Chapter 834 Understood
And Lu Yuanhua was silent after listening to it, time passed like a cloud of smoke, although Lu Yuanhua did not reply to Su Xiaowan a letter, but he never forgot Su Xiaowan in his heart. Pen | fun | pavilion www. biquge。 info
It's just that Lu Yuanhua knows even more that there are some things that he can't be forced to ask for, he is just thinking that now that he is sick, he will indulge himself like this, give himself some vacation, and let him be willful this time......
He has lived in a regular life since he was a child, a child of a family, and there are many rules and regulations, although he joined the army, but he only did his best to be a good soldier, he never did anything against discipline.
has always adhered to his duty, it is estimated that Su Xiaowan may be the catastrophe in his life, he can't get over this catastrophe, but, in the same way, he doesn't have the courage to struggle to break the shackles he laid on himself, so he is in pain, so he has no solution.
Lu Yuanhua can only give himself a little relief like this, he is very glad that Su Xiaowan's intelligence will not let him be tortured too much, he followed the content of Su Xiaowan's letter with joy and sorrow, and spent his most difficult time, but Su Xiaowan was not affected by it at all.
Although Lu Yuanhua did not reply to her a letter, Huang Yuerong would write to her regularly to tell her about Lu Yuanhua's recent situation.
Su Xiaowan knew that writing a letter to Lu Yuanhua might not have a good impact, but Su Xiaowan had no way to ignore Lu Yuanhua, who was her life-saver.
Especially after giving birth to three little ones, the gratitude cannot be expressed in words, if it weren't for Lu Yuanhua's protection, she and her children would have entered Huangquan long ago.
Su Xiaowan knew that she couldn't repay herself, and she couldn't even make a personal promise, so she could only write some articles and stories every day and mail them to Lu Yuanhua to help him relieve his boredom.
As for what kind of mood Lu Yuanhua felt when he received Su Xiaowan's reply, some people may even think that Su Xiaowan was too cruel to do this, knowing that the other party likes him, he always writes letters to others, and the other party who flirts can't forget her, etc......
These, in Su Xiaowan's view, are all trivial, a person is not afraid of hardship, what he is most afraid of is the loneliness of the soul, although Su Xiaowan can't accompany Lu Yuanhua, but she is willing to give him meager strength at the lowest point in his life.
When he recovers, maybe his mood will change, maybe one day he will be enlightened and transparent, and he may find someone he likes.
However, it was not for her to let Su Xiaowan forget about Su Xiaowan, it was too cruel to Lu Yuanhua, what injury was more painful than a knife from someone she liked?
If it was a stranger, Su Xiaowan wouldn't mind doing this, it had nothing to do with her anyway, but in the face of Lu Yuanhua, a life-saving benefactor who had been taking care of her more, Su Xiaowan couldn't do anything.
However, judging from Lu Yuanhua's performance, he is a very self-controlled person, he accepted Su Xiaowan's kindness, and did not reply to the letter, which means that he is willing to let go, he can let go, he has been honing himself like this, to hint at himself, Su Xiaowan understands him.......
Therefore, it is a very good and very important thing to accompany the other person to grow up, to be able to entertain him, and to give him enough space and time to heal himself.
Having said that, after Chief Leng and her wife left that night, Su Xiaowan breathed a sigh of relief, and even her aunt and others were also relieved, no matter how much this child suffers with his relatives, it is better than enjoying happiness with the other party.
People live in the world, not only material enjoyment, but also spiritual, moreover, material is easy to obtain, but the soul is difficult to find.
The mother's companionship is the most important, and in childhood, before the age of three is the early childhood, the mother's companionship is the most needed.
The child in this period, because of the mother's love and care to develop her attachment relationship, developed well, the child will benefit a lot throughout his life.
Otherwise, it will lead to deficiency, why are so many people insecure, moody, indifferent, sensitive and irritable, some of which are congenital and some are acquired.
Some mothers don't know how to get along with their children, some mothers are moody and think that their children are young and ignorant, and some mothers are impatient with their children, so they lose their temper with their children, or they are hot and cold.
These are the root causes, a person in a normal secure attachment relationship, who feels comfortable with intimacy and interdependence, who is optimistic and outgoing, and who is willing to participate in social activities, grows up confident and positive.
However, a person who is worried or fearful has a very big gap with a safe person, and it is a very big communication barrier for Cao Cheng in the society in the future.
Those who don't bring their own children after giving birth, and leave them to their mothers-in-law and mothers-in-law, or nannies to take them, not to mention orphans, although sometimes they have to do it, but there will be some problems, and these problems will be made up for the day after tomorrow, but it is extremely difficult, and some even accompany them for a lifetime......
Although Su Xiaowan doesn't know much about this, her nature as a mother understands that children must be brought by themselves.
That night, Su Xiaowan and Han Dongchen were naturally indispensable, of course, Su Xiaowan had just given birth to a child for a month, so naturally they couldn't have sex together, but they hadn't seen each other for a few days, and their longing was overflowing, and the two had more affection.
After everything was processed, Su Xiaowan wrote another letter to Lu Yuanhua and asked Han Dongchen to bring it to be mailed.
Han Dongchen looked at the letter and said melancholy: "Daughter-in-law, how long do you have to write this? Don't you think it's cruel to let your man send letters to his rival every day?"
Su Xiaowan held Chi Chi in his arms, and after feeding, he looked at Han Dongchen and said, "Yes, why do I think you are complacent, thinking in your heart, your rival is going to be uncomfortable again?"
Han Dongchen blinked, coughed twice and said, "Where is it, am I that kind of person?"
Then when Su Xiaowan was caught off guard, he kissed her, glared at the little thing in his arms fiercely, and went to work with an unhappy face.
And Su Xiaowan hugged his son Chichi helplessly, this Han Dongchen is really getting more and more out of shape, why did his son provoke him?
The youngest son Chichi returned safely, everyone was very happy, Aunt Le's mouth couldn't be closed, and he hadn't seen him for many days, although the little guy was weak and thinner than his brothers and sisters, but he also looked a little opener, and his eyes looked like Su Xiaowan, but this little face was very similar to Han Dongchen.
The three children are very handsome, although they are still young, but they look very rare, their eyes are so big and bright, their faces are delicate, their noses are small, their mouths are pink, and they want to kiss them.
If other families could have one of them, they would burn high incense, but Su Xiaowan's family has three villains like this, which is really envious of others.