Chapter Eighty-Nine: Not Married with the Same Surname
When Li Ming took Li Mei to the old man's hospital bed and told the old man: "Old grandmother, this is my girlfriend, her name is Li Mei!".
Li's mother is a little messy.
Li Ming's girlfriend is not Song Qian anymore, when did she become Li Mei and become another girl.
However, considering the current environment, Li's mother did not say anything on the spot.
At first, the old lady seemed a little confused, but it changed immediately.
Maybe she's misremembering, or maybe it's something else. However, none of this is important, the important thing is that the girl in front of her is her good grandson's future daughter-in-law, which is the most important thing.
The old man looked at Li Mei and was very satisfied.
also held on to his spirit and said a few words to Li Mei.
In the old man's heart, there was another thought that was not spoken.
"It would be better if this girl didn't have the surname Li!"
The old lady is still a little conservative in this regard, but who calls the good grandson like it.
From childhood to adulthood, the old lady has the most preference for Li Ming, the great-grandson, and even those great-grandsons do not have such a preference as Li Ming.
On the same day, Father Li also came.
But the old man had already rested at that time, and Father Li didn't dare to leave, and kept waiting in front of the old man's bed, taking care of the old man.
When the old man woke up, he also said something to Father Li.
Li Ming and Li's mother are not there.
At this time, they were outside, and when there were many people, Li's mother didn't want to ask, so she only found an excuse to let Li Ming go out with her to buy things.
The purchase is fake, and it is true to ask Li Ming about Li Mei.
As soon as she got out of the inpatient building, Li's mother began to ask, "Xiao Ming, that girl just now?"
"Li Mei?"
Mother Li nodded: "Hmm!"
Li Ming said as a matter of course: "She is my girlfriend!"
Mother Li was a little depressed and said, "You know that what I'm going to ask is not this!"
Li Ming knew that the critical moment had come, when he brought Song Qian home. He had already thought about how to explain this matter to his family in the future, but he didn't expect it to be so soon.
"I broke up with Song Qian!" Li Ming tried to keep his tone as calm as possible.
Although Mother Li had expected it in her heart, she couldn't help frowning when she heard Li Ming say it.
She wanted to ask something, but in the end it just turned into a sentence: "Son, your love life mom doesn't want to ask more." Mom is old and doesn't understand the world of you young people. Mom just wants to tell you that you like happiness!"
"Still. Mom still wants to remind you that other girls are fine, but the girl just now may have some twists and turns. Because, she is also surnamed Li!"
After that, Li's mother really didn't ask about it again.
But Li Ming's mood is still the same, a little burden-bearing.
He knew that the first hurdle had passed. However, there is another point, just now, Li's mother has already said it. That is, Li Mei is also surnamed Li, which is the biggest obstacle that he and Li Mei will encounter in the future.
Speaking of which, there may be many people who do not understand.
But. Li Mei's surname is Li, and it's really a big problem.
Li Ming is right, Li Mei is not wrong, and the surname is not wrong. What's wrong is that both of them are surnamed Li, and they just became boyfriend and girlfriend.
'Don't marry with the same surname', this is not a simple phrase.
Though. In this new society and new era, such feudal thinking is unavoidable, and even in the law, there is no such provision.
However, in the eyes of many stubborn people, this is still a rule that they should and must follow, and there are even some people who firmly uphold this rule.
Unfortunately, Li Ming's Li family and his mother's Wu family are extremely obedient to this rule.
As for 'not marrying with the same surname', it may be that in modern times, not many people have gone back to observe, and even many young people do not know about this.
But in some places, it's more important than the law, even a family rule.
In Li Ming's memory, when he was young, his second uncle was ordered to be a baby by the family since he was a child, but his second uncle obviously didn't like this kind of thing.
Li Ming's second uncle didn't want to obey the family at all, and married the person who had betrothed him a baby since he was a child.
The second uncle himself went to find a girlfriend, who was still called the object at the time, and his surname was Wu.
However, the consequences were tragic, although the doll family finally failed, Li Ming's second uncle failed to get together with the girl he liked.
Li Ming remembered that when he was still very young, he went to his father-in-law's house for the New Year. When he woke up in the middle of the night and found that his parents were not there, he was a little scared, and he held back his tears to search for someone.
When he came to the altar room in his house, that is, the big house where the altar was enshrined, he found that the lamp in the altar was on, and not only that, but there were many people there.
Not only his parents, but also his uncles and even his second grandfather's family were here.
From there, there was a muffled noise and a muffled grunt, and his grandfather's angry voice.
Maybe he felt something, Li Ming didn't dare to shout his parents loudly at that time, but just walked over.
I saw his second uncle kneeling in front of the tablet, and his grandfather beat the kneeling second uncle with a bamboo stick.
The bamboo strips were thick and green, apparently cut down a few days ago.
One after the other, when it is broken, it is replaced.
No one dared to step forward to pull, and no one dared to speak, Li Ming, who was still young at the time, was so frightened that he only knew how to shed tears, but unlike his grandfather and the situation in the past, Li Ming was still scared and didn't dare to cry.
Then, Father Li took Li Ming away.
Later, Li Ming learned that he was beaten by his grandfather because of the doll and the second uncle's own finding a partner.
In the end, when Li Ming's grandfather's anger was almost gone, Li Ming's mother was the first to come forward to persuade Li Ming's grandfather, and then Li Ming's second grandfather also began to persuade and hold Li Ming's grandfather.
After this time, the doll kiss was blown up, but Li Ming's second uncle couldn't find the object himself, because the second uncle was directly at home by his grandfather for a long time.
Li Ming's current second aunt was also found by Li Ming's second uncle later. Of course, the surname is not Wu.
There are many such things, many of which happened to Li Ming's relatives.
Don't look at it just now, Li Ming's grandmother didn't say anything.
But that's also because the old man may now know that his life is short, and he loves Li Ming, so he didn't say it.
And the other relatives present did not say anything on the spot, also because of the old man.
But Li Ming knew that it wouldn't be long before things broke out.
An elder of the Li family once said, 'Marriage with the same surname', that is something that only people without a tutor can do! )