Chapter 93: Try to have a baby again
Zhao Wei learned that her fallopian tubes were adherent and she might not be able to have children again, and her mood was extremely gloomy. Ban didn't have any thoughts, Yuan Man asked her to play cards to relax, but she was also absent-minded.
Yuan Man persuaded her that if she couldn't have children, forget it, anyway, she had two children, just raise them well.
Zhao Wei doesn't compare with Zhou Xiaolan anymore, and she doesn't eat Zhou Xiaolan's vinegar anymore. After listening to Yuan Man's words of consolation, he cried sadly.
They went to the infertility hospital again, and they were advised to go to the Family Planning and Fertility Center for IVF.
They ran to the reproductive center and asked, it costs more than 100,000 yuan to do an IVF, and it cannot guarantee 100% success.
"So, it costs so much to have a child?" asked Yuan Man.
"We take the father's sperm and the mother's eggs, fertilize them outside the body, grow them into embryos, and implant them in the mother's uterus," the doctor at the fertility center said. As you know, we can't guarantee 100% success for a variety of reasons. ”
"What are the odds of success?" Yuan Man asked.
"Fifty percent. The doctor said.
Isn't that the same as not having a success rate?
"We grow multiple embryos at once and store them in liquid nitrogen for cryopreservation in liquid nitrogen. If you don't succeed this time, wait for a while to meet all the indicators, and then do it. The doctor said.
Zhao Wei was desperate, it was so difficult to have a child, and it took so much money! If it succeeded, it would be fine, but if it failed, it would not be a waste of money? It was not easy for them to make money. Although she wanted to have a child, Zhao Wei vetoed the plan. Every day, I just sit there in a daze, or cry.
Yuan Man couldn't do it, so he called Qin Guizhi for consultation.
"How did the fallopian tubes stick, and how long has it been?" Qin Guizhi asked.
"I don't know about that. Yuan Man said.
"Then when do you bring her, I'll get her a gynecologist to see. Qin Guizhi said, "Tell her not to be sad, it's not a terminal illness." ”
Qin Guizhi brought the desperate Zhao Wei to the women and children and found her long-time friend Dr. Zhang.
"Who is this?" asked Dr. Zhang.
"I'm my goddaughter. Qin Guizhi said.
"What's wrong with her?" asked Dr. Zhang.
"Zhao Wei, you tell Dr. Zhang about your situation. ”
Zhao Wei took out the diagnosis report from the infertility hospital.
"How can you have tubal adhesions at such a young age?" Dr. Zhang asked, "Have you ever had an IUD?" ”
"Yes. Zhao Wei said, "Later, it kept getting inflamed, so I went to get it." ”
"I don't usually pay much attention to it. Dr. Zhang said, "Don't be cold and have sex." ”
No, Zhao Wei is not jealous in these aspects.
At that time, the second year after giving birth to Ye Hui, Zhao Wei became pregnant again. But because the relationship with Ye Jun fell to the freezing point, she didn't tell him about the pregnancy, but she didn't want to give birth to another child for him, so she secretly went to the hospital to get the child. I also got on the IUD by the way. It stands to reason that the IUD must be applied when there is no inflammation in the relevant parts of the body, but Zhao Wei asked for the ring to be put on in order to avoid trouble. After I went back, I didn't tell anyone that she had surgery, and of course there was no one to talk to. A lot of clothes in the family were washed, and Ye Jun, who was drunk at night, wanted to do that, but she couldn't refuse, so she fell ill. Afterwards, she repeatedly became inflamed, and she didn't take it seriously, either to get some anti-inflammatory drugs to eat, and if it was serious, she would go to get a few injections of anti-inflammatory injections.
Repeated inflammation, she thought it was the birth control ring to blame, so she took the ring during her stay in Guilin. At that time, the doctor who took the ring did not tell her that her fallopian tubes were blocked, so that when she and Kang Shuncheng were together, she also had a reputation for fake pregnancy and cheating marriage.
"Alas, it seems that you are also a poor man. "The problem is, if you don't want children, it's a good thing that the fallopian tubes are blocked." Although I feel a little unwell, it is better than having surgery to hurt my body when I get pregnant unexpectedly. ”
"But I want to get pregnant. Zhao Wei said pitifully, "Doctor Zhang, you can help." ”
Qin Guizhi was very strange, why was she so anxious to get pregnant? Did Yuan Man put pressure on her?
"Yuan Man wants to have children?" Qin Guizhi asked, "You both already have two children." Ask for another one, and you'll be under too much pressure. ”
"We don't have children in common, do you think our marriage will last long?" Zhao Wei asked sadly.
"How can you think that?" Qin Guizhi said, "What if you have children in common? You both treat each other's children as if they were your own. Raise them well, you're under a lot of pressure. ”
Qin Guizhi didn't understand her feelings, but Zhao Wei still insisted that Dr. Zhang treat her.
"Now it's easy to treat blocked fallopian tubes. Dr. Zhang said, "Nowadays, guidewire intervention is generally used. ”
"What is guidewire intervention?" Zhao Wei had never heard of this thing.
"Guidewire intervention, as the name suggests, is to use a special filament to insert into the fallopian tube for dilation and dredging. Dr. Zhang said.
"How's the effect?" asked Qin Guizhi.
Dr. Zhang pointed to the pennants on the wall and said, "Look, these are all pennants sent by patients from all over the world after they become pregnant, and they all say that we are sending Guanyin." ”
"How much does it cost to do this?" Zhao Wei asked.
"In the private hospitals outside, it usually costs 5,000 to 7,000, but here we charge 3,800. Dr. Zhang said.
It's not a lot of money, so is it painful?
"It's a minimally invasive procedure, it's a little bit painful, but it's nothing compared to having a baby. Dr. Zhang smiled, "We are mothers, what kind of pain can't we bear?"
That's the same, women are weak, mothers are strong! For the sake of children, any kind of pain can be endured!
"Then do it. Zhao Wei made up her mind.
"Don't be anxious. Dr. Zhang said, "There are also some conditions for doing this. ”
"What conditions?" Zhao Wei asked.
"First, the physical condition should allow. That is to say, there should be no inflammation in the body before the operation, and all indications of the body must meet the requirements of the operation. Second, you must bring your marriage certificate and birth certificate. ”
"That means you can't do it yet. Zhao Wei was a little disappointed.
"If you want to have a baby, you have to adjust your body to the best, right?" Dr. Zhang comforted, "I can't eat hot tofu in a hurry." You have to wait calmly. ”
finally saw a glimmer of hope, Zhao Wei's mood also brightened, and a smile reappeared on her face.
"Husband, come back to Chongqing with me in two days. Zhao Wei said.
"What are you going back to Chongqing for?" Yuan Man asked, "Do you want to see your aunt or your son?"
"Go back and get a birth certificate. Zhao Wei said.
"Why do you need a birth certificate?" Yuan Man didn't understand this certificate or that.
"What do you think?" Zhao Wei said, "You have to have relevant documents for everything." If not, it's not a mess. ”
"Then when are you going to go?" asked Yuan Man.
"Wait two days. Zhao Wei said, "When the two waiters come back from vacation, we will go back." ”
"Okay. Yuan Man said, "This time, I will play with your little uncle for a while." If possible, tell your father-in-law that it's a holiday, bring Ye Hui down as well. ”
"Okay. Zhao Wei said, "I'll discuss it with him, it's best to transfer Ye Hui to go to school." ”
Just when the two are looking forward to the future, life begins to show them a hideous face.