Tao went to see his niece and nephew and daughter-in-law and went to Lily Xuan.

Xiao Tao welcomed his aunt in, and the next person came in and poured tea, Tao took a sip and put it down, beckoned his niece to sit down and talk, and asked Sister Tong, saying that she was learning to write in the study.

Seeing his niece sit upright in a proper manner, Tao said: "Yufei, you grew up with your grandmother, and you have been studying since you were a child, no less than your son, let me ask you, have you read the article on linguistics?"

Xiao Tao nodded and said, "Yes, auntie." "Because I am married, I have to follow my husband's family to call my aunt.

"Youzi said: The use of etiquette, harmony is precious, the way of the first king, Si is beautiful, the small and the big are not good, know and harmonize, not with etiquette, and it is not feasible. You name it. ”

Xiao Tao didn't understand what it meant, hesitated for a while, and said: "The application of etiquette, harmony is precious, the way of the previous kings, is to use etiquette to achieve a perfection, but only use etiquette for big and small things, and some will not work, only use etiquette without talking about harmony is not good, on the contrary, only talk about harmony without etiquette, it is also not good." ”

Tao nodded, and then said: "I see you understand this, marry, humble and respectful, and treat yourself as a husband, instead of letting you restrain yourself with courtesy, is this harmony? ”

"But, aunt, be polite and polite, why deceit?"

Tao really wants to gasp for breath, but I still don't understand this? This is just like Jin Niang said, some people are stupid when they read.

"Respectful in my heart, not in vain, let me ask you, whether you read the female ring, did your mother teach you before you got married, to put your husband's family first? Have you ever seen Zhuang Jiyu's newlywed: marry the chicken and fly after the chicken, marry the dog and go? If not, have you ever heard the sentence: marry the beggar and beg, marry the beggar and follow the suo? Are your opinions important or your in-laws' opinions important? Did Jiaxin tell you that your in-laws don't have so many rules, have you listened? You yourself are willing to do this, your mother-in-law is with you, you are not a daughter-in-law, you are an aunt and grandmother, and you meet a good mother-in-law, then I ask you, Sister Tong'er's surname is Xie or Tao? You teach the little lady of the Xie family according to your Tao's rules, have you asked your mother-in-law? Does Jiaxin agree? How can you not remember the humility and deference on the female ring, and take the husband as the master? Why do you have to follow your own? If your mother-in-law is unwilling, do you still want to say that this is a woman's rules? So where are your rules?"

The louder Tao spoke, the more frightened Dow knelt down and threw away his tears.

"You read well, but it's useless, now I'm your aunt, the Tao family, I'll teach you what to do, hand over Sister Tong to your mother-in-law's female gentleman to study, since you know the rules, just follow the rules, don't make your own ideas, you have to listen to the rules of the husband's family, so what Jiaxin says how do you listen, you are stupid to read and read by yourself, do you want to teach the descendants of the Xie family to be stupid? So where are your rules? If you think that you are not happy with this, and you have to let your in-laws and father-in-law come according to your rules, then if you propose to reconcile and leave, I can make decisions for your parents, let you return home, and then marry a husband who will let you talk about your rules smoothly. ”

Xiao Tao was sobbing and crying, but he didn't dare to make a sound, and his tears were hard to hold back, and Tao sighed in his heart. He thought of an idea and said, "You pack up, go home with me, and serve me for a month." ”

Xiao Tao raised his head, surprised, but he didn't dare to resist, he was afraid of urgency, did his mother-in-law say something to his aunt, did he have to divorce her because of this?

Tao asked Xiao Tao to pack up his things, not to bring anyone to serve, saying that there were many people in the Su Mansion.

Then he returned to Yanmintang and told Su to take his niece back to live for a month, Su was surprised, but he didn't ask much, and said that he would rest assured that his daughter-in-law would definitely take good care of Sister Tong.

Then Xiao Tao followed him to Su Mansion aggrievedly, and when the ninth master knew that his daughter-in-law had left, the daughter also asked her mother to move to her sister's place.

However, Jiu Ye breathed a sigh of relief in his heart, he was also worried that if this continued, maybe he would not have any more children, sometimes he really felt that he had married a book, and now looking at Sister Tong'er, he really wanted to keep Sister Tong away from this mother.

Mother has never taught the seventh sister like this, but the seventh sister understands etiquette and is governor, and she lives with her brother-in-law beautifully, why is her daughter-in-law so dull?

Su Shi understood what her sister-in-law meant, probably because her niece was still so stubborn to talk about the women's rules she had learned, and simply took her back to teach, otherwise, in the future, her son would be miserable, and she would be able to force her son into her daughter-in-law's room?

She thinks that husband and wife and beauty should be a couple, and she also tries her best to give her daughter-in-law this concept, but she also feels sorry for her son, does she want her daughter-in-law to be happy, so she will force her son to be wronged?

It's October in a blink of an eye, it's cold, Sister Tong suddenly disappeared from her mother, but she didn't cry like other children to find her mother, but tears swirled in her eyes, and she heard her grandmother say that she would live with her eighth aunt, she also thanked her grandmother, and the eighth lady walked in and pulled her, and she gave the eighth lady a blessing.

The subordinates who served her, the Su family, all stayed in Baihexuan, they must have been accustomed to listening to Tao's orders, and it is estimated that following Sister Tong'er's side, when they see something unruly, they will definitely subconsciously remind them, so they didn't let them follow, but seeing Sister Tong so lonely, although she did the rules on her face, she still showed panic in her eyes.

Pitiful, Su Shi was distressed, and told Chunhua to take care of it, Chunhua is kind, patient and patient, smiling, it is comfortable to watch.

Su went to find Qiu Zhi again, and asked her to pick a few subordinates for Sister Tong, find two lively and young ones to serve Sister Tong, and then find an old one, but it is not rigid for Sister Tong, and when Tao returns home, these people will follow. All of Dow's original subordinates were replaced.

Now to eat, Su is to let the Song family brother three and Conghe, and the eighth lady Xuelian are all eating in her house, Conghe saw the strange Sister Tong, opened her mouth to call her sister, Su quickly said, this is the niece Sister Tong, not the younger sister.

From now on, he can slowly distinguish his relatives, and he walked over and held his hand and said with a smile: "It's the fourth brother's family, Sister Tong, I'm the fifth uncle, call the fifth uncle." ”

Sister Tong was a little scared, and called Fifth Uncle, her voice trembling a little.

After they all sat down, they served the dishes, and Conghe first sandwiched a small chicken leg for Sister Tong, which was a high-imitation chicken leg made of vegetarian food, "Sister Tong eats, it's delicious." ”

I sandwiched it for my parents, and then sandwiched one for Baniangzi and Xuelian, and then said to the Song brothers: "You can clip it yourself, let's eat." ”

Sister Tong looked at the chicken legs on the plate, and didn't see anyone come to divide the chicken legs into small pieces, so she didn't move, so she picked them up again and stuffed them to her, Sister Tong was about to cry, but seeing that the eighth aunt and Aunt Xuelian next to her were eating with chicken legs, she was also trembling with a small bite to gnaw.

Su Shi looked at it, although he felt that he was a poor baby, but he didn't interfere, and he had to have a start.