121 Valentine's Day Special
"Are you sure it's National Day?"
"It's the National Day, Mom, I discussed it with her, and it's the National Day. ”
"At the time of the Chinese New Year, I will read the eight characters for you, and say that I will find a gentleman (similar to Mr. Feng Shui to show people the eight characters, and choose a good day and auspicious day) to choose an auspicious time, and you all said no, just get the certificate first. You're all older, and I can't say anything, and I know you still have to work. Our family has been worrying about this matter, don't you really want to find a gentleman to take a look and choose an auspicious day?
"It's okay, I'll go over there and say, what's wrong with the National Day, the country chooses to see you on that day, it must be a good day! Who dares to say that it's unlucky? And on the days of the National Day, all units have to have a holiday, and everyone is free, so it is more appropriate to do it on those days, and many teachers in our school are married on the National Day.
In the days of the National Day, my brother also had a holiday, otherwise he would have to ask for leave from the school at other times, and he was afraid of delaying his studies. ”
My younger brother is still in his third year of high school this year, and he was supposed to graduate in June, but his college entrance examination results were too poor, and he didn't get into the second line. The family didn't know what to do, let him be a soldier, he didn't want to go, let him go to work, that was not to think. I had to let him repeat his studies for another year, and if he was admitted to university again in the college entrance examination this year, hey, I really don't know what to do.
Since I was a child, he was smarter than me no matter how I looked at it, and his grades in elementary and junior high school were not bad, but in high school, he didn't focus on his studies, and as a result, he couldn't even get into college. In order for him to repeat his studies, he also had to run around and give him a relationship. I can't say anything about him, after all, I'm not a big brother who has not studied hard, and I am not a good example, and I am about to get married, I may not have time to care about him in the future, and I can't control it, he can't listen to what I say, and in the end it will only make him more disgusted, and I don't want to care more, everyone has their own way, and you can see yourself how you go.
"Well, whatever you say is what you say, we'll prepare it for you at home, and it's less than two months away. ”
"Mom, you don't have to worry too much, now the two families know the roots, the wedding, that's it, anyway, we young people don't value this, you don't need to make a big deal of it, didn't the country say that it wouldn't allow a banquet now?"
"It's to enter the new house and don't let the full moon wine put anything, people still have to get married, you just once in your life, I must do it well, and it's not for you, I'm for my daughter-in-law." ”
It took me about half an hour to talk to my family about what was going on, but I had to ask this and that all day when I got home. There are many elderly people in the family, seven aunts and eight aunts, and they don't live far away, which is where I have a headache.
Originally, we wanted to arrange the marriage until the end of the year, and by that time, relatives and friends who were working outside the home had gone home, and at that time, the school was also closed, and everyone had time. The tradition on our side is the same, we all put these things until the end of the year, so every year when I go home for the Chinese New Year, there are always firecrackers everywhere, and the banquet is run one after another. The reason why it was changed to National Day was because some things suddenly had to be done and could not be delayed.
It was last Saturday evening, and I was fishing by the river not far from my house, drinking beer, listening to Luo Dayou's "Phenomenon 72 Changes" and enjoying this rare leisure time. Probably the only fly in the ointment is that the float has not moved, and it seems that the fish in this river have made the old man on the other side look like ghosts.
A wonderful figure appeared on the balcony of the house, beckoning me to go home, looking at the time, it was only five o'clock, and it was not yet dinner, didn't it say that I would go back to cook at six o'clock?
Of course, the queen has an order, how dare she not obey? Even in the future, she will not even dare to delay for half a minute, and hurry up to pack up her things and go home, anyway, it is estimated that she will not be able to fall away if she squats for two more hours.
When I returned home, when I was putting fishing gear and folding chairs, I saw Lan sitting on the sofa, not saying a word, and didn't even look at me when I entered the door, with a serious face.
I was shocked into a cold sweat, could it be that something was wrong, or did I offend this aunt again?
"What's wrong? Look at your face is a little red, are you sick, it's almost autumn now, it's really easy to catch a cold during this time, wear more clothes, drink more water. ”
"Get out!"
Before he could finish speaking, another pillow flew over. I told him about hiding private money last time, and now I even have a few dollars in Alipay, and she can clearly know it. Don't you get criticized by the leaders at school? It's the weekend, and you shouldn't be.
"What's the matter, are you hungry, I'll cook for you what you want to eat, I'll go get you the menu. ”
The menu is a book, and I was criticized for not being very good at cooking, so I bought a book that specializes in cooking and learned to cook every day. Although the dishes are very different from the pictures above, I have improved somewhat over time, and I am no longer the person who can only make egg fried rice and tomato scrambled eggs.
"I'm pregnant. ”
"Just kidding again, I'll cook for you"
"I'm really pregnant this time. ”
"Really?"
"Believe it or not, you're going to be my fart. ”
Several times before, she told me that she was pregnant and asked me when I was going to get married, of course, it was all a joke, but I took it "seriously" every time, and this time I definitely thought that he was not "lying", not joking.
Although I have been living together for a year, I am very careful every time, and there are always protective measures, well, although there are protective measures, it is not necessarily 100% safe. And there were two times this month that I couldn't hold back, and the gun went off, and as for the protective measures or something, I only remembered it after the fact. Of course, we didn't pay much attention to it, it was just once or twice, how could it be so easy to win the lottery, I haven't seen any obvious pregnancy characteristics in the last few days, and it may be that I didn't pay attention to it all day at school.
At that time, I just wanted to hug her for a while, but the back was inched in and confiscated. It's a lot older, and it's still not good for you, and it's not the first time, I just want to sleep with my arms and don't do anything else.
She handed me something with a dark face. One look, two bars, red lines.
Looking at her somewhat blue face again, her heart went up and down in an instant, and she hurriedly went over to hold her hand.
"It's too tiring to stand, come, let's sit and talk, the sofa is soft. ”
"I want to stand for a while"
"I thought you were joking with me like you did, it was all my fault, my fault. ”
I know she's not really angry, she just wants to take this opportunity to beat me, she's not the kind of person who likes to cry, make trouble and hang herself, if she doesn't coquettish me one day, I'll be scared, if something happened. Wife, it must be used for petting, and although I have received the certificate now, I haven't passed the door yet, right?
In the past, I might have had the idea of taking the baby away, but now that I'm getting married and having a stable job, pregnancy is the icing on the cake.
Now that she is pregnant, she needs to be more careful in the future, and in the eyes of our young people, there are not too many ideas about pregnancy, so what should we do. But in the eyes of our parents, it's different, if I usually have a little slack, it's a problem on the line, not to mention whether the mother-in-law will have any ideas, my mother can scold me to death.
hugged her and comforted her for a long time, since she is pregnant, she has to say some things that should be done, and the wedding must be advanced, and it may not be good to get married with a big belly or a child at that time. Although many young people on our side are pregnant, they only get married after they have children. After having a child, even if both parents are reluctant, they have to admit it, which can save a lot of dowry and a lot of trouble.
Both of our families know the roots, there is no need to do this, as for the dowry, the parents of both sides have discussed it before.
After telling the news to the families on both sides, I was directly called home by my parents, so on Sunday, I went home in the morning to explain the situation to my family, and saw my mother and grandmother holding Lan's hand, asking long and short questions, her eyes asking for help from me, I can only say that I can't help it, I didn't look for scolding in the past.
After lunch, I had to rush to my in-laws' house, I had to go back to school in the evening, and I had to go to class the next day. Well, after I arrived at my mother-in-law's house, I was asked when I was going to get married, how I was going to prepare next, when I was going to take maternity leave, and what was my living arrangement. Both the mother and mother-in-law said that they would go up to take care of her in a few months, and this time it was their turn. Lan watched with a smile, but after laughing a few times, he was counted down by his mother-in-law, and pulled into the room to whisper, if it weren't for the fact that I had to drive at night, the meal at home would not have stopped if my father-in-law had not poured two catties of wine.
So after two weeks of comprehensive consideration, it was decided that the wedding would be held on the National Day, when everyone had time, and there would be many relatives and neighbors to help.
I told my colleagues about my National Day marriage at school, but fortunately, when I went to school, the teacher got married to me, otherwise everyone would be busy and have to run on both sides.
A group of junior high school students, the study task is not as heavy as high school, there is nothing to do all day long, the net gossip goes, I don't want to let them know about my marriage too early, I am afraid that they will make too much trouble, but I talked to other teachers in the office here, and the whole school knew about it the next day.
As soon as I walked to the classroom, I heard them chattering and asked me a lot of questions, and I worked hard for a long time to quiet the classroom. Many students made a fuss there, saying that they were going to come to my house on the wedding day to eat me poor, and they wanted to make trouble with the groom or something, and said that they would not follow the money, and of course they couldn't ask for it. It's a lot closer to my classmates. I'm not a few years older than them, and I just graduated for two years, in fact, I'm still very young, every time I recall the junior high school days, I still remember it vividly, we met and knew each other in junior high school and slowly came together, junior high school, what a beautiful memory.
It seems that I have no pursuit except to save money to buy a house, so what more can I ask for a wife like this?