Chapter 113: Edification
Zhao Jianzhong's parents sell vegetables in the vegetable market and do a small business. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ļ½ļ½ļ½Uļ½Eć infoAfter his mother gave birth to him, her husband had to buy goods and deliver them to the unit and sell them at the stall, so he was too busy to go to work two months after giving birth. Grandma fed Xiao Jianzhong milk powder and rice soup, Xiao Jianzhong was used to eating his mother's milk, and refused to eat milk powder, grandma couldn't, so she used a trolley to push him to the vegetable field to eat milk. One and two coming, accustomed to nature, Xiao Jianzhong is used to hearing the noise and shouting on the vegetable field, and he will cry non-stop after launching the vegetable field when he arrives at home, and his grandmother can't push him into the vegetable field again, saying that it is strange, Xiao Jianzhong will not sound as soon as he enters the vegetable field. The grandmother put the trolley next to her daughter-in-law. It's strange to say, Xiao Jianzhong lay in the vegetable field, sucked his little fingers, listened to the noise of the vegetable field, enjoyed himself, intoxicated himself, and fell asleep peacefully after laughing for a while, but he didn't want his grandmother to coax him, and his grandmother also fell into greed.
One morning, when my grandmother pushed Xiao Jianzhong to the vegetable market, a silver-haired old man greeted her: Old lady, this is your grandson.
Jianzhong's grandmother said: Yes!
The silver-haired old man said, "I see that you have been leaving your children in the vegetable field.
Jianzhong's grandmother explained: The child's mother is doing business in the vegetable field, and the child is used to breastfeeding, and he will cry at home.
The silver-haired old man said: "Old lady, I am a retired teacher, I have seen a lot, putting a child in a lively place is not good for his growth, and when he grows up, he will not be able to calm down, and he has no heart to study." I have taught thousands of students, I have summed up an experience, where children can study with peace of mind, not distracted by the outside world is good, where can not sit still and like to join in the fun of the academic performance is always poor, so we should cultivate children from an early age to be able to calm down, do not like to roll the excitement.
Grandma Jianzhong was shocked when she heard this, and thought to herself, what the old gentleman said was reasonable, why didn't her family think of it? Grandma was a little uneasy, and at dinner in the evening, Grandma said the old gentleman's reminder, and others thought that this would indeed affect the growth of children. Grandpa also agreed: It is true that he can't be put in a lively place. Jianzhong's mother Hua Jufen proposed: But the child is only more than five months old, and the weaning is too early, what should I do if I eat milk in the future?
Jianzhong's father Zhao Ziliang picked up and said: Only you suffer a little, and you run home in the morning and afternoon to feed once.
Hua Jufen couldn't think of a good way and agreed.
At about nine o'clock the next day, Xiao Jianzhong woke up and cried a lot, and as soon as his grandmother heard the cry, she hurried to him, changed his diaper, washed his face, and immediately called her daughter-in-law. Hua Jufen put her business aside, rushed home on a bicycle, breastfed the child, and left after feeding, but Xiao Jianzhong cried again and hesitated. The old man told his daughter-in-law, you go quickly, he will stop crying after crying for a while. Hua Jufen had no choice but to go. But the child kept crying, crying endlessly, grandma hugged him and coaxed him, and Xiao Jianzhong was still crying. At noon, Hua Jufen went home to eat, saw that her son was still crying, and she was still crying after feeding, and she was moved by compassion, and wanted to take the child to the vegetable market in the afternoon, but her in-laws and husband persuaded her that she could not take it, and it would be more difficult to correct it next time. Hua Jufen didn't bring it. At three o'clock in the afternoon, Hua Jufen rushed back to feed, Xiaoguangzhong was still crying, and after feeding, Hua Jufen had to go hard-heartedly. In the evening, everyone went home, the house was lively, and the crying in the small light finally stopped.
In the middle of the night, grandparents were falling asleep, and suddenly heard a knock on the door, and Zhao Ziliang was shouting: Mom and Dad, open the door.
The old man hurriedly got up and opened the door, and the two of them asked their son urgently: What is the urgency?
Zhao Ziliang replied with fear: Jianzhong has a high fever.
The two old men were anxious, and the grandfather blamed: Jianzhong cried for a day and couldn't support it.
Who is to blame, everyone agreed at that time that children should not be allowed to enter the vegetable market. So the old man watched the door at home, and the other three took the child to the hospital together. The child was too young to hang water, and the doctor saw that it was not a serious illness, so he prescribed a little medicine for him to take. And take care of it again and again: you can't let your child cry again tomorrow. When they got home, everyone looked at each other and couldn't speak. The next day, Xiao Jianzhong's high fever did not go away, and he cried again at home, he struggled desperately and broke Xiao Teng's bed down, and he fell to the ground. Grandma was distressed and anxious, and sweat broke out on her forehead, so she no longer insisted, put Xiao Jianzhong in the cart, and pushed the cart into the vegetable field. There was a miracle, Xiao Guangzhong stopped crying when he heard the noise of the vegetable field, and after sucking the milk. After listening to the noise for a while, laughing for a while, I fell asleep peacefully. Grandma is also relieved to go home and do housework. Xiao Jianzhong slept peacefully, and even the high fever subsided at night. The family rejoiced.
There can take care of the future, only look at the present, as long as the child is healthy, it is good, since then, Xiao Jianzhong has been in the vegetable field during the day, accustomed to listening to the noise on the vegetable field, and accustomed to seeing people coming and going. After being able to walk, he kept walking around his mother, watching her go about business. Since he was a child, he was influenced by business, and when he was five years old, he would shout and sell, and when he was six years old, he would help his parents collect money and find money, and he would not be mistaken, some deliberately joked with him, but he never messed up. After school, I have to run to the vegetable market as soon as I get out of school. Hua Jufen ordered: Go back and do your homework.
He smiled mischievously and said: I will do my homework at night, and I will help you with business.
One afternoon when he was in the first grade, he went to the vegetable market with his schoolbag on his back, Hua Jufen realized that something was wrong and asked: You skipped school?
Zhao Jianzhong said honestly: No, the teacher is going to a meeting, and it is a holiday in the afternoon, Mom, I will help you do business when you take a break.
Hua Jufen was angry and funny, accusing: Your task is to study, not to do business.
Zhao Jianzhong said mischievously: But I really can't sit still at school, there seem to be thorns on the stool, and as soon as I enter the vegetable market, I am full of vitality, and standing is better than sitting at school.
Hua Jufen kicked her son and said: You are really useless.
Suddenly, someone in the vegetable market commissary called: Hua Jufen phone.
Hua Jufen hurriedly went to answer the phone, and the other party said anxiously: Oh no, something is wrong, your son is missing at school.
Hua Jufen had already heard the teacher's voice, and hurriedly said: Teacher, don't worry, Zhao Jianzhong has returned home from school, and I will send him to school immediately.
The teacher was relieved. Hua Jufen put down the microphone and paid the phone bill, and then came to Zhao Jianzhong's side, pulled one of his ears and said: You are skipping school, the teacher is so anxious to look for you everywhere, go, I will send you to school immediately.
Zhao Jianzhong cried out with "wow!", forcibly grabbed the stall and cried: Mom, if you send me today, I will escape back.
Seeing that the child is pitiful and others are busy persuading: let him go today...... Hua Jufen took the opportunity to make three chapters of the law, then you have to promise that you will never skip school from tomorrow.
Zhao Jianzhong made a verbal guarantee, but he really didn't have the heart to study, in the future, he often skipped school, his grades have been sparse, he still left the second level in elementary school, barely read until he graduated from junior high school, he never wanted to go to school again, and his parents beat him to force him to do nothing.