259 Marriage and fit

Song Thirteen Niangzi hugged Su affectionately, and also hugged Minshan who was pregnant by Su, Minshan was hugged by her like this, making her uncomfortable, so she hummed away, Su Shi hurriedly said to the aunt of Thirteen Niangzi: "Mrs. Jiang, you accompany Thirteen Niangzi here, my little guy wants to go out to see the scenery, stay in one place, he doesn't do it, it's not good to cry for a while"

Mrs. Jiang also pulled away the thirteenth lady and said, "Children were like that when they were young, I will send you to the third wife."

Su Shi gave in, but it was still sent out by Mrs. Jiang and the Thirteen Ladies, and Su Shi didn't let it go away, and there was a maid to lead the way, and he couldn't get lost. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info

Su thought that Song Jiang's must be a lively time now, and he didn't want to go there to socialize, so he happened to have a Minshan as an excuse, so he would transfer in the Guogong Mansion, and then told the maid that he wanted to go to see Sui Guogong, and let her lead him to Suiguogong's garden.

Meeting Sui Guogong is just an excuse, and when he arrives in the garden, Su Shi sends the maid, and he and Chuncao Akito walk around the garden, if he sees Sui Guogong, he will ask him to be safe, and it is better if he doesn't meet him.

Min Shan was happy when he saw the scenery, babbling and waving his little hands, and slapping Su's chin, Chuncao said: "Mrs., I'll take it back, and Mrs. will take a break."

Su Shi handed it over to Chuncao to hold, Minshan was also familiar with Chuncao, so he didn't hum, Su shook his arm, Qiu Teng stepped forward and said: "Madam, there is a pavilion, go there to sit there, the slave and maid pinch Mrs.'s arm"

Su Shi nodded, and when he saw that he was about to walk to the Ailian Pavilion, he brought Chuncao and Akito over to sit in the pavilion, and asked Akito to pinch the arm that had been held for a long time.

Minshan has been in the mountains for almost ten months, even if he is not fat and hugging, he is sinking, not to mention that most of them are hugged by the third master, so when he is brought out today, his arm is really sore.

Su sneered secretly, everything is a habit, if the mother has been holding it every day since he was a child, it means that the child is two or three years old, and it is not a problem to go shopping for more than 30 catties, but now Minshan has not exceeded 20 catties, and he can't stand the tiredness of holding it himself.

Su Shi stretched out his arm for Qiu Teng to press, and said to Chuncao, who was holding Minshan, "How is Ci'an doing?

Chuncao said: "Ci'an is really a sturdy one, maybe she is still the daughter of the Zhuang family, after entering the house, the two nurses changed feeding, the little arms and legs, eating is like lotus root."

Su nodded and said: "That's good, the doctor said, it's better to have surgery as soon as possible, if you are weak, you can only drag it back, and wait until your body is strong before you can do surgery."

Chuncao said with a smile: "At first, the nurse didn't want to feed, they were all taboo, and the slave said that the wife was not afraid, what are you afraid of? Besides, the accumulation of virtue and virtue is either to go to the temple to burn incense or to accumulate virtue, how many good things have the wife done for decades before she has the creation of Shishilang, and you slaves and maids are still picky?

Su Shi also understands that it is not the nurse who picks and chooses, but the ancients are really superstitious about some, otherwise there would not be a biological child thrown to Tianci Nunnery, and those who can be thrown there are still kind-hearted, and some directly drown the baby on the spot.

Thinking that he picked up a rabbit-lip baby, and Sui Guogong picked up a beautiful girl, if it wasn't a beautiful girl, would Sui Guogong pick it up as a treasure? It's like the third master, even if he had a deep affection for him at the beginning, it is estimated that he would not look at himself like he does now. Su still has self-knowledge, he doesn't have that appearance or talent, he won't let a man not be able to walk when he sees her, and he hasn't spent the poetic romance of the moon before him, let go of himself, and his stubborn temperament is not what men like.

Only after experiencing married life, will you understand that feelings are not passion, marriage is not all about love, marriage is not love, sex, emotion, responsibility, important both parties pay, communication, understanding, tolerance and acceptance. First of all, marriage is more important, it is whether you are suitable for the other party or not, and whether the other party is suitable for you. The person you like isn't necessarily the right person for you. Marriage is that if you are a fish, you will find a fish, don't look for shrimp, don't look for a toad, fight, how happy are two fish swimming together, do you have to pinch with shrimp?

Even if Su is a beautiful woman, she is not necessarily suitable for princes and nobles, first of all, she does not have the emotional intelligence to cater to the ancients at all times, marrying a literati and Qingliu, she still can't look down on that sourness, let her like a man, and take care of the concubine in the backyard for him, she can't do it. What woman is not on the side of the couch for her favorite lover, how can she allow others to sleep soundly? But if she holds a man for her, she will never be able to insert a third person from now on, Su herself is not so naïve, she is not a twenty-eight girl, she has experienced a love marriage, dealt with her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law's family affairs, raised her children and served her husband, how can she be naïve to think that a lifetime of a couple is more difficult than winning the lottery to let yourself meet this unbeautiful and not shrewd fool?

It is not for nothing that husband and wife love each other, like the three nephews and Ding, that is also Ding's not ordinary beauty, but also Ding's temperament is what the three nephews like, the three nephews not only have their hearts, but they are also willing to live between the two husbands and wives, and do not want to have a concubine to affect the feelings of the husband and wife, and the two can become more and more harmonious with each other; 。 Don't look at Wu Hu's husband and wife now, but before marriage, her father-in-law was still unclear with her sister-in-law, in the words of a modern little girl, emotionally he is not in a good place.

Why do some sisters jump off the building because of a man's change of heart, that is, they can't see the essence of a man, they can't see the essence of marriage, and they always regard men's love and love as the only thing in marriage, and finally lose themselves.

Su Shi thought that he and the third master in the first twenty years, in fact, who did not give each other a chance, emotionally, they were all their own personal, now think about it, in fact, the third master is full of himself, if he is a black-bellied, he is not enough for him to see, in his eyes he estimates that he is stupid, so in the future, he will never look down on him again, and laugh at him for being a second-hand mallet. If you marry a sperm, maybe the other party will have a headache how to marry a female fool and come back.

Women have experienced marriage, experienced the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, experienced the rights and wrongs of the seven aunts and eight aunts of the husband's family, experienced the process of raising children, looked back at the young and shouted that love is supreme, shouted that love is supreme, shouted that a lifetime and a couple, shouted that the body and mind are clean before marrying, and yelling that if she marries and meets her husband, she will divorce when she meets her husband's heart, just like looking naïve, Su Shi remembers a post in her previous life, a lady said that now I think about how stupid I am when I think about myself who was obsessed with Qiong Lao Yao's novels.

Experience gives you eyesight, but you don't have to laugh at those naivety, I also came from that age, and I was so naïve, even if I have a daughter and granddaughter, she also has to experience that naivety, and she will understand some things when she matures.

Su Shi was making up for it, and when she saw Aunt Mei coming over with the old maid who had been by her side in the distance, she asked Akito to stop the massage.

Aunt Mei walked in and said to Su Shifu: "Third wife, I want to talk to you alone"

Su Shi motioned to Chuncao and Qiuteng, and Chuncao hugged Minshan and Qiuteng and retreated, and the old maid also withdrew, and there were only Su and Aunt Mei in the pavilion.