Today can be said to be the happiest day for Li's father and Li's mother in this time, because their son has returned home and brought back a prospective daughter-in-law.

Father Li and Mother Li really thought that their son had grown up and was sensible at this time, and he was about to start a family.

Among them, Father Li is the happiest.

Li Ming didn't go home last time on the New Year, although Li Ming didn't come back under the pretext of work, but Li's father knew very well why his son didn't come home, and Li's mother complained that Li's father was too much.

After all, his son is such an old person, and he is not a child, just reason well, why do you still do it, and Dad Li sometimes speaks sullenly.

Don't look at Daddy Li as a teacher, but as long as he is angry, Daddy Li will definitely become very annoying immediately (a local saying, not easy to mess with, difficult to mess with!).

Li Ming's grandfather died early, and his grandmother also remarried after Li Ming's grandfather died, Li's father had no father since he was five years old.

And Li Ming's grandmother didn't care much about Dad Li after she remarried, and Dad Li's reading can be said to be that he slowly boiled it out alone.

When he was very young, he helped his family, that is, Li Ming's uncle, to do things, and then borrowed money from some relatives to finish this school.

It is also because Dad Li's grades have been good since he was a child, and some of those relatives are willing to lend money to Dad Li's school.

And Father Li, who was very sensible at a very young age, also went to work by himself, and more or less got some money or food.

Even so, every year when school starts is the most difficult and worrying time for Father Li.

It's always a few corners of this family, and a few points of that family go around to borrow money, so that they can barely raise the tuition fees.

Until Li's father went to normal, the normal school at that time was free of charge, and there was also a state subsidy. After graduation, it will be assigned as a package.

This allowed Dad Li to support and learn this and read the book.

Because of this, Father Li has always cared about studying and going to school. Li Ming's grades after high school were not very satisfactory, and in the end he only went to a three-school college. Father Li has always been very dissatisfied.

And at this time, the graduation of college students is not guaranteed, Li Ming has not been admitted to the civil service, and he has not been brushed down during the interview every time.

These have always been Dad Li's mood is not very smooth.

In the hearts of Li's father's generation at this time, most of them always want their children to be admitted to the civil service.

Not to mention this time, Li Ming knows very well that until 2015, the people who take the civil service examination every year are like carp crossing the river. The list goes on.

Although from 2004 to 2005, there were not as many college students as later, and the competition was not as great as later, but the cruelty in it was not bad at all.

Because at this time, especially in some counties, shady scenes are still very common, and sometimes even if you have passed the written test, you can be brushed down very lightly during the interview.

I believe many people have experienced the cruelty in this!

And Li Ming went to experience it firsthand.

I haven't found a job for nearly half a year, and some people will inevitably have some rumors. After listening to it too much, with Dad Li's fiery temper, of course he couldn't bear it.

But he couldn't take his anger out on people. After all, even if you know that someone else did it on purpose, but what others say is the truth, you can't refute it at all.

So in the end, this anger was sprinkled on Li Ming's head.

This is also the reason why Li Ming, who has a stubborn personality, has run away from home since then, and he does not even accept the help of his relatives.

Otherwise, no matter how bad Li Ming is, as long as the requirements are not very high, if he is active in the Guò family, he can still find a job that can support his family.

Moreover, Li Ming didn't want his father, who had been strong all his life, to give up his skin to beg for himself.

Because Li Ming knows. Although his father is so strong, he is for himself. You can still give up your skin and beg for help.

But Li Ming really didn't want his father to beg for help.

Because when I was in high school, for Li Ming's study. Father Li was invited by Li Ming's homeroom teacher several times, when facing the homeroom teacher who was five or six years older than Li Ming.

Father Li is always more nervous than anyone else, and even for Li Ming, he also said soft words to the teacher who could be his son, hoping that the teacher could supervise Li Ming well at school and take care of Li Ming.

Even Li's father, who is usually not very willing to spend money, invited Li Ming's head teacher to dinner many times and gave gifts.

Li Ming didn't want his father to do this for himself again.

So after graduation, even if he didn't find a job, Li Ming never begged his parents to find a way to help him find one.

Later, after Li Ming and Li's father had a conflict, they didn't want their mother to ask for help when they went out to work, even if the person who asked for it was my mother's brother.

There is an old saying that says, 'The first 30 years look at the father and respect the son, and the last 30 years see the son respect the father.'" ’

Li Ming believes that even if his father begs to arrange a job for him, then whenever he faces these people, Li Ming's parents will inevitably lower their posture, or those people will raise themselves when they see Li Ming's parents and see Li Ming's parents.

Although this is just Li Ming's idea, it may not be the case, but Li Ming is still unwilling to try whether there is such a possibility.

So Li Ming would rather go out to work.

It's a pity that Li Ming didn't make a name for himself, and the temperamental Li Ming always thought that it would be impossible to make a name for himself.

He must make a name for himself and make others respect his parents because of him.

In this regard, Li Ming is very stubborn.

In essence, Li Ming is still a strong and face-loving person, but this strong and face-loving person is more reflected in his relatives.

Li Ming wants others to respect his aging parents because of him, and he has to achieve a certain achievement, or Li Ming is very stubborn that only when he achieves a certain achievement, others will respect his parents because of him, and people dare not look down on or look down on his parents.

Although the current Li Ming is not as stubborn as before in this regard, he still has this idea.

If he hadn't gone home this time, he wouldn't have bought gifts for so many relatives in addition to his parents.

For example, Li Ming's uncle, his uncle often said bad things about Li Ming when Li Ming didn't get a job after graduation, but Li Ming also bought gifts for his uncle, although it was not as good as other people's, but at least he bought it.

This is what Li Ming wants to prove to his uncle, that he Li Ming can still find money outside, can make his parents live a better life, and also earn face for his father in Li Ming's uncle.

After all, even if Li Ming's uncle didn't care about Li Ming, he and Li Ming's father were also brothers, and they were also Li Ming's uncles, so it was impossible to break off the relationship and never get along!

In addition, Li Ming also bought some gifts for his grandmother, who has not treated him and his father very well since he was a child, and the Buddhist bead bracelet is one of them.

Li Ming also brought a gift to his father-in-law (Li Ming's grandfather), who had loved him since he was a child.

Li Ming's father-in-law can be said to be two extremes with Li Ming's grandmother, since he was a child, Li Ming's father-in-law has loved Li Ming very much, as long as Li Ming wants something, he has to find a way to get it for Li Ming, if there is any, he will give it to Li Ming, and if not, he must find a way to become there.

You must know that Li Ming is the first male of this generation in the family, whether he is at his mother's house or his father's house.

It stands to reason that the first male in the family is the most favored by the people in the family, because the older generation prefers boys more than girls, and Li Ming is indeed very favored in Li Ming's mother's house.

Li Ming's father-in-law likes boys very much, and this liking doesn't matter if you are a grandson or a grandson, for the elderly, they are all his grandsons.

However, Li Ming's father's side is on the side, and compared with Li Ming's mother's side, there are two extremes.

Li Ming's grandmother never came to see Li's mother when Li's mother was pregnant, and she didn't even come when Li Ming was born, from childhood to adulthood, Li Ming's grandmother never hugged Li Ming even once, and even Li Ming's grandmother bought some snacks for children, all for other children, never for Li Ming.

It can be said that Li Ming has almost no feelings with his own grandmother.

As for why Li Ming's grandmother didn't treat Li Ming and Li Ming's father since she was a child, Li Ming only knew about it when she was older.

Because Li Ming's grandmother didn't want to see Li Ming and Li Ming's father, the reason was that Li Ming's grandfather died when Li Ming's father was five years old, and Li's father was very crying when he was young, so Li Ming's grandmother always thought that Li Ming's grandfather was killed by Li Ming's father.

Therefore, whether it is Li Ming's father or Li Ming, Li Ming's grandmother has not liked or treated other people's children better than them since they were young.

On a deeper level, Li Ming's grandmother still hates Li Ming's family a little.

This hatred comes from the extreme for no reason, and it can only be said that the older generation is superstitious.

So when he was a child, Li Ming loved to let his mother take him to his father-in-law's house every year during the Chinese New Year, and rarely went back to Li Ming's real hometown to celebrate the New Year.

Children can still tell who is good for them.

It's a pity that Li Ming's mother-in-law (Li Ming's own grandmother) who loved Li Ming the most died when Li Ming was about ten years old, and for this reason, Li Ming was sad for a long time at that time. (To be continued) R580