Su Shi thinks about his past life and future life, and his heart is Dao, sometimes he really can't see himself clearly, and he has to be reminded by others to know what kind of person he is, such as himself, he always thinks that he thinks very freely, and he sees it very clearly, and his heart is calm and tolerant, but he doesn't know the persistence and admitting death in his heart, but he makes the spring grass that follows him break through in a word. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ｂｉｑUｇE。 ｉｎｆｏ

Isn't it just like Chuncao said, the third master was unhappy at that time, and his neck was opened, he was silent, and he let others say anything, and he was still stubborn in his heart. After reaching middle age in his previous life, he also knew his many problems, that is, he did not repent of death, and at that time he mockingly said that he could be Sister Jiang.

It's not that I deliberately stubbornly don't change, it's unwilling, I've done so much, I've paid so much, why am I wrong.

In my previous life, I read a lady's book, and she always had classic words in the text, and she once said a sentence - we are always too polite to strangers and too harsh to intimate people. Yes, many people are like this, if you give half of the politeness, tolerance, and warmth to outsiders to your relatives, the family will be much more harmonious and intimate.

In another article, she said that a mature person often finds that there are fewer and fewer people to blame, and everyone has his own difficulties.

At that time, Su Shi was more and more immature, because she was always emphasizing her own difficulties, while complaining, blaming, and reprimanding others. is always critical of others, which is why she feels that she pays so much, but her family is getting farther and farther away from her, and over time, Tianya has one more resentful woman, her husband feels that the dead fish is annoying, and her son also refuses her care, thinking that it is a burden. People tend to be tolerant and understanding of outsiders, but they are critical and critical of those closest to them. It's always the same thing - I'm asking you for your own good. Just like the son of the previous life yelled to himself, I don't need you to be good for me, you should be good for yourself and ask for yourself.

Life is short for decades, live for yourself, love yourself a little more, instead of imposing your own consciousness on the people around you, and your efforts must be recognized and accepted by the other party is the greatest reward for you.

These Su clans knew and understood in their previous lives, but they all knew about it in their previous lives, but they stubbornly thought that it was too late for them to change, and it was useless, the horizontal ditch had been opened, and no one could step through.

Now that she is relieved of all kinds of things in her previous life, she wants to live again, live happily, but she doesn't want to let this nature follow her anymore and continue to make mistakes that have seen the results.

No one is perfect, and when you find fault with others, others are also critical of you. What's more, Su Shi still knows his true nature, he is a person with a bad mouth, a tough mouth, and a complaining belly, with a good heart, no matter how much he pays here, there is no credit.

Since we knew it earlier, we had to change it.

Su Shi said to Chuncao: "In the future, if you see me stubborn, you have to remind me not to let me be stubborn all the way."

Chuncao smiled: "The slave is a subordinate, how can I remind my wife?"

Su Shi raised his eyebrows, and said with a smile: "Do you dare to say that you don't? Who is talking in my ear all day long to envelop the master? I haven't explained this to you, don't you also boldly remind me every day?"

Chuncao pursed her lips and said, "The slave reminds the wife to listen too."

Su Shi laughed angrily and said, "Ha! you don't remind what you should remind, you don't remember what you shouldn't remind, you change your name to Alarm."

Chuncao put down the clothes stacked in her hand and said: "Mrs., don't be annoyed with slaves, this woman has to rely on her husband and son, but when the son is older, he will naturally guard his daughter-in-law and children to live, and he has to be reliable."

Su Shi saw that this long-winded old aunt was going to talk about it again, so he quickly covered his head and said, "Oh, I have a headache"

Chuncao knew that Mrs. was pretending, went to the inner room to put her clothes, came out and said, "Since Mrs. has a headache, let's rest, the slave maid has gone to see Eleven Lang" After saying that, he giggled and went out.

Su Shi was also happy and said something about this dead girl. Fortunately, there is a spring grass by his side all these years, and Su Shi can still breathe, or he will suffocate to death. Fortunately, Chuncao didn't guess too much, as long as his wife said that she would listen, and never thought that Su's words were too deviant sometimes, so that Su's emotions had a place to vent. It's like the third aunt and grandmother always come to talk to her.

Su Shi looked at the makeup list in his hand, and the second grandmother listed some necessary makeup gifts that were not out of line according to the exchanges between relatives, but Su Shi felt that it was a little less, not Chong Suiguo Mansion is the in-law relationship of Xuanping Houfu, that is, the strong relationship between the third master and Cousin Song, so it should be added more.

Su Shi walked outside the door and saw that the third master was walking around the garden with Minshan in his arms, and he was not impatient for half a day, it was rare for the third master to have such patience in Minshan, so he didn't know how long he could keep it.

Su Shi walked over and said, "The master is tired, why don't you change hands, I'll hug you?"

The third old man didn't see tiredness, and said happily: "I'm not tired, I've just eaten in Minshan, I'll walk back, and I'll sleep in a while."

Su said: "Then let's go back to the house first, I've been outside for a long time, I'm afraid of getting sunburned."

The third old man walked back with his wife, but said in his mouth: "Where I cover it, how can I let him bask in the sun"

Su Shi smiled amusedly: "If outsiders see the old man holding a child like this, I don't know how to laugh at it, they all say that they don't hold their grandson."

The third master said: "I'm still afraid of that, who likes to talk about going, if you don't hold your own son, who will you hold?"

Su Shi said in his heart: Take the beauty. If the temperament of the previous life would open his mouth to say it, think about himself and say all these things that are harmful to others and not beneficial to himself, just trying to make his mouth happy, and running away with all the relatives around him. In the past 20 years of marrying the third master, I haven't had a bad relationship with him, that is, I didn't treat him as a person around me at all, and I didn't bother to talk to him.

At this moment, Su Shi said with a smile on his face: "It's really not a loss for me to marry the master, whose master loves the child so much?"

The third old man shook his head proudly, and said beautifully: "They don't know the fun of holding children, which one is better than their own children that people will never get tired of?"

Su Shi still said in his heart: The beauty is much better looking than your son, and said with a smile on his face: "I think the master is happy in it, Minshan will definitely be the closest to the master when he grows up, and I will tell him then, you grew up in your father's arms, and you will have to honor your father more in the future."

Su Shi followed the beautiful old man into the house, lifted the small quilt on the bed, and the third master put Minshan in, but when he saw that Minshan was about to fall asleep in a daze, he was about to grin, so the third master quickly picked it up again and said, "He is not asleep yet, I will walk back with my arms."

Su doesn't care about him, he wants to hug himself. Su Shi picked up the makeup list, told the third master about it, and said: "I'll see if there are any other expensive jewelry, if you can't add a few jewelry, it will look good on the dowry list at that time."

The third master also felt embarrassed at this time, he didn't pay attention to the main courtyard in the past, but now after facing it, he found that many expenses were paid by his wife, and the human relations in the third room were handled by his wife herself, and he had not yet split up, and his monthly money was not enough for his own expenses.

But at this time, it is impossible to let the third master take out the silver, no wonder the last time the wife yelled at herself that she went to earn a penny of silver and came back to show her. Thinking of this, the third master remembered that he had always wanted to ask his wife what that grain seed meant, so he asked.

Su Shi couldn't laugh in his heart, the words he said casually were difficult for him to remember until now, and it was estimated that the words hit him.