Chapter 975: Tutor

"I want to be with my sister, not another girlfriend!" But Liu Bei didn't appreciate Hong Tao's tolerance, but frowned and bumped into him, as if Hong Tao had also violated his dignity.

“…… Have you asked your sister if she would like to be with you? Whoever you love to be with is your freedom, but freedom has a prerequisite, and you need to pay a corresponding price. ”

"I don't ask you to do things that you can't do, the top ten grades in the grade, housework to take care of yourself, and learn a home-cooked meal every semester, no problem, right?" Liu Bei's confrontation only made Hong Tao stunned, tilted his head and looked at Tian Sisi again, and then understood.

These two children seem to be more precocious than they were back then, and they know a little about male and female issues before graduating from elementary school. In this regard, I should take part of the responsibility and teach by example. Society also has to be responsible, and there are couples on TV all day long, and cartoons are all couples and children.

However, Hong Tao doesn't think this is a big problem, it's not a bad thing to know it earlier, and he can give himself an extra bargaining chip to put forward conditions, so why not do it.

As for whether the two children will really be together when they grow up, it seems a bit early to think now. When children enter adolescence, their values, outlook on life, and worldview will gradually be fixed, and they may not be able to look at each other when they grow up together when they are young.

"......" This time, Tian Sisi nodded faster than Liu Bei, and it seems that she also has the same idea as Liu Bei.

"What about the fight?" Liu Bei felt that the conditions proposed by Hong Tao were not harsh, and it was not difficult to complete. But Hong Tao has never been such an easy to fool master, can he finish without punishment this time?

"You have to fight when you have to fight, but you have to think more about it in the future before you do it. For example, if you are fighting at school and the teacher calls me over for a training, I will definitely be unhappy in my heart, and when I come back, I will find a way to get angry with you, let you run an extra lap, and practice flexibility for half an hour. ”

"Do you think this exchange is worth it? If it's worth it, then fight, if it's not worth it, put up with it. As a man, you must be broad-minded enough not to care too much about what others say, because what they say doesn't count. ”

"You can't solve most of your troubles with your fists alone, and you will bring more problems to yourself. But when it's time to defend yourself, you have to take action, and you have to figure out the proportions of this slowly. ”

Again, when relieving anger and showing off, think about the price you will pay, and figure out which is more important. As long as you feel that it is worth it, you will do it, and if you can reason with me afterwards, I will not punish you. This time I counted you with a point, but it turned out that trouble came, so you have to be punished. ”

"Take a bucket and a ladder and wash Uncle Fei, Uncle Tang and my car. Don't let your sister help, go to practice after washing, and be locked up for three days!" Sure enough, this time is no exception, Hong Tao babbled for a long time, and the punishment should be no less.

"Oh......" Liu Bei was relaxed when he heard the punishment result, this Uncle Hong is usually very popular with children, because he has countless fun ideas. But he was also ruthless, and he turned his face and didn't recognize anyone when he was punished.

Confinement is already the lightest form of punishment, and there are basically no restrictions except that you can't go out of the yard to play with children. Labor is not a punishment, even if you don't make mistakes, you have to do a lot of housework every day, and you are not allowed to delay your studies.

Washing a car in winter is nothing more than being colder, which is much better than not being allowed to watch TV, not to play on the computer, not to read extracurricular books, and to memorize English words for several days in a row.

"Sisi, you stay first. Let me ask you, Liu Bei didn't fight once or twice, why he fought with his classmates, you must know it, so why didn't you come back and report to me?" Liu Bei went out of the house and ran to the tool room to get car washing tools, Tian Sisi also wanted to go out, but was called back by Hong Tao.

"You said that the most valuable quality of a person is loyalty, and giving a small report to a friend behind his back is the most lacking in morality! I think Liu Bei is doing the right thing, he is also my boyfriend, just like you and Aunt Rui and Aunt Diane, they will not sue you behind your back. ”

Tian Sisi is not the same as Liu Bei, this is a straight-hearted little girl, her personality is very similar to her aunt Han Xue, she has a knife mouth, even Hong Tao is not scared, at least she is not scared in her mouth, and she always likes to talk to Hong Tao about the truth.

Of course, it usually can't be broken. But in this way, she also mastered a lot of Hong Tao's logical patterns, and spoke very methodically, like a little adult.

"Who told you about me and Aunt Rui and Aunt Diane? How do you know that they didn't betray me?" Hong Tao did say something about loyalty and friendship, and the meaning was similar to what Tian Sisi said, and there was no way to go back on it.

But you can't just leave it at that, you have to find something else wrong. It can't be said that only punishing Liu Bei and not punishing Tian Sisi, sharing weal and woe can make the child's heart more balanced.

“…… I listened to what Meng's father and my mother said......" Tian Sisi's child was a little hesitant at this time, and Hong Tao's question made her feel dangerous.

"Okay, eavesdropping on adults, this is a foul, right? You have a more serious problem than Liu Bei, I can't punish you to wipe the car, right?" As long as Hong Tao wants to, he can find fault with anyone, let alone a little girl.

Tian Sisi's child's hunch was very accurate, and she didn't run away. Although he pouted, he had nothing to say, and he did commit a foul. Hong Tao and the two children made more than 30 house rules that must be followed, most of which have loopholes that can be reversed and reversed, and are specifically used to punish them.

This is not a deliberate abuse of children by Hong Tao, but a form of restraint. When the two children are a few years older, this little trick will be useless. At that time, it will be clear whether there is a tutor in childhood and how effective the tutoring is.

The living habits and thinking patterns developed since childhood can follow people's lives, as long as the foundation is laid, they will be easy to guide when they grow up. On the contrary, it is useless to exhaust parents to death.

It is for this reason that Hong Tao is very strict with his children, and he can even be called harsh. You can not beat and scold, but all kinds of mental destruction are more vicious than scolding.

This is done so that they understand from an early age what they can do and what they can't touch, and touching it is the beginning of bad luck, and there are no exceptions. This is called making rules, children can be stupid and naughty, but they can't fail to know how to obey the rules. Only by knowing the importance of rules can you learn how to use them for your own benefit when you grow up.

The next day, Hong Tao showed up at school on time, and after less than ten minutes of honesty, he stared at the little eyes and pouted and scolded a room of teachers and three students' parents.

If it weren't for the fact that he wanted to figure out the causes and consequences of Liu Bei's fight, so as not to listen to and believe partially, Hong Tao wouldn't have been able to endure it for even ten minutes. When he confirmed that Liu Bei was not lying, he directly overturned the car.

It is good to have students who have nothing to do to spread rumors and gossip, but you teachers turn a blind eye and pretend not to hear or see, my child is wrong to defend his dignity, what is the truth of this Nima?

And the source of these gossip is likely to come from the mouths of some teachers and parents, if they don't tell it, how can a group of elementary school students know about their glorious deeds?

"Don't invite me next time because of this kind of thing, I'll go to your principal and unit leaders myself. I would like to ask them if teachers and parents should encourage students and children to spread such obscure gossip. ”

"If the school and the unit can't solve this matter, then let's meet in court, and if you win the lawsuit, I have to let everyone know your virtue. ”

"Teaching and educating people, children do not teach their fathers, in addition to books, you also have the task of cultivating children's moral character. Pat yourself on the chest, have you done it, how many have you done?"

Bad people have to have the welfare of bad people, Hong Tao scolded from the backyard to the front yard with a broken gong throat, pointed his nose one by one, and then walked away with his hands behind his back, no one dared to come out to stop it.

To say that Hong Tao is also cowardly, he is afraid that if a person comes and encounters a parent who is higher than his own kung fu and will beat himself again, he will be embarrassed, so he deliberately found a personal meat shield to escort him. Tang Jing, who has a big waist and a round waist, always stands not far away, and it is estimated that he is an important reason why everyone does not dare to make mistakes.

Whether the teacher and the school will be embarrassed for the two children because of their actions, Hong Tao doesn't care at all. He can be regarded as seeing through that this society is the virtue of bullying the weak and fearing the hard. The current teachers don't have the same style as they used to be, they can no longer be called human soul engineers, at most they can be regarded as a monk for a day and hit the clock for a day.

Whoever dares to deliberately make things difficult for the two children will do it again and let them see what it means to be criminals, villains and hooligans. This kind of thing is only good for children, and before going into society, you should let them see as much as possible what the real society is like. Don't cover it all the time, it's not for the good of the children, but for their harm.

Of course, there are side effects of doing this, parents and teachers really don't dare to deliberately make things difficult for their children, but they can essentially isolate Tian Sisi and Liu Bei, you can't sue and scold others because other children don't play with their own children.

Fortunately, Tian Sisi and Liu Bei didn't care if there were classmates to play, even if they weren't isolated, they didn't have much interest in playing with their classmates, because it was more fun to have an Uncle Hong.

If you can't do it, you can also play with the neighbor's children, there are many employees of the mantis shrimp company living nearby, they are basically a simple family of three, and there is no shortage of children.

Hong Tao is even more afraid, he was such a piece of material when he was a child, and he knows that this method of parents and teachers is useless. As long as the child has the ability and skill, there will still be good classmates and good friends around him. This kind of process is a good social internship, early familiarization, early exercise, early profit.

"You are open-minded, it's not your daughter, you don't feel distressed, right!" The only one who has objections to this matter is Meng Jin, he is really into the play, not only does he love Han Yan, but even Tian Sisi treats him as his own, and he never mentions having another biological flesh and blood after getting married.

"Actually, she's not your daughter, what's the hurry? We are now a class contradiction, a contradiction between the enemy and ourselves, and it is better to have less contact in the future. If you're afraid that I'll spoil your stepdaughter, just transfer her to another school, I'll see if you have the ability. Hong Tao's answer was extremely vicious, and Meng Jin choked up the phone directly. Without Han Yan's approval, Meng Jin didn't dare to let go of Tian Sisi's problem.