The time has been quite comfortable for a while, and the [Heart-to-Heart] function I got from Inise is more interesting than I imagined, so much so that I have nothing to do with reference to reflect some tedious things. Pen ~ fun ~ pavilion www.biquge.info

For example, from time to time on the street, I see some uncles pinning a radio to their waists, and those uncles are walking on the radio while playing loud music from the last century, which is like deliberately wanting others to hear it, which is very conspicuous and makes passers-by look sideways. I was also annoyed by what I heard, so I tried to compare my heart to heart, and found that it was a coser walking down the street wearing the costume of an anime character

, attracting the attention of passers-by.

I instantly understood that the uncles were unwilling to be lonely and wanted to attract attention, and at the same time played their favorite songs to the masses of people to win a sense of recognition.

"It's just ......" I took off the eye of reason, looking at the monocle, although the example is cited, but it is not appropriate, coser will not quarrel with others, sure enough, as Enise said, the example given may not be the most suitable, but it is definitely the most able to understand the psychological feelings of the other party, these uncles are this kind of psychology.

In addition, as long as there is an image of the heart, even if it is a TV computer, it can still be printed, and even the biochemical characters can be compared to the heart, because it is so fun, I can't stop it! I don't even have time to care about the new work that I have been looking forward to for a long time not long ago.

Of course, the original intention was for Lancer to guide me in improving my eloquence in defense, and I did not forget that, and when I felt that I had gained enough experience and learned a lot from the comparison of these things, I brought it up again to Lancer.

"Is it over...... Lancer, who sat in his chair, looked leisurely at a novel in his hand, and did not take his eyes off the book.

"Ah, according to your command, [Heart to Heart] has been imprinted dozens of times. "I kind of understand what Lancer was up to, but I still don't quite understand what it means.

"Are you wondering? Although it is a question sentence, it is obviously a knowingly question.

"Well, I just don't understand how this kind of behavior has anything to do with improving my defense, although I do understand a lot of things. I sat down across from Lancer, picked up a piece of cheesecake and ate it.

"Do you know where most of the reconciled contradictions come from?"

"Hmm......," I thought for a moment, uncertain, "interests?" or position?"

"That's an irreconcilable contradiction. ”

"Uh...... Is there a difference between reconciled and irreconcilable?"

"To put it simply, a reconciled contradiction is a contradiction that can be resolved through words and avoid disputes, while an irreconcilable contradiction is a contradiction that is not as direct as simply seeing the truth under the hand, and I will talk about it later. ”

…… When did Lancer speak foul language, too.

"It's obviously to prove that you're right!" Wang Zhongming interjected coldly, "Don't you understand this common sense?" The latter sentence is redundant.

Yes, people in the world are often arguing over a thing, a phenomenon, a topic, and the purpose of their quarrels is to prove that they are right and to bring the other person to their knees. ”

I have carefully figured out that it is true that whether it is in reality, on the Internet, or in the phenomena observed by the heart, those who argue and defend each other and even spray feces on each other have the purpose of building on the basis that they are right.

"You want to improve your eloquence, that is, you want to convince the other person by making it clearer that you are 'right'. Lancer took a sip of his coffee, "So, let me start by asking a question, how does your meaning of 'correct' be defined?"

I tilted my head at a 19-degree angle, this question is a little advanced, I really can't answer it for a while, I don't even understand what Lancer's question means.

Seeing that he couldn't answer, Lancer gave an example: "For example, A picked up a wallet on the road, so what is the right thing to do?"

"Of course, I found the owner and went back!" replied without thinking, and took a bite of the cake by the way, it was so sweet.

"Why is it right to go back?"

"Because... Because the owner was in a hurry, he was naturally happy to return the owner. ”

"So, let's look at the problem from a different angle, your point of view is to return it, which is true, but even if you don't return it and take it for yourself, it is also good for the owner. ”

"Huh!?" Not only me, but even Wang Zhongming and Xiao Lu Ying, who were listening, had their mouths wide open enough to swallow an apple.

Unmoved, Lancer continued: "If the owner easily gets back the lost wallet, he will not take the loss of the wallet to heart, so he will be less vigilant, and he may carelessly lose more important things in the future. ”

"What kind of logic is this!?" I almost took a sip of salt soda and sprayed Lancer in the face.

"Yes...... Is that so?" the fooled and lame little Lu Ying almost had to accept this concept.

"Don't listen to his nonsense!"

"What nonsense am I talking about?" Lancer put down the novel, and looked me in the eye with a nonchalant look, "I ask you if what I said could actually happen. ”

In all fairness, the world is so big and there are so many events, this kind of strange thing may really happen, but ...... Damn, there is no place to refute.

"Yes, it can happen. I honestly admit it, but I don't admit defeat: "But that would be a danger to the order of society, if everybody ...... like that."

Lancer waved his hand, which meant "stop": "In other words, you don't deny that what I said is 'correct'. ”

"......" I acquiesced, and a sense of frustration rose in my heart, and I was actually suppressed under the premise of occupying the righteousness, "I can't argue with you, you won." ”

Lancer laughed disapprovingly, shook his head, and said, "Why do you think I won, I just proved a phenomenon, but I didn't win, and you didn't lose." ”

"Huh, what do you mean by that?"

"Your argument is that the right way to go is to return the wallet to the owner, and I have never refuted your argument that your stated behavior was right from the beginning and that it was a win. And my arguments are merely describing other possible consequences, and they are not refusing the undesirability of giving back to the owner, but that you are overthrowing the existing moral system and arguing with me for the sake of anger by doing a good job of acting on my contrary objections.

"For example, if you just said, 'That would be harmful to the social order, and if everyone ...... like that,' you think I'm criticizing the act of returning the wallet and encouraging the act of taking it for yourself. ”

"Normal people think so. "I find it difficult to accept, but it is undeniable that many quarrels on the Internet are because many people have expressed theoretical views that are contrary to public perception and have been beaten by groups, although they themselves only put forward another possibility, and most of them did not question the correct standard of public cognition, but others are too lazy to reason about these and some are not, and they are directly beaten to death with a stick!

"The same theory can be applied to most issues, and the method of debate is to show that your point of view is correct to persuade the other party to agree with your argument, that is to say, except for a few trolls who simply open their mouths and scold people, as long as they are expressing different ideas with you, they have their own 'correct' reasons, and they are difficult to convince ideas. Even if you kill someone, it can be said that you save air, have fewer people to grab jobs, vacate a woman, and have one less bachelor......"

"Poof-" Wang Zhongming's smile was ugly.

"Understood. I sighed and accepted the thought for a moment, "So no matter what happens, there will be both good and bad sides at the same time, right?" ”

"That's right, one of the points of debating with people is that it is enough for you to know the phenomenon described by the other party, and you should not pay attention to overwhelming the other party in the logic of 'right and wrong', if you fall into persuading the other party to change their point of view, it is equivalent to falling into the rhythm of the other party, and there will be no end to the fight at that time. So all you have to do is accept it, and at the same time, it is enough to stick to your own point of view, because the other side does not refute your popular standards.

"This is the so-called 'right and wrong' theory. ”