The second master listened to the second grandmother ask him about the childhood, so he thought about it and said: "I can't remember it myself, the fifth brother was very obedient when he was a child, and the ninth brother was naughty when he was a child, and his mother was afraid that the hot water would burn him, so he took a hot water basin, which was filled with boiling water, and it was still steaming, and the mother put the ninth brother's hand on the top of the basin, and slowly moved down, at first the ninth brother thought that he was playing some game with him, and smiled, and with the position of moving down, the heat was also hot, and the ninth brother cried, and after that, the ninth brother saw the hot thing and avoided walking."

The second master thought for a while, and then said: " Mother said that her nurse told her mother one thing, it is the nurse's hometown, a little lady took the adult to pay attention to the steaming water cup on the table, after being burned hands, and was burned by the water in the cup that was knocked down, the face was burned, the mother said, the child will always be curious about anything, but do not know the danger, something happened is to sell the caretaker and can not be remedied, it is better to let the child know which is dangerous at the beginning, he tried, naturally will have a memory, will not touch the thing that makes him suffer again, the mother also said, don't talk about children, that is, adults are still curious about what they have not seen, but adults have the ability to identify danger, but not for children."

The second grandmother is really convinced of her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law is not like some women who are full of literary talent, and she has never seen her mother-in-law's poetry, but her mother-in-law always knows more than those women who have literary talents, and what she says is practical in life. Don't say it's a nurse, it's yourself, I think I'm also raised by a scholar, I don't dare to say it's full of economy, I was also on the line at the little lady's poetry meeting back then, but these are useless in raising children. Pen ~ fun ~ pavilion www.biquge.info

If Su Shi knew that his daughter-in-law thought so, she would think that the streets were full of children's education and child psychology in her previous life, and she still knew the superficial truth, but the ancients believed that the modern era was repulsive, and the ancients believed that the child was the property of the parents, and if there was a sentence that the father asked you to die, you would have to die, otherwise it would be disobedience, the father was not guilty of killing the son, and the son killed the father Ling Chi.

In modern times, the son is also an independent individual, which can be treated equally except for the father-son relationship, and needs to be respected, and the child cannot be manipulated at will just because he is a parent.

This is also the biggest difference from modern times, in addition to the status of men and women.

But, for the most part, a well-read mother is certainly better at raising a child than an illiterate mother, case rule-out. So the second mother's idea is also biased.

The second grandmother said: "It's not because my mother herself has to take care of the eleventh brother, I really can't wait to put Sister Liang next to my mother and let my mother raise me."

The second master smiled: "Mother can't do it, my mother said a long time ago that children must not be separated from their parents when they are young, and growing up in front of their biological mother, that is the right courtesy."

The second grandmother asked, "Who raised the seventh sister?" I see that my mother and seventh sister are not inferior to mother and daughter."

The second master said: "The seventh sister has always been raised by Aunt Luo, but the seventh sister has loved to stick to her mother since she was a child, and the third room was a little lady of the seventh sister at that time, and I moved out of the inner house with the fifth brother and the ninth brother when I grew up, and went to the academy to study, it is rare to see, only the seventh lady is in the inner house every day, and the mother has the most contact with the seventh sister."

The second grandmother said: "I said, this seventh sister looks like a concubine, which is the same as being raised by her mother."

The second grandmother secretly made up her mind in her heart, when the eleventh brother is older, she has to let Sister Liang and Hu Niu go to her mother more, teach by word and deed, don't expect her daughter to be outstanding, at least she has to be as demure and reasonable as their seventh aunt.

The second master continued: "The father of the previous son also said that the child must carry it himself to have feelings, and I think it is also, you see that Sister Liang and Hu Niu accompany me every day, that is, I am the closest to me."

The second grandmother smiled and said: "No, I have a taste in my heart, the daughter I gave birth to with hard work will not be a mother when I see my father."

The second master also shook his head like the third master, and said proudly: "That's, you should be jealous."

The second grandmother who covered her mouth thought to herself, if she had just married in, she would definitely feel that such a husband was useless, and she revolved around the child all day long, since she accepted this family from the bottom of her heart, understood what her mother said, and then thought back to what she had lived before, she would feel that such a day was not bad, at least it was comfortable. I remember that when I was a child, I was closer to the nurse than to my mother, and I didn't dare to tell my mother what I said to my mother, and she didn't want her own daughter to be like this now.

The little couple talked about the child for a long time, Sister Column was tired of playing and ran into the house from outside, pounced on the second master, the second master laughed and lifted it up, Sister Column giggled happily, and the second grandmother also smiled comfortably.

Here the second grandfather and the second grandmother talked for a long time for the problem of children's upbringing, Liuliyuan, the fifth grandmother took the carved various fat babies back to the fifth grandmother, the fifth grandmother was happy to hold all of them, the fifth grandfather usually had no expression, and now it was also smiling, listening to the happy chatter of the fifth grandmother.

The fifth grandmother said: "Why are they all children, and I haven't seen a little lady?"

The fifth master said: "I see that you always want to give birth to a child, so you carved a child."

The fifth grandmother said angrily: "Which one said that I always want to have a son? The second sister-in-law can say, if you want something, I will give you something I don't like, I am a child and a little lady like it, I am rare to give me whichever one is rare, and I am rare to see my mother."

The fifth master wrapped his head around and said, "Then I'll carve a few more little ladies."

The fifth grandmother bent her eyebrows and said, "I want the kind in my mother's room, a fat baby and a little lady."

The fifth master smiled embarrassedly, but just nodded in response.

In Su's room, Su drew a picture by himself, a fat baby and a little lady stood opposite each other, and the two of them moved forward at the same time, pouting, and almost kissed. At that time, the fifth master was holding the drawings, looking at his smiling mother with a bewildered face, embarrassed and didn't dare to say no, don't want his mother to raise his eyebrows, and the father next to him opened his eyes. The fifth master had to go back and ponder for a long time, and carved this fat baby and fat little lady who wanted to kiss his mouth.

At this time, his own mother also wanted this, and he remembered what his father said, a woman with a body should come along, otherwise it will be bad for the child in her womb if she gets angry.

Thinking of his father, the fifth master had a headache even more, knowing that his daughter-in-law had a body, but his father called him to the study, educated him all night, and turned over and over how to treat his wife who had a body, and taught his father's own experience, and he had to write it down, and took out a densely written paper to him, saying that it was all what his father thought about taking care of his mother this time, not his own son, and he didn't give it to outsiders.

Not to mention, the fifth master was stunned again, he went back and looked at it carefully, and treated the fifth grandmother according to this in the future, so that the fifth grandmother was always excited to look at the fifth master affectionately, at the beginning, let the fifth master have goosebumps all over his body, and then he was looked at for a long time, and he also enjoyed the feeling of being revered and joyed. In the future, I like to run to the house more and more.