"What does it feel like to like someone" Have you ever smoked?

"What it's like to forget someone" Have you ever quit smoking?

Wonderful, sweet, and the beginning of most people's romances. We who used to be in love thought that the current love and honey were eternal, but who knew that the beginning was very beautiful, and the end was unreasonable.

In everyone's heart, there is a person, together, it's too difficult, want to give up, reluctant. Even though there are countless reasons to convince yourself to forget, there is always an excuse to persevere. If you can't be a lover, then be a confidant, If you can't be a confidant, then be a friend, If you can't be a friend, then be an acquaintance, If you can't be an immature person, then leave a memory.

Some people say that you fall in love with a city because there is someone you like living in it. Sometimes you don't need any reason, no reason, it's just love. However, I know that you fell in love with the person in this city because you fell in love with it, and you will never be able to let go of the memories of that person again.

Some people say that when you are happy, you listen to the melody of the song, and when you are sad, you understand the meaning of the lyrics, and recently I listened to a song "That Man" that is loved by many people.

I've loved someone,

I've hated a man,

I've thought about a person,

I've forgotten a man,

I'm in love with a city,

Just because of one person,

I left the city,

want to leave that person,

Without your script,

An incomplete life,

For you willing to wait,

One day two people,

I want to talk to that person,

Just like that, live your life,

I want two people,

There is a complete fate,

Maybe in a hurry, in a hurry,

Looking in other people's views of love,

Those that suit themselves or not,

The vague appearance of his love,

In order to be clear and profound,

Pick up the stories of the past,

Those who belong to themselves or do not belong,

His own broken land is desolate.

I listened to the single loop for a long time, and when I listened to this song in the dead of night, I suddenly remembered the person hidden deep in my memory, so I wanted to share with you the story behind the lyrics.

When I was just in college, I met a senior sister in the club, and I didn't know how to talk when I met her for the first time, and when I looked at her for the second time, I had a different feeling for her.

She is a girl who loves to laugh, she has a very cheerful personality, although she is very nervous but she still can't hold back the joy in her heart, I cautiously walked up to ask for her contact information, and after talking to her a few times, I found that she is very good and hardworking, and since then I have been telling myself every day to work harder, so that I can become better and worthy of her.

Since I met her, I feel that the sky is so blue, the sun is so warm, and even the air I breathe has the aroma of a wheat field, and I silently pay attention to her every movement and every mood every day.

After struggling for a long time, I finally decided to confess to her on her birthday, carefully selected a gift for her before her birthday, and spent a long time making a video with her photo, although I knew that I was very powerful and would fail, but I didn't want to miss such a good girl because of my hesitation, I still mustered up the courage to confess to her.

She refused very simply: "I just treat you as a junior, I don't have any feelings for you, although the words are very direct, but this is the truth." Before confessing, I had expected that this might be the result, but I still pretended to be free and easy and said: "It's okay, you can't be a boyfriend and girlfriend, it's always okay to be an ordinary friend." "That feeling of sadness can only be understood by those who have been in love.

After that, although my heart hurt a lot, and I still couldn't let go of her for a long time, I still couldn't help but stop bothering her.

I sent her a message some time ago, and she didn't reply for a long time, so I deleted the dialog box, and I always felt like seeing the dialog box as if I saw my own humility and flattery.

Later, after thinking about it for a long time, I finally figured it out:

You often can't afford the things you like at first sight, and people who are excited at first sight often don't like you, you really like what you want, there is no same, you can easily get it, just as Chen Xiaochun's song "No That Life" sings: "Love is unreasonable, some people are very sought-after, some people are not qualified, I know the result of chasing her in my heart, it is not me who is lucky, persuade myself not to be stupid, I have mentioned it before, and I have to work hard in the future."

Everyone has an unforgettable story in their hearts, the story hides unforgettable memories with that person, whether that memory is beautiful or sad, whether the end of the story is bloody or satisfying, it doesn't matter, the important thing is that we once sincerely loved that person at that time, and never regretted it.

We used to think that the meeting of two people was because of complete fate, so we naively thought that two people could live a life as long as they truly loved each other, only to find out in the end that we were wrong, not all love can start and end well, and not all lovers will eventually become married.

The saddest thing in love is: a person is trying to support the forward, and a person chooses to give up later.

I once saw a soldier brother share his story on the Internet: he knew a girl in his hometown, and his heart was won by her when he met him for the first time, when he was about to serve in the army, he thought that after he retired from the army, he would return to his hometown to marry the girl, and be the girl's most loyal guard for the rest of his life, but the girl was very unconfident and always doubted whether they could go to the end.

The girl hesitated and finally decided to give up, and the soldier brother said: "I am a soldier, I can't do much for her, I have a tiger in my heart to sniff the roses, no matter how hard the training is when I serve in the army, how tired the task of going out on duty, even if I bleed, I will not shed tears, but when I heard the girl say to herself that I want to give up, I still can't suppress the tears of anger." ”

Ask what is the love in the world, the way of the world talks about the ultimate man and woman a love word, men have tears and do not flick, but not to the sad place, iron-blooded hot-blooded men will also cry for love, if you have not shed tears for love, it is because you have not met the person you really love, when you meet that person, you can really understand what it means to be desperate.

But the only constant in this world is that everything is changing, three-year-old you think your mother can protect you to the end, eight-year-old you think sugar can sweeten you for a lifetime, twenty-year-old you think that person can accompany you through countless springs, summers, autumns and winters. Mom will grow old, sugar will melt, and that person will also go looking for his hero or Purple Fairy, as you always thought.

Maybe we are too young when we fall in love, so that we meet and love each other become panicked and hurried, we look for those who we can't depict in other people's view of love, whether it is suitable for may really experience it to know, love to know deeply, drunk to know the wine, later, only to find out that not all likes will have results, after all, to understand, meet is already rare. You make me feel that our relationship is more than this, and it can only be like this.

There are many reasons to break up:

Some people are unwilling to compromise with each other, some are because of deception and betrayal, some people are because they have lost their common goals and values in life, even if one person is unwilling to let go and chooses humble compromises, the sweetness of the past has long been blown away.

Some people say that after separation, how deep the love is, how deep the hatred, and how heavy the resentment, but when I look back on the previous time, what I am willing to let you mention is that person's kindness to you.

I saw a girl in Netease Cloud Music and said: "When you contact me again, I am finally no longer excited and nervous, I finally learn to ignore you, I am finally no longer as useless as before, you hook your little hand and run over, the feeling that I want to laugh when I see you, a feeling that we think will be forever, is gone, I understand, you finally moved out of my heart." ”

But many people are not as free and easy as this girl, there are some things, we can figure it out, and we can accept it, but we will still be sad, some truths, comfort others but can't comfort ourselves. I swapped out 1,000 songs, but I couldn't replace the person in my memory.

It took eight seconds to delete your contact details, eight minutes to delete all the chats, eight hours to throw away everything related to you, eight days to calm down, and eight months to start forgetting you.

No matter how good the memory is, it can only be used to remember, when you decide to let go, you will not lose anything, the only thing you will lose is the troubles that you couldn't let go of before.

You don't know if the love was right or wrong at that time, but you were really happy during that time. It is enough to be able to meet in this life, I only hope that this memory will not be changed in this life.

The person hidden in my memory, may you live happily and safely now.