived to death in his previous life, how he didn't understand, what the parents talked about together, which child studied well and which child was admitted to a prestigious school and studied abroad, etc., the daughter's words, which married the golden beetle son-in-law, which showed off that the son-in-law paid for the trip, etc., because I understood, because I had looked forward to it so much, although it was not as excessive as theirs, but there was also some kind of psychology, so in this life, she thought about it, the children of the Hou Mansion are not short of food and drink, they don't worry about finding things to do to support their families, and they are all ordinary and ordinary sons, they do what they like, they don't force or give any pressure。

"After that, my aunt is so old, it is impossible to have another one, my uncle immediately wants to divorce, and there is a one outside, my aunt is stupid, begging my grandmother, and also came to my house to beg my mother, my grandmother is a little resentful of her, and besides, there is a lot of blame for her, naturally I want to hold my grandson, so I don't care, but I left the house to my aunt, I can't let her get old and even have no place to live, and then my uncle's family gave birth to a son, learned a lesson, and no longer cultivated it from a young age, but raised a little bully to come out, I think it is also the end of growing up. ”

Su Niang said with a smile: "Look at me, I'll tell you endlessly, but I see if you have also learned a lesson, so you don't care much about your son when you come here, just like my uncle, eat a trench, grow a wisdom, otherwise how can you think like this?"

Su Shi pretended to be annoyed and said, "If you don't tell you, you can cultivate your foolishness." ”

"Hah, don't worry, I'll naturally train him to be an adult, and nothing else. ”

Su Shi understood what she meant by adulthood, and when she saw her get up, he also got up to send her out.

When I came back, I began to think and reflect again, thinking about whether I had anything to put pressure on my sons, but don't let go of myself and ignore the other party's feelings.

When the third master came back, he said that he talked to Mr. Luo about his sons' studies, Mr. Luo said that the third (that is, the sixth master) is estimated to stop here, and his brain is too dead, saying that the fourth child has no intention of studying, and it is also luck to be admitted to Xiucai, and the little son-in-law Song Zixue can't see it, just continue to read, it is the third, you have to think about it, and it is a waste of time to read again, unless you hit a big luck, the third master also said that this big luck is not easy to hit, and no one can hit it for hundreds of years. In fact, it is better to do something else to save a waste of time.

The Su family doesn't interfere too much with his own son, and he doesn't speak to his concubine, what is your decision to be a father, the third master didn't expect his wife to say anything, just said to himself, "I think it's better to let the third child stop reading, but as long as he is stupid, what can he do?

Su Shi complained in his heart: It seems that you can tell the difference, although you don't speak, but you also think about what this sixth master will live on in the future, he gave birth to himself, the eldest will split up in the future, the daughter-in-law is capable, the second eagle Fuwa can also support the family, the old four kinds of lilies are also fine, and all kinds of other flowers and plants can also be attached, but this concubine, sit and eat the mountains? Or does he expect his children and grandchildren to be admitted to the Jinshi?

Not to mention that the Su family would have a headache if he thought about it, the third master knew about the general affairs after the separation, and he also had a headache for this son who wanted to take the Jinshi exam, and he was admitted to the Jinshi so easily, and the spirit of studying so hard is to make people look up to him, but he can't take the test for a lifetime, who will he rely on to support him in the future?

The third master, who had been thinking about it for a long time, said something to ask his cousin, which made Su Shi stunned for a long time, and asked Cousin Song about this, asking the wrong person, but she didn't say it much.

On the fifth day of the Lunar New Year, it was the day to go to Suiguo Mansion to pay New Year's greetings, the three rooms of the Hou Mansion went, the second room and the eight masters and the Li family were very excited, this was the first time they went to Suiguo Mansion, and they packed up and went to the Yuan Cao Tang early in the morning, Mrs. Tai did not go in previous years, this year she said that she was going to pay New Year's greetings to her cousin, and she also packed up neatly in the morning and waited, and asked Liao Yubing to see if there was anything left behind in the gift she gave to her husband.

The third old man hugged Min Shan and followed Hou Ye to the door to arrange the carriage first, Mrs. Hou and Su went to the edge of the grass hall, and helped Mrs. Tai to go outside the house together, the eighth lady and Xuelian were brought, handed over to the nurse to hold and follow the second grandmother and they went to the house first.