"Do you really think that if it's not the first time, I'll be unhappy or don't want you?" When Jiang Zhuyi got into the quilt again and attached it to his body, Hong Tao began to talk to her about this topic officially. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ｂｉｑUｇE。 ｉｎｆｏ

"You don't have to comfort me, this kind of thing is not uncommon, I have personally dealt with it twice, both of which were when the man disliked the woman for this reason, and the woman did not agree to break up, and the two of them started fighting. I don't want the two of us to be like that in the future, you have to believe me, I'm really ...... for the first time" Jiang Zhuyi felt very lucky to meet Hong Tao, a man who looked like a bastard on the outside, but was actually very reasonable. However, she didn't expect Hong Tao to excel in this regard, judging from the education she received, the information conveyed by society, and her personal experience at work, it seems that most men care about this.

"The state has been advocating for equality between men and women for decades, and it seems that it has not worked very well, and even a highly educated state worker like you still thinks chastity is so important, sadly. Just now you asked me if I went out with a girl with these little sets, and now I'll tell you, before I met you, it was like this. In fact, I don't mind having normal relationships with girls who don't seem to be annoying, as long as I'm not married to her. ”

"You only care if it's the first time for you, why don't you ask me if it's the first time? Why don't you question me if I'm still chaste? Could it be that chastity only exists on the woman's side, and men don't need it? Let me say another ugly thing, do you think that whose parents are together forever after the first time, if not, then are these people's parents all bad people? Including you and me...... Seeing that Jiang Zhuyi had come out of that extremely depressed mood and could communicate normally, Hong Tao began to expound his theory on the issue of chastity, and by the way, gave her a question that could never be answered.

“…… But it's really the first time I'm ......" Jiang Zhuyi is very stubborn, she thinks this is one of her shining points, and it is better than many people, so although she has understood what Hong Tao means and partially agrees, she still remembers it.

"I think so...... It's not a disadvantage, but it's not something to boast about. This means that you have very little contact with the opposite sex, and naturally there are shortcomings in this regard. You see, the factory recruits workers who want to be skilled workers, and I am tantamount to bringing apprentices from scratch. "Hong Tao really wants Jiang Zhuyi to abandon this mode of thinking, those things are all things that imprison human nature, except for making people troubled, they are meaningless.

"Then you better like the journeyman in that nightclub, I don't want a master like you...... You're a bastard!" No matter what purpose Hong Tao said this, Jiang Zhuyi felt that it was an insult. It is still wrong to pay attention to chastity, and then she thought of the woman who appeared in Hong Tao's yard, and then naturally thought of Hong Tao's performance in this regard, a nameless fire could no longer be controlled, pushed away the man's body, grabbed his clothes and pants and jumped off the kang.

"Hey...... I said why are you unreasonable, why are you involved with others again, didn't I tell you, she ......" Hong Tao was taken aback by Jiang Zhuyi's reaction, but then he thought about it, he really said too much, to be precise, he didn't care about the other party's feelings.

She and herself are not the same kind of person at all, and their values, outlook on life, and worldview are almost opposites. Lust can make people lose their minds, but that is only temporary, and when the flood of lust recedes, reason will regain its dominance. If someone tries to convince themselves in this way, I'm afraid they won't be too happy. Of course, he won't take Jiang Zhuyi's too drastic expression, and he won't even express anything, he will only have an opinion in his heart, which is the difference between personality and attitude, and there is no difference in essence.

Angry, bickering, cold war...... No matter what it's called, to put it bluntly, it's a quarrel. People who fall in love, including the young couple after marriage, are basically familiar with this state, and they can't say that they can try it at two ends in three days, anyway, no one is inevitably vulgar.

Someone said, I've seen people who don't quarrel in their lives, and the two of them are still foaming at each other when they have gray hair. Regarding this matter, Hong Tao thinks that whoever thinks and says this has a problem with their IQ, or is simply a liar. Why do you say that? Because it's very illogical.

How do you know whether two people quarrel or not in their lives? Even if they live together, it is impossible for them to be together all the time. For some people who are slower and more rational, quarrels can be made when no one is around; for some people who have a better face, there is no need to disturb their neighbors in quarrels, and a few words of light words can completely express their dissatisfaction in their hearts.

Hong Tao can understand this very well, because his parents never quarrel in front of outsiders, especially his father, when he is angry and disagrees with his mother's point of view, he will wait until he goes home and will wait until he sleeps to communicate with his mother in a low voice, and even his father-in-law and mother-in-law are unwilling to let him know. Of course, if he catches up with Jiang Zhuyi's temper, Hong Tao estimates that his father will also have numb claws. She is just a firecracker, and she is full of leads, and she will be ignited when she can't keep it, and the result of ignition must be a bang, and she must not be silent like a wilted fart.

But then again, is it a bad thing for lovers and young couples to have conflicts and quarrels? Hong Tao believes that as long as the number of times is not too frequent and the time does not last too long, there is not only no harm but also benefits. Falling in love itself is a kind of run-in, an all-round run-in between two people with completely different living environments and personality habits. Since it is a run-in, there must be friction, and if there is friction, of course, it must be expressed. If you can't reach a consensus in a short time, you will inevitably quarrel, and people with a bigger temperament will naturally get angry, and then there will be a cold war.

This is a normal relationship between lovers, and there is no need to unify thoughts, that is to say, there is no need to distinguish between right and wrong, as long as both parties know each other's thoughts, the purpose of running-in has been achieved.

When both sides know each other's thoughts, they will naturally come up with ways to avoid touching each other's sensitive points, or seek common ground while reserving differences in some areas, or improve some of their own points that are not issues of principle. Anyway, this thing is like getting a cold, every time you get it, you will be immune to a cold virus, and it is also a combat exercise for the whole immune system. Of course, this exercise should be controlled, and if the illness is too long and too serious, it will be a bit more than worth the loss.

"Come, eat more yams, this thing replenishes qi. "Now Hong Tao has to control his condition, Jiang Zhuyi, a big man, has a cold virus until he eats, and he still droops his face and pouts and ignores himself. But it doesn't matter, Hong Tao treats her as a five-year-old child, so no matter how she snubs herself, she doesn't care, not only doesn't she care, but she has to go up and deliberately let her abuse.

Don't think, Hong Tao thinks that the skin can be thicker between lovers. If you don't give up this face for other things or other people, if someone can't get off the stage in front of outsiders, then he is your enemy. But lovers don't have to fight like this, if you meet a woman who seems to be particularly reasonable, it is not necessarily a blessing.

If Jiang Zhuyi and Zhang Yuanyuan were as tolerant, pretending, and all-encompassing, Hong Tao felt that even if she grew into a heavenly immortal, she might not dare to pounce. Because you don't know what she really thinks in her heart, she can't be sold and stupidly help others count the money. Family life is not like going to work, going to school, or doing business, and people you are unhappy, unhappy, and unaccustomed to can still avoid. There is nowhere to hide this thing, and in the next few decades, the two of them will eat, drink, and sleep together, and make a smiling tiger around him all day long, Hong Tao feels that he will have to decide himself to the people if he does not live for ten years.

"Girl, a man can't be hurt all at once, you have to be trained little by little, see that your uncle was trained by me, and he has been trained for 20 years. Xiao Hong is a very clever person, and he is also an arrogant person, he doesn't need a hammer to ring the drum, you kind of say that he can understand it, and he can't always give him face. A man wants to save face outside, and it's okay if you kick him when you get home, but you have to endure it a little outside. ”

The old couple of the Feng family and Miss Xi'er watched the play at the dinner table for more than half an hour, and they really admired the thickness of Hong Tao's skin, no matter how Jiang Zhuyi ignored it, he was not in a hurry, he always had a smile on his face, and he smiled so stupidly, it was pitiful. Then naturally she was dissatisfied with Jiang Zhuyi, and it was guilty of bullying fools! So while Hong Tao was going to the toilet, Aunt Feng began to instill in Jiang Zhuyi the tricks of being a man and a woman.

"He's pretending to be ......" It's okay not to persuade him, but a persuasion makes Jiang Zhuyi's eyes red. She was aggrieved, she had really dated Hong Tao for less than a week, and as a result, she had broken through the last line of defense, and this change made her panic involuntarily.

What made her even more panicked was that she suddenly found that Hong Tao was not in control, let alone controlling, and even the influence was difficult. He has a unique set of theories about everything, most of them are different from others, and he is even more slick in dealing with people. Is it the right choice to hand over his future to such a man who can't see through, can't figure it out, and can't control it? To be precise, now Jiang Zhuyi regrets it a little, regretting that he was too rash!

(To be continued.) )