Chapter 1106 Experience and Training
After spending the night at sea, Hong Tao returned to Wheat Island in the afternoon of the next day, but as soon as he reached the door of the hotel, he saw his angry parents, followed by Hong Jing and Gru. It turned out that after Hong Jing and Gru were released from confinement, they were discovered by their parents, and they immediately felt that something was wrong, Hong Tao should not only take other children out to play, but leave these two children. As a result, as soon as I asked, I quickly got the truth out of the mouths of the two children, and the three children they liked the most were all locked up and confined ah, Hong Shan hasn't come out yet!
"They are your own children, aren't they! Can children be educated like this? If you make mistakes, you can reason with them, how can you be corporal punishment? How annoying you were when you were a child, have I ever beaten you?" The parents still gave Hong Tao face, and instead of criticizing Hong Tao in front of the child, they called him to their own room, and then they began to roar.
"You've beaten me! You've kicked me!" Hong Tao knew that he and his parents would never be able to talk about an idea in this matter, so he began to mess around, trying to turn big things into small things.
"Don't talk nonsense, what's the situation? Besides, your way is worse than beating children, this is destroying their hearts! I have squatted in the cowshed and I don't know what it tastes like, let alone children, even if an adult squats in, it will collapse in a few days! What about Hongshan people? Where are you going to lock him up? Go! Bring me back!" "Father is really anxious, the next generation hurts, the tradition of the Chinese, put on anyone is almost the same.
Hong Tao was neat, his mouth promised well, and when he went out, he got in the car and ran to the city, and hid for more than 3 hours. It wasn't until dinner time that he came back and lifted Hong Shan from confinement. Took him to the restaurant. Well, let's enter the small ballroom. The whole family was waiting for him here, and they didn't even eat, and took turns criticizing him. In addition to his parents, his grandfather also went into battle, and with his little uncle fanning the wind on the side, the atmosphere quickly reached its peak. According to the meaning of several of them, they are warlords and bastards, and they are not worthy of raising children at all, so they must be deprived of the right to take care of children. Give the child to the parents.
This matter was not discussed at all, and Hong Tao would not agree to be killed, but he didn't quarrel with his parents, he listened to everything, he just didn't let go of the child's affairs, no matter how capable you are, I won't move. After grinding their mouths for several hours, the parents and grandparents are considered to have no tricks, and the child is older. But they don't want to watch Hong Tao toss their children here, so let's go. Out of sight is pure! The father was the most angry, and before leaving, he let go of his words, and he didn't care about the Hongtao belt in the future. Don't bring his children back, don't see them!
"How. Dumbfounded, aren't you? Isn't it so neat when you used to say that I was here? As soon as it's his turn, he will be muddy!" Before getting on the plane, the little uncle did not forget to squeeze Hong Tao's two sentences. This time he can be regarded as raising his eyebrows, every time Hong Tao came back, he had to squeeze him with the child's affairs, but now he can finally make up for it.
"This is a fart, you talk to me for another half a year, I still have this attitude, I just don't give it! Big man, I can't even take care of my own children, I know to listen to my daughter-in-law all day long, and I still have the face to say about me. Look at it, next year I will bring back two Chinese children, stuff them into my father's arms, turn around and go out, I don't believe that he can still throw the children out? I don't have to take them with me honestly! Or let's make a bet, if you lose, Hu Mingfan, you give it to me, no more, take it away for a year, come back to ensure that the rules are in order, and dare to cry at the dinner table? and dare to show the face of the adults? Grandma!" Hong Tao is quite beautiful, he thinks the current situation is already the best, and he doesn't plan to let his parents interfere in the issue of educating his children.
It is better to exchange a short period of anger for a long time than to quarrel once than to meet and quarrel once. This has nothing to do with filial piety or not, and it is always impossible to affect the development of the next generation because of filial piety, which violates the original intention of biological reproduction and the original intention of parents to give birth to themselves. If you really obey your parents, then you are unfilial, it is tantamount to taking advantage of your parents' confusion and letting them bury the future of their grandchildren with their own hands. Therefore, in order for my parents not to regret it in the future, I must not be afraid of scolding, not afraid of annoyance, and must persevere to help my parents get through this hurdle, which is called true filial piety.
The parents, grandparents and grandparents are angry and run away, Hong Tao is all happy, and now the children have one more task, go to the island every day to pick up garbage for an hour, Hong Tao also participates, words and deeds, just say it, you have to take the lead. So every day at about 10 o'clock in the morning, there would be a strange procession, led by a young man, followed by several women, and then a string of children, the oldest was no more than 4 years old, and the youngest was still walking unsteadily.
Long clothes and trousers, each wearing a straw hat and holding a bamboo clip in his hand, circled around the hotel and club in the sun. When you see things like cigarette butts, wrapping paper, plastic bags, etc., you must rush to the top, and whoever picks up more will become the wearer of the little saffron of the day. With this little red flower on his chest, he can make a request to his father, eat what he wants, buy what he wants, as long as he does not violate the rules specified by Hong Tao, any request can be met.
However, Hong Tao also stipulated that older brothers and sisters are not allowed to bully younger brothers and sisters, let alone rob the garbage found by younger brothers and sisters. As an elder brother and sister, you can't just think about how to fight for the first, but also take care of your younger brothers and sisters while competing for the first. Family affection first, honor second, who dares to violate, Hong Shan, Hong Jing and Geru are examples, go to the hotel room and confine it yourself.
More often than not, Hong Tao still takes the children to play wildly, there used to be only one boat, but now there is an island, and there are more things to play with. The girls could dance rubber bands together, and the boys would dig a few small pits in the land and play pinball with Hong Tao. Otherwise, they will hold a fishing rod and go to the woods to dip dragonflies and know, so that the children will roll all day long as dirty as little earthies, and their bodies will either have a small cut or a bruise. Whenever this time, Hong Tao encourages the child, don't cry, don't be afraid of pain, this little wound can't die, get up and continue to play.
"Hong Shan, you're foul again, didn't you say that everyone would drive for 5 minutes, it's time to change the younger brothers and sisters!" When he said this, Hong Tao was sitting in the co-pilot seat of the plane, and Hong Shan was sitting on his lap. At this time, the little guy was holding on to the joystick to drive the plane, although his legs were still short and he couldn't step on the rudder, but the control lever was still a bit similar. On the other side, Singh didn't operate it at all, and the plane was basically piloted by Hong Shan.
Let three or four-year-old children fly airplanes in the sky, this is also a game that Hong Tao pondered, it doesn't matter, learn slowly, it doesn't matter if you can learn it, don't force it, just let them experience the feeling of flying a plane, and then don't take flying in the sky as something that can be feared and worshipped. Not only to drive the plane, but also to let the car go, in the hands-on indicator, there are two daughters who have shown a good ability, and now they can start the car themselves to run back and forth on the airport runway, but they are too small, the field of vision is limited, and the reversing or something is not enough.
Soon, Hong Tao felt that it was no longer interesting to just toss on Wheat Island, no matter how bitter it was here, it was very different from the real hardship, and it was more like a game. So he came up with another idea, and after getting the consent of the local government, he took the children to a township near Qingdao City, which was still a relatively poor township, and then left the 12 children in the township and left them alone. The children will be assigned to 12 village homes for a week of experiential life. These villagers can't be in the same village, let alone prepare accommodation and meals for their children, because Singh has already brought people here in advance and has a general understanding of the daily life of the local villagers. During this week, those nannies are inspectors, who will conduct inspections from time to time, and once they find out who has violated the rules, they will have to change their families immediately if they have no bonuses in addition to the necessary living expenses.
The township government has also been taken care of by Hong Tao, it doesn't matter if the water conservancy facilities are not enough, the astronomical company paid for the construction of 3 pumping stations in the township, and the advance payment arrived instantly, as long as the experience of this week was completed, and Hong Tao's hardship requirements were met, the balance would also arrive in a week. As for whether they really use the money to repair pumping stations and build a few, Hong Tao doesn't care. For this reason, the township government specially sent a deputy township chief with several officials to the villages to coordinate and supervise the matter, and must ensure that these 12 children can taste the original rural life, as long as the safety of the children is ensured, do not lose people, and the rest will be raised according to their own children.
The first day of the children was okay, only a few began to feel homesick and began to cry, and most of the freshness had not yet passed. But on the second day, it was a large-scale collapse, it was fun to eat one meal of coarse tea and light rice, and eating two meals was a test, and eating three meals in a row was already a crime, and adults couldn't help it, let alone children. But no matter whether it is crying or rolling on the ground, Dad and those nannies no longer appear, you can be hungry if you don't eat, and you don't have the strength to cry when you're tired of crying. They have survived this week in all kinds of grievances and pains, and when they appeared in front of Hong Tao again, they felt that they had changed, at least when eating, the speed was much faster, and there were few picky eaters and leftovers. (To be continued......)