Chapter 1115: Training Course

As soon as he thought of this, the doorman's face turned serious and he said secretly, "That's true. If such an accident happens, I am afraid that it will be difficult for anyone to control themselves. If you can easily control yourself, then you are not human. The reason is very simple, people have joys, sorrows, and sorrows.

And as long as someone has joys and sorrows. Then everything will be easy. When a person is happy, applaud him, when he is angry, calm his anger, comfort a person when he is sad, and let him enjoy himself without disturbing him when he is happy.

This is the best way to flatter a person, and it is also the way to please the relationship. If this is not the case, it will be even more troublesome. Of course, there is one more thing that must be clarified. This guy is not an ordinary person, they are quite a powerful group of people. If it's not good, it may cause you to suffer unprecedented damage.

But that's it. It's not very troublesome. You have to understand that if this kind of thing gets stiff, everything will be different. Of course. There is an even more terrifying argument that this matter has to be known to fewer people. Because, the more people know, the more difficult it is.

Generally speaking, the best way to do this kind of privacy well is to let as few people know as possible. The less the better, so that there is no danger. Otherwise, it would be too difficult for this or that problem to arise. It is also important to understand that it is not that the present is different from the past, but that the present is actually the past. Because the present is always past, and the past may not be the same as the present.

Therefore, if you want to be able to change your current situation, you need to change the past, and if you want to change, you must change yourself. However, it is a little too difficult for one person to think of this. It's easy to change the past, but it's hard to change yourself.

For example, if you want to change the past, you just need to change the scope of mental activity, but it is too difficult to change yourself. For example, how can a person's habits be easily changed? If it is easy to change habits, then this person is actually not in habits.

If we don't have habits, what do we call changing habits? This is actually a paradox. A paradox that is difficult to prove is also a paradox that is difficult to achieve. If you want to make it happen, you can't do it at all. However, as the old saying goes, there will always be exceptions. Otherwise, there would be no terrible character like Lord Shihai.

In terms of changing himself, Lord Shi Hai must also be one of the best. To put it simply, if this kind of thing happened to Lord Shi Hai, he would never be able to change himself. Even if it's a habit that's hard to break. He also has the means to correct it.

Of course, just because he can correct his habits doesn't mean that he must have the motivation to change them. Just because he has the motivation to change his habits does not necessarily mean that he will have the time to do so. If all the conditions are met, then everything will be easy.

There is one more point that must be clarified. That is, if Lord Shi Hai wants to change, it will probably take less time than ordinary people. In this way, he will save many, many hours of time. Don't underestimate the time saved. As long as he can save that time, he can do a lot of other things that he didn't expect.

For example, he can tell others how to change a habit that cannot be changed. He can pass on his experience to others. You can also use this experience to make a profit, such as telling someone that it can sell for money or something. There is one more point that must be clarified.

If he wanted to do this, Lord Ishikai might also make deals with people who couldn't change their habits at first, but later changed their habits after accepting his experience. It's not to charge more, but to offer to cooperate with them. As long as they are willing, they can reasonably run a training course.

In this way, Lord Shi Hai can help more people change themselves. And as long as more people change themselves, then this seemingly impossible task can be accomplished. As for how difficult this task will be, it is difficult to estimate, it depends on how much heart Lord Shihai is willing to help others.

But. One thing is completely certain. If Lord Shi Hai has this mind, he will definitely be able to do it. Because, he is already the first to overcome habits. In this case, there is no reason for him to lose to habit again. In this case, if others come to him for help, whether it is profit or righteousness, he will accept it.

The reason is simple. To the people outside, Lord Shi Hai seems to be a cruel person, but in fact, his cruelty has something to do with his profession. When he was on a mission, or when he was participating in a jousting tournament, he was indeed cruel. Because, if you don't do this, you won't be able to complete the task and won't be able to win the championship.

However, the reverse actually makes sense. If he did, no one would dare stop him. In this case, it is completely understandable that everyone has a bad impression of him. It's just that, in fact, Lord Shihai is still very caring behind his back, if it weren't for that, he wouldn't have the charm to attract me.

It's just that his kindness is something that ordinary people can't see. Only when you are a fan of him will you understand and experience it. Because, only when you are a fan of him, do you have the energy and heart to observe. And if you don't observe some small details, you won't be able to see them.

This is a nature that cannot be changed no matter what. Although Lord Shi Hai is good at changing himself, the deepest ones will not change. For example, the principle of being a man. If even the principles of being a human being can be changed, then this person is not normal. If this person has no principles, he will not be respected by others.

Only those who maintain their principles and adhere to them are the ones that everyone likes to befriend. And why principles are so important is actually related to a person's creditworthiness. In the past, when the earth civilization was in the past, there was no concept of credibility, but our federation now has it.

Because, if a person's credit is zero, then he will not survive in the Federation, unless he starves to death, or is in prison. Either flee to the Empire. Unless this is the case, ah, such a person will not be able to live normally in the Federation.

Since this is the case, in this case, if there is still an unexpected accident, such an accident is not Lord Shi Hai, if you want to continue the confrontation, there is only one way. That's the Alliance. It's like our current federation. Unite one person after another.

In this way, people will have an instinctive sense of dependence on such a collective. Because, there are a lot of people in the team. And if there are enough people, then the power will become stronger. If you become stronger, things will be much easier in the future. What's more, as long as things are easy to do, it will be easier in the future.

Isn't the reason why the Federation is powerful is because one person unites with another, and the other person unites with another person. In this way, everyone joins together, like a map impose. It's just a piece, of course, it's useless, but once there's more, it's different.

When the number increases, it can be spliced into something very large, thick, and powerful. For example, various means of transportation. Isn't the hovercar one of those things? There's a lot more to it. For example, refrigerators that allow people to keep air conditioning are also very important.

Although it is said that the combined things are not life, when our people are united one after another, they are as strong as the walls of human flesh. In this case, doesn't ordinary people feel a sense of dependence when they see it? It seems that as long as they join, they can always gain a sense of security.

They're definitely going to opt in. If you choose to refuse, you will only say that such a person is a very smart person. Because, only a smart person is a calm person. And as long as you are calm, you will not blindly follow. The smarter people are, the less likely they are to trust others, even though it doesn't seem like a good habit. Because, if you don't want to trust others, it means that this person's character is not good.

But in fact, the truth is quite the opposite. If a person is prone to trust others, it is easy to trust others. In addition, if you can live a good life in this era, it can only mean that this is a good era. But, in fact, are good times really the way they are now?

Not at all. I can say with certainty that in a good era, there will never be any nouveau riche. Even if everyone's life is really good, it is impossible for these people to appear. Because, the emergence of the nouveau riche means that these people have taken advantage of any gaps, either legal loopholes or policy loopholes, in short, it is very troublesome.

And, most troublesomely, such a person will appear to indicate that there is something wrong with society. A really good era is that everyone can have money, but there is a normal way to increase money, and there is no way to have nouveau riche.

The money of the nouveau riche comes from the wrong source. Therefore, everyone's income has increased steadily, and there are no nouveau riche, which means that the society is better. But these are clearly not in line with the current federation. Therefore, in this era, if an unintelligent person can be very good, but also blindly obey, it is almost impossible.

Blind obedience will only bring great losses. It's just that the types of losses are different, some good and some bad. Therefore, in this case, it is actually easy to understand. It is easy for a person who is skeptical of everything to live well in an era like the Commonwealth.

And if you don't, it's weird now. Because, a person who is unwilling to question anything, the end result is that he can't understand anything, can't figure it out. In the end, it's just a fool for other people. To put it simply, it is to live in other people's lies for the rest of your life.

What's the meaning of such a life? I don't know what is real. One more point to be clear. In the current era, honest people can't eat it. If it were an empire, perhaps honest people would be more popular. Because, the thinking there is more conservative.

However, not in my federation. The more honest a person is, the more likely they are to be bullied, and the more easily they are bullied, the more they don't know how to resist others. Therefore, in our federation, only those who know how to resist can mix well. And it's those smart people who have been bullying the stupid.

So, in other words, if you want to fight smart people, you have to make yourself smart too. And to do that, you have to start by changing yourself first. And this is related to how Lord Shi Hai changed his experience in the past. However, it is not enough to connect.

The most important thing is to connect with the later parts. That's the key. If it's just a connection, it doesn't matter what happens in the future. If you give it completely to others, it is tantamount to pinning your hopes on others, which is absolutely impossible. If you think about it from another angle, it is actually understandable.

Because, if a person cannot even believe in himself, how can he believe in others? Therefore, these people who pin their hopes on others, and prefer to believe in others rather than themselves, are in fact hypocrites. In other words, such a person will not end up well.

Do they believe that other people are real? It's also false. Saying that believing others is just an excuse, so that you can have an object of blame when you fail in the future, and you can justifiably say so. I don't blame me for that. I trusted that person so much at first, but you have all seen what the result is. Blame me now?

It shouldn't be, it's supposed to be that person's pot. What does this have to do with me. I've tried hard, I've tried to trust others, do you know how hard it is? I don't even want to believe myself, I'd rather believe in others, that's the best effort I made at that time.

But what is the result? You all know that. Failed. So, in my opinion, it's better if I don't try hard. Anyway, it's useless for me to try. Because, it's not that I haven't worked hard, I've really worked hard. If my efforts are useless, why should I continue to work hard?

I'm not stupid, and I don't want people to laugh at me. I don't want to be stupid. I just want to live a better life. However, life ruthlessly gave me a no-yes answer. If I don't accept it honestly, what will happen to me? I'll just make everybody laugh. ”