Chapter 377: The Truth in Etiquette
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On weekdays, these wedding shops are rented to others, after all, many people are useless after they get married.
Some flower doors, used again and again, will look relatively old.
Lin Zihua is here to flower the door, not only is it not old, but it is also brand new, and the form is very beautiful!
Of course, after using it, Lin Zihua is useless, and the owner of the wedding candy will bring it back, but as a first-time user, Lin Zihua is very happy, and he expresses his gratitude to the old people.
Tens of thousands of balloons, ten inflators, dozens of colorful greeting flowers, wedding characters and other decorative items were all sent.
Lin Zihua only had time to tell the students the location of the wedding room, as well as some places for hospitality, and the students were very enthusiastic to help decorate the room.
In short, it's a busy place with a lot of people.
Lin Zihua's parents also came, and when they saw that Lin Zihua was better than expected, they couldn't help but keep praising Lin Zihua, saying that they were worthy of being college students, and the wedding was good, and they also expressed their gratitude to them.
Of course, there are also some places where Lin Zihua's parents ask their classmates to help keep the space.
Lin Zihua's wedding is to worship the church, and there are steps such as guidance in the middle, these places must leave enough space, need to be empty, and when there is a festive atmosphere, it can't be too fancy.
Hearing a lot of red tape in the mouths of Lin Zihua's parents, many people said that it was terrifying. But when Lin Zihua's parents explained the truth to everyone, many people understood and understood what it was.
"I didn't expect that these etiquettes actually contain the truth of being a human being. ”
"Filial piety to in-laws, we must learn to be ingenious and know how to run a house. ”
"That's actually how families get along, right? ”
This is the result of the ancient idea of male ploughing and female weaving, which was distributed according to human physical strength. Of course, this kind of thinking is originally beautiful, but in practice, it has brought a great impetus to the inequality between men and women. Father Lin Zihua talked eloquently, "In modern times, we still need this kind of etiquette, through which we can tell everyone how to get along with each other." At the same time, tell the man that you are married, you have to take on the responsibilities of a family, and you have to be prepared to support the family. Tell a woman that when you get married, you must also take on the responsibility of a woman and be the heroine of the family. ”
The minds of college students are still relatively clean and have not been influenced by the outside world.
Now all kinds of female hedonism are popular, and ideas such as what can not be reduced after marriage and quality of life have made a large number of leftover women appear.
College students have not been affected by those extremely selfish thoughts, so they listen to Lin Zihua's father here, and there is no disgust.
Thoughts are influenced by a positive attitude towards marriage, which is beneficial for their later family life.
Marriage is the continuation of love and the continuation of human civilization, which contains a lot of principles of life, in addition to making people grow up to take responsibility, it is more to teach husband and wife how to work together and strive for the development of the family.
Marriage has no idea of struggle, only selfishness remains, then the marriage is over, not far from disintegration, happiness is far away, I really insist on admitting death, I am afraid that I will be lonely for the rest of my life.
"Suddenly I'm a little scared of marriage. A female college student spoke to Lin Zihua's father, "I hope I can have an easier life in the future." ”
"Everybody wants to have a better life. Lin Zihua's father said with a smile, "But I believe that when you meet a man you love, you will be willing to accept that kind of life of struggle and weal and sorrow together." Of course, in today's society, no matter how hard it is, it is much better than before, and there is no problem with food and clothing, so the main problem is how hard and hard it is. ”
At this time, Lin Zihua's mother spoke: "Okay, don't instill your old ideas in everyone, now I still learn how to be chic from you young people." ”
Su Shiqin, the fat man, laughed at this time: "Haha, let's learn from each other, learn from Confucius and his old man's threesome must have the attitude of my teacher......"
Su Wei's home, there are going to be two banquets, Lin Zihua is different, here is a flowing water banquet, eat all day long, you can eat as many meals as you want!
As for the money, in Lin Zihua's hometown, basically the money collected is not much different from the expenses, so Lin Zihua's father didn't care about this matter at all. Now Lin Zihua's net worth doesn't need to care too much about the money, so Lin Zihua's father didn't tell anyone.
But Lin Zihua's father didn't care about it, but the clan relatives put it in their hearts, and after they discussed, they planned to follow the two gifts......
These things, all sorts of things, are very complicated.
Originally, Lin Zihua didn't need to care, and he didn't care either, but the clan told him and let him know and know that there was such a thing.
Why? Because they think these things need to be passed down from generation to generation.
When the older generation can't do it, it still depends on the younger generation to show up.
Since Lin Zihua is going to get married, these contents must be known, if there is something in his family, the clan relatives will come to help, and if the clan relatives have something in the future, they obviously need Lin Zihua to take a look, and they don't understand anything, which is obviously inappropriate.
Almost all of a sudden, Lin Zihua felt a heavy sense of responsibility on his body.
People often grow up at this time!
But Lin Zihua's family and clan told Lin Zihua that he was too relaxed now......
"Zihua, you're okay now, there are so many people to help. ”
"At that time, we didn't have anyone to help at all, we were so busy ourselves. ”
"You really don't want to do anything now, we really worked hard back then......
When Lin Zihua heard these words, he could only be silent, otherwise what else could he say?
Anyway, he finally understood one thing, this wedding is more complicated than the phenomenon!
On the morning of the 31st, Lin Zihua's welcoming convoy set off!
At noon on the 31st, Lin Zihua and Su Wei held an engagement ceremony in Su Wei's hometown, took out half of the bride price money, and sent it to the old man, and half of all kinds of gold and silver jewelry.
Of course, they brought Su Wei with them, and then Lin Zihua took the dressed Su Wei to the local hotel to rest temporarily.
On the evening of the 31st, Su Wei began to have a family banquet with her younger brother, indicating that after getting married, she would be separated from her younger brother from now on.
The clansmen of Su Wei's family also came to eat, and this time, they came to see them off.
The next day, at five o'clock in the morning of the 1st, Lin Zihua's team moved.
In order not to miss the hour, it is obvious that it is generally necessary to leave early.
As for the makeup artist, he had already done it in the middle of the night, as if he was a girlfriend of Su Wei.
When Lin Zihua arrived at Su Wei's house, as Lin Zihua expected, someone stopped him.
The custom of stopping relatives is generally not overdone, just meaningful.
If a daughter marries a wealthy family, no one will sabotage it! Only in some places it is more excessive, and as a result, the marriage is not consummated, and it becomes a joke.
"Scatter the money!" Lin Zihua said to the classmates behind him, and then said to the person in front, "The money is on the ground, how much you can grab depends on your ability." There are only a hundred red envelopes intercepted, so hurry up and pick up the money. ”
Lin Zihua's voice fell, the fat man grabbed two hundred-yuan bills, and suddenly threw them forward, falling all over the ground, Lin Zihua bypassed the intercepting team and walked quickly inside.