Children are a tool to realize their parents' dreams, not that this is bad, but this kind of love is too heavy. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info

The child does not dare to resist a little, because it hurts the hearts of the parents, we give you all the good, we don't eat, drink, wear, and live so hard for you.

Now, you dislike us...

Another example is like a little girl, she fell in love with playing the piano, and her mother loved her so much that she used all her savings to buy her a piano.

The little girl never wanted to play the piano anymore, because since her mother bought the piano back, she urged her to play the piano every day.

When she is tired of playing, or she doesn't want to play today, her mother will nag all kinds of things, I don't eat, I don't drink, I save money, and I spend all the money to buy you a piano.

You don't play well, you don't play well? How do you practice well and take the exam? Then didn't I buy it for nothing? I...

All love, after being adulterated with purpose, loses its original flavor.

Even if it is so-called good in the eyes of parents, even if it is sincerely good...

All, Su Xiaowan was shocked by the Song family's family motto, when the child becomes an adult, he can choose his own life, good or bad, the family will go together.

Su Xiaowan now understands why the Song family is not like other people's families, and they must not divorce their children.

In this era, divorce is an ugly thing, it is to be paid attention to death, as if something bad has been done.

However, the Song family was afraid of Su Xiaowan's feelings, and the subsequent persuasion was also the advice of relatives, if Su Xiaowan insisted on it, maybe the family would not stop her.

Su Xiaowan's life can be said to be truly her own, how rare it is in an era like this.

Moreover, at this time, parents have a lot of things to do.

Wasn't Han Dongchen's marriage arranged by his parents? And those military wives in the military family's hospital, how many of them were not arranged?

Su Xiaowan remembered again that the marriage of his eldest cousin Song Yongyi was also his own choice.

Su Xiaowan had to admire the ancestors of the Song family, such a life is the child's own life.

What are you afraid of when you take a detour, it is important to be able to grow.

Some parents don't want their children to go through the detours they have taken, and they always obstruct them.

I don't know, even if it is a detour, it is the child's own way, he is bitter, painful, and has his own feelings.

Moreover, everyone's perception is different, and blocking it is tantamount to depriving the other party of their knowledge and experience of the world and his life.

What's the difference between tying people up, not letting them move, not letting them talk, and feeding their own chewed food to their children?

It was his life that was deprived ....

Therefore, even if there may be hidden dangers in what the second cousin Song Yonghui did, the Song family only persuaded him, but no one stopped him.

That is respect for life, respect for a person, a loved one, a person with a soul of one's own.

I will not use me as your relative, your elder, to morally kidnap him.

Respecting his life and his choice is equivalent to respecting his personality and believing that he has the wisdom and ability to take the path he has chosen.

Because, he is already an adult, he may encounter danger, even if it threatens his life, as a descendant of the Song family, after choosing his own life path, he has to think of the difficulties he may face.

As a family member, although there is no right to interfere, the existence of the elderly is at the helm, and the intelligence and wisdom of the eldest cousin Song Yongyi are like the helmsman of the next generation. Su Xiaowan also believes that grandpa and uncle should also know and acquiesce.

Su Xiaowan couldn't help but smile bitterly, could it be because this body flowed with the blood of the Song family?

That's why her thoughts are so close to the ancestral teachings of the Song family?

Otherwise, why, she would have such thoughts, and she consulted with her eldest cousin Song Yongyi because she was uneasy?

Oh, where in this world is there any real right and wrong, in different eras, right and wrong are even the opposite.

Therefore, suitability is the most important thing, why bother to be strict about right and wrong? Life is short, do it and cherish it!

When Han Dongchen came back, he saw Su Xiaowan sitting on the sofa in a daze.

This is the second time Han Dongchen has seen Su Xiaowan in a daze, what is going on?

So he hurriedly stepped forward, sat next to Su Xiaowan, held Su Xiaowan's hand and said, "Daughter-in-law, what's wrong?"

When Su Xiaowan heard this, she turned around and said with a cute face: "Are you back?" ”

Han Dongchen hugged Su Xiaowan tightly in his arms and said, "Don't worry, I'm not hungry yet, tell me what's going on." ”

Su Xiaowan leaked a smile and said, "It's nothing, it's just that I suddenly feel that life is very beautiful." ”

After Su Xiaowan gave Han Dongchen another smile, she stood up and went to the kitchen to cook.

Han Dongchen shook his head helplessly, he knew that if Su Xiaowan wanted to tell him, he would tell him.

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It's autumn again in a blink of an eye, this is the third autumn that Su Xiaowan has come here, the autumn breeze is cool, this autumn, Han Dongchen took Su Xiaowan to see ginkgo biloba.

I went to Ditan Park, where the ginkgo trees are the oldest, and there is a ginkgo avenue here.

As far as the eye can see, it is a golden world, and the ground is also covered with a thick layer of fallen leaves.

Su Xiaowan was wearing a pair of tight jeans, small boots, a long sweater outside, a tulle scarf, and her hair was combed into a bud, looking playful and cute.

The little red face smiled, the crescent-like eyes, the long eyelashes, like that, Han Dongchen's heart melted when he saw it.

Today, Han Dongchen did not wear a military uniform, he was wearing a regular uniform, his body was straight, and he was handsome.

And at this moment, Han Dongchen's face, which was already bewitching and could cause girls to scream, looked at Su Xiaowan with a gentle and doting expression.

Everyone who saw this scene had their hearts beating faster, their faces flushed and they couldn't take their eyes off, and they wished that it was worth dying.

However, such a handsome and handsome man with an extraordinary temperament, at this moment, in his eyes, there is only the girl next to him.

All his gentleness and pampering were given to Su Xiaowan, and he stretched out his hand, regardless of whether there were passers-by or not.

touched Su Xiaowan's face and said, "Is it good-looking?"

Su Xiaowan's excited little face was flushed at the moment, and her heart was full of joy.

Su Xiaowan originally liked Han Dongchen, but now that she feels Han Dongchen's spoiling, let alone how happy she is.

The two have been together for three years, but Su Xiaowan's heartwarming emotions towards Han Dongchen have never been lost.

As long as she was teased by Han Dongchen, Su Xiaowan became a nymphomaniac, looking at Han Dongchen with admiration.

He looked happy, and said a little sluggishly: "It's good-looking." ”