This bear child, how can he say anything, Su Xiaowan is angry on the side, and as soon as Tangtang's words fell, the living room was silent for a second, and Tangtang seemed to feel that something was wrong, but she didn't understand what was wrong.

So, he turned his head to look at Su Xiaowan and found that his mother's face was so ugly, and her eyes were so terrible.

And at this time, it was obviously not the time to educate Tangtang's bear child, and he was just about to say something, but at this time, Xiao Changchang, who was always in the family, suddenly ran in front of her mother and said angrily to Tangtang: "You can't say that about my mother, it's rude for you to do this." ”

Suddenly the atmosphere became tense, and Tangtang was not afraid of someone talking, she was afraid that no one would pick up, she didn't feel that she was at fault, so she raised her little face and said: "Why am I not polite, I am telling the truth, when I was in class, there was a child who was not good at talking, and he was beaten by the teacher, and he didn't dare from then on." ”

"Our teacher said, this is for his good, why are you murdering me, hum, I'm not afraid of you. ”

When Guoguo heard this, she also echoed and said: "Yes, Tangtang is right, the teacher beat him so hard that he cried." ”

As soon as Tangtang and Guoguo's words fell, everyone breathed a sigh of relief, and the second aunt hurriedly came over to play a round and said, "Eh, it turns out that Tangtang means this, it's your brother Chang who misunderstood you, Changchang, why don't you apologize to your sister soon?"

Song Shichang's little friend blushed and wanted to say something, but he was glared at by his second aunt and didn't dare to speak, and Song Yonggu's cousin's sister-in-law turned even redder, and she didn't know what to do.

Su Xiaowan was even more ashamed at the moment and couldn't wait to find a crack in the ground to get into, so she hurriedly stood up and said: "Second aunt, cousin, I'm not good, this kid is talking nonsense, I didn't discipline it well, Changchang is right to protect his mother, it's your sister Tangtang, Tangtang, apologize to your aunt and your little brother." ”

Tangtang was said in the clouds, and the second uncle and grandmother said that it was not her fault, why did she apologize? However, when she turned her head and saw her mother's stern expression, her momentum was a little lower, but she was stubborn, she didn't think there was anything wrong, and she would never apologize.

Therefore, there is no intention of apologizing at all when he tilts his head, Su Xiaowan's face turned red with direct anger, and Han Dongchen also sank his face on the side, but this is in someone else's house, educating children in someone else's house, what has happened.

When the second aunt saw it, she immediately smiled and said: "Eh, look at you, what are you angry about, the child's unintentional words, she is only five years old, what do you know? ”

At this time, Song Yonggu's cousin-in-law also said with a smile on her face: "Cousin, cousin, don't, don't, don't, don't blame Tangtang, no, no, it's okay." ”

This cousin-in-law is actually a very good person, with a good temperament and kindness, but she has a little trouble talking, and the more nervous she is, the more difficult it is to speak.

And after she said this, Su Xiaowan's face was even more panicked, and the second aunt took some candy melon seeds or something at this time, let everyone eat, and said while taking it: "Xiaowan, you and Dongchen come to the house for the first time, don't be polite to your aunt, just do what you want, let the children go to the side to play, we haven't seen each other for a few days, chat." ”

Su Xiaowan smiled very unnaturally and said, "Second aunt, you talk first, I'll go to the bathroom." ”

After that, he said to Tangtang, "Tangtang, go with Mom." ”

Tangtang was a little unhappy, but she seemed to be bold, although she didn't understand why her mother was angry, but after thinking about it, she felt that she hadn't done anything wrong, so she had the courage to follow.

Although she was also beaten at home, every time she was beaten for a reason, and her mother almost never beat her outside, and her mother once said that she had to learn to stick to her own point of view, and if she thought there was nothing wrong, she had to persevere, unless someone else was more reasonable than her.

Tangtang has always done a good job in this matter, so she is very stubborn and assertive, and similarly, at a young age, her self-confidence has been cultivated very well.

However, children who are assertive and confident are generally naughty, but this naughty is also for adults, and children do not feel that they are naughty.

Why are adults angry? It's because children don't do what adults want them to do, out of their control.

Not to mention that adults like to control children, from behavior to language to thoughts, they want to be in control, and at the same time, adults also want to control everything about adults.

Otherwise, why are there so many quarreling couples, quarreling families, quarreling colleagues, neighbors, and the reason for the quarrel is just a trivial matter, in fact, it is very simple, they all want each other, like themselves, to listen to each other, this is to want to control everything.

If you are not satisfied, you will get angry and you will use arguments to solve the problem.

And Su Xiaowan's family is no exception, but Su Xiaowan is angry, but she will control her temper as much as possible, even if the children embarrass her and lose face outside.

She will not do such a barbaric and rude thing as directly denying the child, or directly getting angry and hitting her directly.

Parents are the first teachers of children and bear the important responsibility of understanding the world and society.

So Su Xiaowan needs to have a good talk with Tangtang, and many children will be very timid after feeling the changes in their parents' emotions, because, in the children's world, parents are the absolute authority.

However, what is rare is that although Tangtang is timid, she is very brave.

Tangtang, this kid is curious, and he is still a straight person, he can't hide what he says, which makes Su Xiaowan very helpless.

However, Su Xiaowan also knows what a five-year-old doll knows? She is the age of curiosity, and it is also the time when she can't hide her joys, angers and sorrows, psychologists say that childhood is the period closest to the self, following the principle of happiness, so she can't think too much about it.

Therefore, at this time, it is very necessary for parents to be patient and guided, not because the child outside has lost her people, and as soon as her temper comes up, suddenly there is a storm, so that the child cannot find the north.

Su Xiaowan knew that she might not be the best at what she did, but she would try her best to do it and try her best to control her temper, so when she went to the bathroom, although she was very angry, she still whispered: "Tangtang, do you know what mistake you made just now, why did your brother Xiaochang say that you don't know how to be polite?"

Hearing this, Tangtang frowned at a young age, and said with a little bun with a wrinkled face: "Mom, Brother Xiaochang is because I said those words of my aunt, but I thought about it, I was right." ”