People who have been hurt tend to behave from one extreme to the other, which is a means for them to protect themselves. {We don't write novels, we're just online text porters - the last thing Situ Qingqing now believes in is a strange man, and because of the physical contact with Ye Xin before, she doesn't want to be touched by any strange man even if she has a hair.}

Bai Ting was even more melancholy when she heard this, this was the problem she was most worried about, but she didn't expect Qingqing to run into it, psychotherapy is not something that can be done in a moment, she hurriedly asked Zhou Qiaoxing: "Doctor Zhou, what should we do?"

"I'm not very good at psychology, and what I just said is my feelings. But I suggest that you now focus on normal guidance, try not to do more negative guidance, and don't say that she has a problem in her heart, and she corrects it in a soothing way. Zhou Qiaoxing said.

"For example, distract her more and share more interesting things with her, she is in a very strange state now, sometimes she doesn't seem to survive at all, and sometimes she seems to want to take revenge on someone. Of course, if revenge is regarded as a kind of survival**, this is true, but we don't need her to support herself in this way, which may lead her to the other extreme, after all, she can't really take revenge on others. ”

When Zhou Qiaoxing said these words, he deliberately glanced at his sweetheart, and the sweetheart chuckled in his heart, and couldn't help but secretly stick out his tongue - isn't this his previous opinion? It turns out that this is a misguidance?

"If she doesn't have a chance to survive, it's best not to pass it on to the notion of living for her family, or for someone else, which will make her feel more stressed, and some guidance just needs to be pointed. ”

Sweetheart wants to hit the south wall, and she seems to have said that!

"If you want to live well, maybe some simple reasons or perceptions of life are more effective, instead of talking about any big truths, it is better to chat with her more, share some positive people and things, don't strengthen her cognition of this matter, try to listen to her instead of admonishing with big truths. ”

In the same way, if you want to eliminate her revenge, it is best to draw her attention from small things and distract her, such as her favorite things in the past, etc. ”

Zhou Qiaoxing's words are simple and easy to understand, Sweetheart and Bai Ting both understand what this means, but it is one thing to understand, and it is another thing to be able to do it, after all, people are a species that will subconsciously talk about big reasons and veto, and the two of them seemed a little helpless for a while.

"It's okay, I'll help you. Zhou Qiaoxing was very gentle, "I will try to get her to accept me as the attending doctor." ”

"Then please, doctor. Bai Ting begged, "I'm just such a baby daughter, I was really raised in the palm of my hand, if there are any three long and two short, I really can't get over this hurdle." ”

"Take it easy. Zhou Qiaoxing smiled slightly, "If even you, a mother, and her best friend can't control their feelings well, how can you expect her? Let's go, let's go back, leaving for too long will make her suspicious." ”

Under his advice, the three of them returned to the senior ward where Qingqing was, Aunt Zhang stood aside helplessly, and there was a prepared meal on the coffee table on the side, she just didn't eat it, and the psychology of wanting revenge just now seemed to be gone, and she began to be world-weary again.

Zhou Qiao walked forward, brushed and pulled the curtain open, Situ Qingqing covered his eyes and collapsed and shouted: "What are you doing!"

"You're not a bat. Zhou Qiaoxing couldn't cry or laugh, "Isn't it good to bask in the sun?" ”

Situ Qingqing looked at him angrily: "Don't worry about it! I don't need to bask in the sun! I don't want to see the light, and I don't want to see you, you get out!"

"How can that be. Zhou Qiaoxing's eyes widened, "Even plants need to rely on photosynthesis to survive, if you don't want to eat, just bask in the sun, and treat yourself as a small sapling, it's not bad." ”