Chapter 602: Calculated Again
In fact, Hua Jin is very stingy, she still remembers the contempt that the county lord Jingyi despised her, this time the Shen family sisters' affairs, I really didn't expect so much at the beginning, but it was just to look at people unpleasantly, teach a few lessons, and let people stop disgusting people in front of themselves. Pen, fun, and www.biquge.info
How did I think that Hua Jin overheard that the father of the Shen sisters was a county official in Shuzhou before, Shuzhou is a good place, there is a group of back-the-pot heroes, Hua Jin's eyes rolled, and he was worried that the group of back-handed men were not easy to take the bait, and there was no best way to calculate for a long time, this former Lord Shen was very good, and when the time came, calculate it carefully, I am afraid that the matter of the king of Nan'an who they were worried about before will be solved.
This is also why Hua Jin will teach the Shen sisters in front of the county lord Jingyi so bluntly, not only for the sake of the following, after all, the county lord of Jingyi has done too much, and Lu Miaoxian is still cordial with her. Sure enough, after a long while, Kung Fu Hua Jin looked at Lu Miaoxian pouting angrily on the side, knowing that what she had just done made her unhappy, and under the pretext that she wanted to be flattering, she pulled Lu Miaoxian out of the door.
"Sister Miao......" Hua Jin pulled and landed Miaoxian.
"Don't call me that, you are such a big shelf, I can't afford it!" Jingyi is her mother, Hua Jin has just lost her mother's face, and today is her birthday, Lu Miaoxian feels that Hua Jin is a little too much.
Seeing her like this, Hua Jin hurriedly leaned over and apologized, "If my sister talks like this, my sister will be sad, my sister is certainly wrong today, but I also saw that my sister didn't like those two cousins very much, so I did it." ”
"Of course I don't like them, but if you do this, my mother will have no face! What do you think of me, you do this?" Lu Miaoxian was very aggrieved, she regarded Hua Jin as a true friend, but this friend actually did not give face to her mother so much.
Hua Jin sighed, and then pulled her and said, "I am at fault in this matter, but who am I, you should always be clear, step by step to the present, how many people have slandered me behind my back, envy and jealousy, and how sharp are the words, today is just an ordinary lady can look at me like this, I always need to be powerful and face." Today is just a moment of anger for me, and the things that were suppressed before broke out like this, and your mother also looked down on me when she looked down on me, and after this time, I promise to respect her, if it doesn't do so again, is it okay?"
"You cautious eyes, your mother just said a few words to you behind your back, why do you want to be like this, today is still your mother's birthday!" Lu Miaoxian heard Hua Jin's explanation, and also knew her embarrassment, but she was still upset.
Hua Jin saw the pink corners of the flowers on the side, which seemed to be the clothes of the personal maid beside the county lord of Jingyi, and then continued, "This time my sister came back from Suzhou, seeing that my sister was about to get married, and all kinds of rules were also done very well, watching my sister become an adult, and having the appearance of a county lord seriously, I should be happy, but I don't know why, I am still a little sad, in the end, we women have to cater to the rules set by those men in order to live a good life?" That's it, I see that you obviously don't like the two cousins and still have to take them, and you don't say that you are uncomfortable and wronged, I know that you feel that you are a mature adult, and you will manage the back house and become a housewife when you get married in the future. Although I have never been married, and I don't know what a good housewife should be, but I can't bear to see you like this, some people, some things, in the end, still have some temperament, those rules are set by men, but if people don't even have a little temperament, what's the point of living?"
"My sister is a dignified county lord, although we know it ourselves, outsiders always think that we county lords seem to be very noble, in the final analysis, it is just a name, and it is nothing, but since we are the county lord, sometimes, don't be too submissive, you never know, this person's inferior nature is to bully the soft and afraid of the hard, if my sister is so soft after getting married in the future, people think that you are easy to bully, and it is not good, be more gentle with your husband, and be more resolute and decisive to outsiders, I am just distressed, and I am worried, I have been housekeeper since I was a child, although I may not do it well, but I always have a little experience, I'm just afraid that my sister will be taught to enter another misunderstanding. Although Hua Jin has a lot of calculations in his heart, these words are really sincere.
"I'm afraid that only you are willing to tell me, since you became the lord of this county, you have been the rules all day long, I envy you for doing a good job of rules, but you can still be yourself, which is like me, can only be a caged bird, those handicrafts that I love to do, I haven't touched it for a long time, sometimes I think about it, I really don't know what I am marrying for, but I heard my mother talk about that person, and I think it seems to be good, although it is not as good as you and your senior brother, but people are always good, so it's good. In fact, Lu Miaoxian has a lot of uneasiness.
"In the past, when they came, their mother came to entertain them, I was impatient with them, and I didn't pay attention to them, but because I was getting married, my mother said let me learn, after all, who knows what kind of people their family will have in the future, they must learn to deal with it, I have to endure it!" Lu Miaoxian was also groping by himself.
"Sister Miao is wrong to do this, they are just the daughters of the family, you are the county lord, although she is my sister's cousin, but she is just the daughter of my aunt, this status is like this, if you don't hold your own county lord's shelf, people will forget your identity, they are still like this, if you don't pay attention to these after you get married, it's the same. I am doing this with them today, and I also want to tell my sister that sometimes the shelf should be set, sometimes it can't!" If you are too honest, you will be cowardly and will be bullied.
Look at Wang Lanzhi, usually when she is not married at home, she is not obvious, but after getting married, she has a clear grasp of every identity, she can grasp everything in the family, and she can be gentle with men, and her red sleeves add fragrance, and her life is very good. If you can't stand your own shelf, don't think about outsiders helping you know who you really are.
"You're always the smartest, and things are always more thoughtful than I thought, so how do I know when to hold it and when I can't?" Lu Miaoxian was also annoyed.
Hua Jin sighed, "You only remember that in front of your husband, you will always be your wife, not the county lord, in front of others, if you violate the bottom line, you must not forget that you are a county lord, not everyone can bully!" This is the easiest way to deal with it, although there may be contradictions.
"Okay, I'll give it a try, no matter what I do, you have to communicate with me in the future, if I don't know how to deal with it, you must always teach me!" Although Lu Miaoxian is older than Hua Jin, he trusts Hua Jin so much.
"This is natural, my sister is not so angry, today's incident, I personally apologize to your mother, in the future, we will help each other, and we will not hurt each other again, it's always okay!" Hua Jin said.
"What you said, hurry up and apologize to my mother, and then coax her to be happy!" Lu Miaoxian, no matter how he learns, he is a simple person in his heart, Hua Jin persuaded him in a few words, and happily pulled Hua Jin to apologize.
Hua Jin looked at the person who listened and left, Hua Jin sighed, silly sister, I have already done the apology, and the compensation has been done, your shrewd mother should have been all right!